Ditched the diaper bag a few kids ago and never looked back. Got the most epic conversion purse (tote or crossbody nurse to backpack in 1 seconds with no unclipping required!) and paired it with some quality packing bags. Now I can transition from mom to me in seconds with the swap of a pouch or two! Pouches linked here! Purse is Rough and Tumble Hobo Pack in the double zip, size large, color crimini. They’re pricey, but they’re hand made kn the USA and quality. I purchased mine second hand, check places like FB marketplace if you’d like!