After having a baby I’ve learned the things that I feel are essential! I borrowed a lot of KEY items the first time around because, let’s be real, having your first baby and getting all the things is EXPENSIVE! Thankfully I had that option to borrow things and now I know which things I truly want to have in my arsenal for more babies to come! There are also things listed here that I need with my growing family (second seat for my stroller, a monitor with a split screen and two cameras). Things I’ve learned I need: a good soft light for nursing in the middle of the night! Things I’ve borrowed that I NEED in my arsenal: Rolling utility cart for bedside postpartum, baby gear and nursing gear, nursing pillow, snuggle me, bassinet that opens up to the bed. Right now is the time with all the Black Friday deals!! LTKSaleAlert LTKBaby LTKFamily