I wore a simple scarf yesterday and my DMs were filled with, “I have scarves like that but I never wear them,” or “they feel too fancy.” Here’s my hot take. ✨ Be fancy. 👉🏼 Stop waiting for a special occasion. You are the special occasion. So many women hold onto pieces they love but never wear because they’re waiting for permission. A beautiful scarf. A standout shoe. A dressy top. They sit in the closet while you wait for the “right” moment. But wearing the pieces you love isn’t about being extra. It’s about what it does for you. If something makes you feel confident, aligned, powerful, or a little elevated… wear it. 🌟Wear it to work. 🌟Wear it on a Tuesday. 🌟Wear it because it helps you show up as the version of yourself that is ready, intentional, and grounded. Being the most polished person in the room is not a bad thing. Feeling confident is a win. The only problem is waiting for a mythical perfect moment instead of choosing yourself today. You are the fancy. You are the moment. Wear what you love and let the room adjust. If you want a wardrobe that feels aligned with your life and gives you that spark every day, message me or grab my book The Style Advantage: I Say What HR Can’t. LTKstorytime LTKPlusSize LTKMidsize

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