If you need me, you’ll find me in these PJs. They are like literal butter 😍 I would size down in the pants if you want them more “long John” fit and size up if you decide to go with the women’s top. I actually got a men’s top because it’s longer, which I prefer! In which case, size down at least 1 if not 2 sizes. Bottoms: Women’s XXL Top: Men’s L If you’re buying a family set, you can probably size down for the men’s sizes! LTKSeasonal LTKmomlife LTKHoliday