golden_and_gathered's Date Night Collection on LTK

Date Night

By golden_and_gathered

Real-life date night looks for women 40+

Date night in your 40s doesn’t need to be complicated. It can be as simple as a pair of jeans, a silky cami, and a cute bag.

#LTKOver40

Date Night Fit (weeknight edition):

💕Linen pants from Boston Proper (wearing an XS)
💕Shaping cami from Underoutfit (wearing a medium)
💕Sweater for the cold restaurants from Amazon (wearing a medium)
💕Shoes from Sam Edelman
💕 & a new bag from Amazon that was super affordable and is really great!

#LTKOver40

Hubby and I went to dueling pianos at the country club last night and had lots of fun! I had planned to go with a dressier look, but then decided I just really wanted to be comfortable since we were going to be there a while.

I wore my Pistola jeans, thrifted top, and my fun multicolored clutch.

These jeans. OMG. I’m so glad I kept these! Love love love the color! I paired them with my Underoutfit lifting cami and my Z Supply button up shirt. Ended up not wearing the button up because it was a million degrees in the restaurant. 🥵

I vary between a 27/28 in jeans and am wearing a 28 in these but really probably needed a 27. They do have a long inseam and are great for the tall girls! I’m 5’8” and have a wedge heel on.

Wearing a medium in the shaping cami. Reminder - Underoutfit has a sale going until July 6 - buy 3 items, get 1 free!

#LTKOver40

Kept date night casual this week with my favorite new dress from Marine Layer. I cannot get enough of this dress - it’s so soft and so comfy, but still so feminine.

I paired it with my denim jacket (linked similar options), one of my favorite Amazon bags, and a pair of sandals.

Dress runs true to size and you will not regret adding it to your closet!

#LTKOver40

I wasn’t expecting to feel like Jessica Rabbit when I put this dress on, but that’s exactly what happened!

I did size up to a medium in this one for a little looser fit, but I think the small may have snatched me in even more. So if you want the full snatch, go with your normal size…if you want a more comfy feel, size up.

(Post contains gifted product)

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The polished lazy guide to date night - wear a set! Add a layer, grab a cute bag, and you’re ready to head out the door with minimal effort while still looking polished

Top and pants - wearing a small. The Viscata wedges are amazing and run true to size. I’d say if you’re between sizes, go up. Bag is Rough & Tumble and not able to be linked, unfortunately

I promise to not wear these jeans tomorrow.
Maybe.

But look at this cute new bag I got! It’s on clearance right now, so grab it if you love it!

Dress Gifted by Aumora.💕
This dress felt a little more Vegas than my actual life, so I added a blazer to make it feel more like me. Sometimes one grounding piece is all it takes to make an outfit go from “nah” to “mmmkay.”

I’m wearing a medium in the dress…if you’re between sizes, go up.

I can’t believe how cold it is! It was so nice and now it’s freezing and soooo windy!

I’m going with this sweater because it was still out, and paired it with this silky skirt. I wasn’t sure about the boots, but I think they’ll do!

30 Days of Real Outfits | Day 16

Can this vintage top work for date night?

I paired it with dark Pistola flared jeans, heeled suede boots, and my favorite Amazon bag. What do you think - does it work? I feel like this is a top you either love or hate!

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Follow along with me as I, a 44yo homeschool mom, get dressed every day for 30 days to beat the hibernating instinct of winter. I’ll link everything I can (or something similar) in my ShopMy and LTK. 🩷

#30daysofoutfits #40sstyle

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