If I could talk to 32-year-old me, I’d say: Yes, be overdressed next to your husband. That’s the point. Buy the faux or vintage fur, it changes everything. Permanent makeup > anything in your Sephora cart. And if people whisper when you walk in, relax. You didn’t do anything wrong — you did something right. This took me 10 years to learn. hope this is your shortcut xx