part 1: I will no longer be caring about having a “cohesive” feed. To piggy back on that, I won’t be using presets or filters on any of my videos or stories (haven’t in years and won’t be going back). I no longer am going to follow others because I feel obligated too or because I am afraid of my follower count dropping. I no longer will keep my mouth shut about my journey as a step parent and the truth behind all the harassment and stalking I go through. I will not be wearing sambas, no matter how cute they are on everyone else. Vans or barefoot for life over here. I won’t be feeling guilty using automated chat to respond to comments for links, it’s time consuming and I’ve got a life to live outside of this space. Xo So comment VEST for the link to this $25 denim vest that comes in two colors. Okay, time to go pick up my girl from her learning center 🫶🏼