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3 years ago at this very spot, I posted an OOTD and woke up the next morning to 10,000 new followers. It’s been a wild and fun ride getting to share it with my sis and you! Xoxo

Wearing large in all!

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3 years ago at this very spot, I posted an OOTD and woke up the next morning to 10,000 new followers. It’s been a wild and fun ride getting to share it with my sis and you! Xoxo Wearing large in all! LTKdayinmylife LTKgrwm LTKOver40

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I’m in my 50s now, and here’s something wild: I look better than I did in my 30s and 40s.

For years I didn’t even realize how much I’d let myself fade into the background. Skipping the mirror instead of looking in it. Putting everyone else’s needs before my own, every single day.

Turning it around wasn’t one big overhaul. It was small, daily acts of choosing myself — the right fit over the “safe” size, sun rays instead of something to erase, showing up as me instead of hiding.

Your 50s aren’t a decline. They’re a return to yourself. Here are some of the things that helped me!

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Everything on my list for spring

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Don’t do it anymore. Soft white jeans or ecru are an updated look. These are great! We love the stretch but yet the structure of these that don’t show our lumps and bumps. They skim so nicely too. Great for Spring and summer. Wearing size 10 or 30
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Games with friends ootd!

Wearing medium dress and sweater!

Fall arrivals trending.

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Quality at a great price never looked so good.

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A neutral pair of Mary Jane flats is a staple everyone should have. These are light and go well with almost anything! From a casual outfit to anything dressy. You will find yourself reaching for these.

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And you should too!

I trained for hours. I competed for a Big Ten program. My body could do things most people’s couldn’t — power through a swing, hold steady under pressure, show up again and again. And still, I couldn’t see it. Not the strength. Not the beauty. All I could see was what it wasn’t.

Because the only bodies I was ever shown as “the standard” weren’t real. The models in the magazines I grew up comparing myself to weren’t just smaller than me — statistically, they were in the most underweight 1% of women. Not average. Not even something a body is built to look like. But I didn’t know that. I just knew I wasn’t that, and I let it mean something was wrong with me.

Then there were the comments. Offhand ones, from guys who probably don’t even remember saying them. About my thighs. About being strong instead of small — said like it was an insult. Like an athlete’s body was something to apologize for instead of something to be proud of. And I let those throwaway comments live in me for years. Longer than any of them deserved.

It took until I was 54 to finally put it down.

For decades I dressed to disappear — to not take up too much space, to not draw the wrong kind of attention, to just get through the day unnoticed. And somewhere in the last few years, without even realizing exactly when it happened, that flipped. I stopped dressing to disappear. I started dressing to stand out.

I’m not invisible. I never was. I just spent a long time trying to be.

Not anymore.

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Amazon’s #1 seller for a reason! I’ve been using this and really love the results. It’s become one of those beauty products I keep coming back to because it actually works.

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T+T, what to wear! A white blouse with dark dress pants is such a classic combination for a business casual event. Add a few simple accessories to finish the look and you’re ready for the office, a meeting, or dinner afterward.

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I love how a few simple home pieces can make a space feel so inviting. These Amazon finds are easy to work into different rooms, whether you’re looking for decorative accents or everyday pieces. They add just the right amount of charm while making your home feel more like you.

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I’m loving this top! The fit is so flattering and it’s easy to style with jeans, pants, or a skirt. Such a fun piece to have in the rotation.

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A little bougie moment! This is such a fun way to add a touch of glam to an everyday look. I’m loving all the little details that make this one stand out.

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3am outfit to the rescue. I never want to take these pants off. Trust me. You won’t either. We have a code too. TWINTALK20 for 20% off until Sunday night! 8/30Linking a less expensive version too.

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One of our favorite styling tricks is wearing nude or neutral shoes to help create the look of longer legs. Shades like beige, tan, camel, blush, or a color close to your skin tone can create a seamless look from head to toe. Tegan and I have used this trick for years, and it’s still one of our favorite ways to style an outfit.

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So happy for him and so glad I wore these comfy pants! They’re so comfortable and easy to wear, especially on a busy day. Definitely a pair I’ll be reaching for again and again.

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This dress is such a fun piece to have in your wardrobe! I love wearing it with heels now and knowing I can switch to boots, a jacket, or a cozy sweater when the weather gets cooler. It’s an easy dress to style for the changing seasons.

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Finale night!

Wearing size 12, one up from normal

We loved and you do too!

These pants are all the buzz for a reason! I love the fit and how easy they are to style with different tops and shoes. Definitely a pair I can see getting a lot of wear out of.

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3am got me like 😴💤🥱 But these pants got me like 😘

Wearing size 8 tall! and usually I’m a size 10. I wear a Size large in the Amazon ones.

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A good handbag is one of those accessories I reach for all the time. I love how easily this style works with so many different outfits and occasions. It’s a simple finishing touch that pulls the whole look together.

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We can’t get over how cute this look is! I love that it’s comfortable enough to wear for hours but still feels dressy enough for dinner, date night, or a night out. Such a fun outfit when you want to feel confident and make a statement.

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So excited these are back! I love the pull on style and how comfortable they are while still looking cute and current. Such an easy pair to reach for when you want comfort without sacrificing style.

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I love adding a few simple touches to get my home ready for early fall. These Amazon finds bring in warm wood tones, cozy textures, and classic details that work beautifully throughout the season. A few new pieces can make a room feel warm and inviting without changing everything.

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A colorful pair of sneakers is such a fun way to add some personality to your everyday outfits. I love wearing them with shorts, dresses, jeans, and other casual looks for a little pop of color. They’re comfortable, practical, and such a fun addition to any wardrobe.

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You’ve got to see look number 3! Looks like the less on sold out, but the actual $395 one it was modeled after is on sale below to just over $100! Yahoooo! Even better!

Wearing med jacket, tops and skirt

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Anyone else feel the same way? I wasn’t sure at first, but I’m kind of loving it. Sometimes the pieces you’re on the fence about end up being your favorites.

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Period. We may not always be what the algorithm favors, what brands choose, or what the media highlights, but we are here and we are not going anywhere. I’ll keep showing up and sharing for the world to see just how many of us are out here.

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Viral for good reason!! These really are so good and I completely understand the hype. I’ve been loving them and can see why so many people are talking about them.

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Stunning! Love this silk dress, the feminine fit in the most perfect print that makes this an absolute fall favorite! s

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It’s never too soon to grab the cutest cardigan! s

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Great fit for travel and beyond!

Wearing medium top and large pants. If btw sizes in pants size down!

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I am obsessed with this matching set because it makes getting ready so easy. It’s lightweight, comfortable, and such a cute option for dinner dates. I love having an outfit that looks put together without taking much thought. s

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I love a great print! Fun patterns are such an easy way to add personality to an outfit without overthinking it. This one is especially pretty and makes getting dressed a little more fun.

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