My husband and I have been to so many weddings, sometimes in $20 Forever21 dresses, rentals, or gifts. I’ve cherished each version of myself in those moments. But this was the first time I splurged on a dress. After years of overworking and being so hard on myself, I’m finally learning to soften, to accept where I am. It’s still a work in progress, but I’m proud of this version of me too.