Why they do it below ⬇️ & Here’s how to tell the difference between a compliment and subtle dig.  -If it includes “actually” - it’s a subtle dig  “Wow, it Actually turned out nice.” -If it makes you second guess yourself - it’s not a real compliment.  “This is adorable. Next time you should try...”  -It it comes with a comparison - it’s a subtle dig.  “So nice! I saw something just like this, it had many more flowers & it was stunning”  Subtle digs make you doubt yourself, have a second meaning, and imply that something is missing, needs fixing, or that you need their approval. A real compliment? Lifts you up, focuses on the now, and doesn’t require you to explain yourself. Have a specific situation that you need help with or relationship you’re navigating? Head to christieferrari.com and join assertive you - my growing comeback library. There’s also a community forum where you can ask for and give advice anonymously. Easter outfit, lace skirt, lace jacket, lace blouse, bridal shower guest outfit, mother in law outfit, baby shower guest outfit, spring outfit, church outfit, vacation outfit, beige heels Xo, Dr. C LTKWatchNow LTKShoeCrush LTKStyleTip