What I’m Wearing in My 40s The Shapewear That Actually Works and Isn’t Miserable to Wear. I’m a midsize mom of four with a c-section and apron belly, so I need shapewear that smooths my belly and thighs, supports my tummy when I walk, and doesn’t dig into my stomach when I sit. This Amazon body shaper does it all and it’s affordable. I’m a size 16 and usually wear XL. I’m wearing XXL in both the shapewear and the dress. It smooths my lumps and bumps, keeps my belly from bouncing, and gives me more confidence. LTKU LTKStyleTip LTKSeasonal