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So many great finds, but they’re selling fast! We’re loving these pieces and know they won’t stick around for long. If you’ve had your eye on something, now is definitely the time to grab it.

#LTKSeasonal #LTKOver40 #LTKMidsize

So many great finds, but they’re selling fast! We’re loving these pieces and know they won’t stick around for long. If you’ve had your eye on something, now is definitely the time to grab it. LTKSeasonal LTKOver40 LTKMidsize

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Organic Waxed Cotton Cropped Barn Jacket | Quince

Faux Fur Maxi Wrap Coat | Quince

100% Organic Cotton Cable Crewneck Sweater | Quince

100% Organic Cotton Waffle Stitch Open Cardigan | Quince

100% Organic Cotton Striped Henley Sweater | Quince

Organic Waxed Cotton Cropped Barn Jacket | Quince

Italian Leather Slingback Flat | Quince

Mongolian Cashmere Structured V-Neck Cardigan | Quince

Bella Stretch Relaxed Straight Jeans in Obsidian Blue | Quince

Mongolian Cashmere Cropped Crew Cardigan in Heather Vintage Pink / Brown Variegated Stripe | Quince

Quince | Women's Washable Stretch Silk Puff Sleeve Blouse in Hot Fudge, Size Large, Mulberry Silk | Quince

Sabine Crossbody | Quince

Lightweight Cotton Cashmere Link-Stitch Dolman Sweater | Quince

Luna Stretch Relaxed Straight Jeans in Atlantic Blue | Quince

Things so good I’d buy them twice.

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I’m in my 50s now, and here’s something wild: I look better than I did in my 30s and 40s.

For years I didn’t even realize how much I’d let myself fade into the background. Skipping the mirror instead of looking in it. Putting everyone else’s needs before my own, every single day.

Turning it around wasn’t one big overhaul. It was small, daily acts of choosing myself — the right fit over the “safe” size, sun rays instead of something to erase, showing up as me instead of hiding.

Your 50s aren’t a decline. They’re a return to yourself. Here are some of the things that helped me!

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Everything on my list for spring

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And you should too!

I trained for hours. I competed for a Big Ten program. My body could do things most people’s couldn’t — power through a swing, hold steady under pressure, show up again and again. And still, I couldn’t see it. Not the strength. Not the beauty. All I could see was what it wasn’t.

Because the only bodies I was ever shown as “the standard” weren’t real. The models in the magazines I grew up comparing myself to weren’t just smaller than me — statistically, they were in the most underweight 1% of women. Not average. Not even something a body is built to look like. But I didn’t know that. I just knew I wasn’t that, and I let it mean something was wrong with me.

Then there were the comments. Offhand ones, from guys who probably don’t even remember saying them. About my thighs. About being strong instead of small — said like it was an insult. Like an athlete’s body was something to apologize for instead of something to be proud of. And I let those throwaway comments live in me for years. Longer than any of them deserved.

It took until I was 54 to finally put it down.

For decades I dressed to disappear — to not take up too much space, to not draw the wrong kind of attention, to just get through the day unnoticed. And somewhere in the last few years, without even realizing exactly when it happened, that flipped. I stopped dressing to disappear. I started dressing to stand out.

I’m not invisible. I never was. I just spent a long time trying to be.

Not anymore.

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This muted pink quilted jacket from Amazon is such a pretty layer for fall. Paired with a cozy matching set, it keeps the look comfortable and casual while adding the sweetest pop of color. I’d reach for this combo for errands, travel days, or just an easy everyday outfit.

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My most asked about travel outfit! Super soft fleece!

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Amazing bag! Must be a close out because everything is the same down to the tags.

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Such a great outfit for easing into fall! We love the combination and how easy it is to wear for everyday plans. This is definitely a look we’ll be reaching for as the seasons change.

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Fall looks!

Wearing
Size medium top
Size medium dress
Size medium jacket
Size 30 jeans
Boot TTS

Cutest shirt!

Wearing size medium top
30 jeans
Boots tts

Anthro fall ogie!

Size large sweater
Jeans size 30
Shirt size large
Boots tts

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Target looks like Madewelll and we love it

Great looks from Anthro!

Dress size medium
Fringe jacket med
Sweater large
Denim shirt large
Jeans size 30
Boots TTS!

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2 Trends this Fall
1. Knit scarf sweaters!
2. Argyle everything!

Wearing size medium in sweaters and 30 in jeans. Size 10 in shirts

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We love adding a necklace for a little pop of color! The gold detailing makes it easy to pair with so many different outfits and adds just the right finishing touch. It’s one of those accessories you can throw on whenever your outfit needs a little something extra.

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This denim dress is one of those pieces that makes getting dressed so easy. It works just as well for everyday plans and lunch dates as it does for a casual fall weekend, and you can easily switch up the accessories and shoes to change the look. Comfortable, versatile, and definitely a piece I’ll be reaching for on repeat.

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OOTD at the dealership, so we decided to glam it up a little! For us, that means a cute outfit and keeping our nutrition on track with AG1. We love finding simple ways to feel good and put together, even on a busy day.

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Our OOTD is all about comfort today! We’re wearing the softest set, and it’s perfect for running errands, school drop offs, or keeping up with a busy day. We love having an outfit like this that feels comfortable while still looking cute and put together.

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5 trending denim styles that are worth knowing about! Keeping up with current trends, especially when it comes to jeans, is one of my favorite ways to keep my wardrobe feeling fresh and current.

1. Wide leg twist, my favorite for fall
2. Mini barrel
3. Wide leg
4. Relaxed straight leg
5. Brown denim

I linked each style at two different price points, so there’s an option for every budget. I’m wearing a size 30 in all of these.

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These Nordstrom finds have us so ready for fall! We’re loving the burgundy striped cardigan, flowy tops, midi dress, and versatile jeans for creating so many different outfits. There are so many great pieces here to mix, match, and wear all season long.

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T+T, what to wear! We’re pairing this beautiful burgundy Nordstrom top with flared jeans, burgundy slingback heels, and simple gold accessories for a festive look. It’s such a cute option for a work party when we want to feel dressed up while still keeping things comfortable.

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I put these outfits together and thought they look like a Ralph Lauren catalog from
The 80’s!

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My picks from the new arrivals.

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At 54, we’ve learned that we don’t need to wait for our bodies to look a certain way before we let ourselves feel beautiful. We’ve raised kids, lived through hard seasons, and learned to appreciate these bodies for everything they’ve carried us through. So yes, we’re putting on the dress, enjoying the moment, and choosing to feel confident exactly as we are.

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This Target sweater comes in so many fun colors, making it easy to find one for your favorite team! We love how cute and comfortable it is for game day. Pair it with jeans, your favorite accessories, and you’re ready to cheer on your team.

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Amazon has so many cute early fall finds right now! We love adding a few cozy accents and seasonal touches to make our home feel ready for fall. A few simple updates can bring in the season without changing the whole look of our space.

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Go Blue OOTD with the fam!

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This Elemis hand wash is one of our favorite little everyday luxuries! It feels gentle and nourishing, especially when our hands are feeling dry, without leaving them feeling stripped. Such a nice upgrade to keep by the sink and make an everyday routine feel a little more special.

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Let’s get ready for fall travel and everyday adventures! We’re big fans of Varley because their sets are incredibly comfortable while still making us feel put together. These are the outfits we love having on hand for travel days, running errands, and relaxing at home.

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Target looks like Madewell and we love it.

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We’re loving this set and are so happy it’s back in stock in this pretty butter yellow! The cheerful color makes it such a fun and easy set to wear. Definitely one we’ll be reaching for again and again.

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The Mackenzie Childs Sky Check collection adds such a pretty touch to our lake home! We love the soft blue tones and classic check pattern, especially when we’re hosting friends and family for lake weekends. These pieces make setting the table and entertaining feel a little more special.

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POV: We don’t usually reach for shorts, but these changed our minds! They’re comfortable, flattering, and give us the coverage we want while still looking cute. We finally found a pair that makes us feel good wearing shorts again.

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This necklace is such a pretty finishing touch! We love how it adds just a little something extra to any outfit without being over the top. It’s one of those pieces we can see ourselves wearing with so many different looks.

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We didn’t expect an overnight sheet mask to make such a difference, but the BIODANCE Bio Collagen Real Deep Mask really impressed us! Our skin feels so hydrated and refreshed in the morning, with that healthy, glowy look we love. Such a fun skincare find to add to our nighttime routine.

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