Swap the tank tops and start wearing tube tops. And no - you are not too old for them. These are the best ones I have found as a mom over 40. Under $19, double layered, butter soft, and they have a strip that runs around the entire top so that they do not budge one bit. And honestly, they are so easy to style with casual summer outfits or an easy date night outfit. Tube top xs. White pants small. Denim beach pants XS. Jeans 24. Sandals TTS. Starfish charm code tammy20. LTKOver40 LTKFindsUnder50 LTKStyleTip