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Girl to girl, let me share this advice. Build a life for yourself that you are proud of. It may not seem like a big thing at first, but in the end it will assure your castle stays your own!

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Girl to girl, let me share this advice. Build a life for yourself that you are proud of. It may not seem like a big thing at first, but in the end it will assure your castle stays your own! silkslipdress lifeafterdivorce 40andfabulous americaninparis femaleempowerment

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Yes, I did follow the man down the stairs, please don’t tell my sister 😂

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Everything in life is a trade off in my opinion.
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Just giving credit where credit is due.

Spent the last few days sipping champagne in Reims, France and I 10/10 recommend you do that too.

Save on my earrings and EVERYTHING else at @shoplinnyco by using my code HBO15

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Come along with me for a day at the Museum. My visit to Musée d’Orsay was incredible.
Dress; @commense.official
Belt: @madewell
Shoes @rothys
Bag; @longchamp
Earrings: @shoplinnyco
Necklace: @baublebar
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My Pilates day look here in Paris.

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The skincare tool I use every morning. This ice roller helps depuff, cool, soothe, and refresh my skin in minutes. I keep it in the freezer for an instant pick me up that makes my morning routine feel like a spa treatment. Perfect before makeup, after workouts, or whenever your skin needs a refresh.

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This week’s trending finds that are worth adding to your wardrobe. From the perfect polka dot slip dress and white halter mini dress to a classic white blazer, everyday cardigan, oversized tote, statement sunglasses, and a chic straw hat, these are timeless pieces you’ll reach for all season. Perfect for vacation outfits, summer style, workwear, brunch, travel, and everyday outfits.

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LThis polka dot midi dress is the definition of effortless femininity. Featuring a flattering smocked bodice, adjustable straps, and a flowy tiered silhouette, it’s the perfect dress for vacations, brunch, bridal showers, baby showers, date nights, and warm summer days. Easy to style with sandals, ballet flats, or heels for an elevated yet timeless look.

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The navy midi dress you’ll wear on repeat. Flattering fit, adjustable straps, and the perfect silhouette for weddings, vacation, date nights, brunch, and everyday chic. A timeless wardrobe staple that looks effortlessly elevated with heels, sandals, or sneakers.

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The perfect tailored layer for a polished, elevated wardrobe. This structured sleeveless blazer vest features a flattering tailored fit, timeless notched collar, premium fabric, functional welt pockets, and classic button front closure. Style it with trousers, denim, skirts, or shorts for an effortlessly chic outfit that works from the office to dinner and everywhere in between.

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Heading to Veuve Cliquot in Reims, France and this is what I am wearing.
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@Janessa Leone Hat
Gucci Bag
Amazon Evil Eye sunglasses chain
Chanel su glasses
@crocs sandals

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Effortless, elevated, and endlessly versatile. This white halter mini dress is the kind of staple you’ll wear on repeat from brunch to vacation dinners. The flattering high neckline and clean silhouette make it easy to style with sandals, heels, or a woven tote.

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The perfect black and white midi dress for effortless summer style 🤍🖤 This Aritzia dress features a flattering square neckline, a fitted bodice, and a flowy skirt that makes it the ultimate capsule wardrobe staple. Whether you’re dressing it up with heels for dinner or keeping it casual with sandals, this timeless two tone dress is a piece you’ll reach for all season long.

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My fashion in France!
@Quince maxi slip dress & Mongolian cashmere cardigan over my shoulders
@rothys cap toe sling backs
Diff sunglassses
Longchamp bag
BaubleBar necklace
@Ana Luisa earrings

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I just gasp and feel so fortunate every time

This heatwave, is real tough. Thank the sweet lord that the weather is finally passing, at least for a while. Hear my fun little realization at the end!

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The things you will try when it’s one million degrees outside!
This heatwave, is real tough. Thank the sweet lord that the weather is finally passing, at least for a while. Hear my fun little realization at the end!

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Just casually strolling around Paris

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Proof that you really can change your life at any age. 💋

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What I wore to run around Paris today!

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Oh! This is what I wore last night.
When I got dressed it was the winner at the time!

The best ice roller!

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Proof that you really can change your life at any age. 💋

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There’s something strange about starting over in a city where nobody knows your story.

No one here knows who I used to be.
No one knows the versions of me that survived.
And maybe that’s part of why Paris feels so meaningful to me right now.

This isn’t just a travel diary. It’s the beginning of a chapter about freedom, reinvention, healing, beauty, loneliness, courage, softness, and learning how to fully live again after spending years just trying to survive.

I wanted this first piece to feel honest. Like sitting across from a friend over wine and telling them what this experience actually feels like, not just the polished Instagram version.

So if you’ve ever wondered what it looks like to rebuild yourself in real time… this is for you.

The first entry of The Freedom Era: Paris Diaries is now live on my blog. Comment LINK and I will send you a direct link to my entry.

With Love,
Heather
📸 @photoshoots_paris

Dress: @chicwish
Trench: @sam_edelman via @nordstrom
Cashmere Cardigan: @onequince
Shoes: @rothys
Necklace: @baublebar
Bow: @maison.caillau

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Five Aritzia summer dresses I packed for my summer in Europe!
All dresses and accessories linked!

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The perfect lightweight polka dot dress for summer! This @Aritzia Wilfred dress feels as cozy as it is cute. Perfect summer dress for your euro summer, running the kids to swimming lessons, date night or just brunch with the girls! I paired it with my @Margaux Mary Jane flats and simple jewelry.

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OOTD summer dress
I love this full skirt navy dress from @Aritzia I paired it with simple jewelry and my rothys!

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Summer blazer dress by Aritzia for your ootd
Fitted style could be good at a cafe in Paris, a board meeting at home, lunch with the girls. Feel chic and timeless!
Rothys captoe flats

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OOTD little white dress edition
White linen @Aritzia halter linen mini dress
Paired with @shoplinnyco earrings (code HBO15 to save)
White rubber Gucci sandals
White Gucci mini Diana bag
Diff 90s sunglasses

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Summer Dress Look!
Perfect for your euro summer or anywhere you are! This dress is so comfy, the top is fitted and a compression material so i easily only used a @NOOD light and airy sticky bra! Also the dress has pockets! I paired it with some @Margaux Mary Jane flats and my Gucci Diana bag! OOTD

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