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Sale! White linen blend Dollman dress from Ann Taylor is 40% off. This was last week second best seller so I do expect it to sell out this weekend.

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Sale! White linen blend Dollman dress from Ann Taylor is 40% off. This was last week second best seller so I do expect it to sell out this weekend. #LTKVideo

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xoxo, Valarie

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🍂 Mistake RUINING Your Fall Style #2:
Letting Retailers Dictate Your Style

Every season, the fashion industry decides what’s “in” and what’s “out.” But here’s the secret: they don’t know you.

Your lifestyle, your proportions, or your daily reality.

🪞 Mindset Shift: Stop asking, “What’s trending?” and start asking, “What feels like me?”
 Think about your real life — school pickups, work meetings, coffee with friends, travel. Then create a wardrobe that fits that life beautifully.

Your personal style should whisper, “This is who I am,” not shout, “This is what’s on sale.”

💋 With Style + Presence,
Valarie

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Super soft loungeset is HALF OFF and makes a great holiday gift for women.

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Cardinal red blazer is 30% off - a great piece for the holidays!

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Cozy loungeset is HALF OFF and makes a great holiday gift for women.

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NO TUCK TOP is HALF OFF!

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Chambray Dress is HALF OFF!

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🍂 Mistakes RUINING Your Fall Style #1 👀 Focusing on what you don’t like about yourself.

✨ When you start your day critiquing your reflection, you block your own radiance. 
🪞 The mirror reflects what you look for — if you seek flaws, you’ll find them. But if you look for beauty, you’ll see that too.

💫 Mindset Shift: After you get dressed, name one thing you love about how you look today.

🌷 Because when you focus on what you like — not what you don’t — you style yourself with confidence. 
💃 And confidence is the real finishing touch on any outfit.

💋 With Style + Presence,
Valarie

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No Tuck Top / Fall Outfit / Elegant Style

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No Tuck Top / Fall Outfit / Elegant Style

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No Tuck Top / Fall Outfit / Elegant Style

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No Tuck Top / Fall Outfit / Elegant Style

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No Tuck Top / Fall Outfit / Elegant Style

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✨ One of the biggest lies the fashion industry wants you to believe… 
👚 Is that you have to tuck your shirt and belt your waist to look fashionable and chic. 
🚫 But that’s a lie.

🪞 Fashion is about proportion — not perfection. 
💫 But style? Style is about presence. 🍂 It’s about how you move, how you carry yourself, how you show up.
❌ It’s not the tuck. ❌ It’s not the belt. 
🍁 It’s your presence.

🔥 True style can’t be achieved by tucking or belting — 
💖 It comes from the quiet confidence inside you… 🛍️ The kind that can’t be bought by hitting “add to cart.”

🤍 So wear your shirt untucked. 👠 And wear it with confidence. 
🍂 Because presence — not tucking — is what makes a woman unforgettable.

👂LISTEN CLOSELY: A NO POINT IN THE VOICEOVER OR POST DID I SAY DO NOT TUCK YOUR SHIRT. (Listen to listen rather than listening to react.) Infrequently, you will see me tuck/belt my shirt. But the point of this post is that you are NOT REQUIRED to tuck/belt your shirt to look stylish, fashionable, or chic.

💋 With Style + Presence,
Valarie

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Smart casual/blazer outfit/dinner outfit

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🍁 Fall Style Mistake 1: Expecting to Look Exactly Like the Creator or the Pinterest Photo

🧥 You will never look exactly like that creator — or that perfect Pinterest photo — and that’s okay. You were never supposed to.

🌿 The goal isn’t to copy — it’s to interpret. Take the idea and make it yours. Use that inspiration as a starting point, not the final destination.

💫 When you infuse an outfit with your own personality, proportions, and confidence, that’s when the real style magic happens.

🪞 Style Secret | Mindset Shift: You are beautiful in your own right. True style begins the moment you stop copying and start curating a look that’s uniquely you. 🤍

💋 With Style, Valarie

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🍁 Fall Style Mistake 2: Neglecting Your Basics

👗 Your basics are the backbone of your wardrobe — if they look tired, the entire outfit will too.

🖤 Faded blacks, stretched sweaters, and outdated jeans can quietly age your look. But here’s the good news: it’s easy to fix.

✨ Style Secret: Do a quick seasonal edit.

👖 Replace the worn pieces with updated staples — a crisp blazer, a fresh pair of slim-straight jeans, or a soft neutral sweater.

🌿 Just a few thoughtful swaps can instantly modernize your style and make everything you already own feel new again.

💫 Because true style isn’t about more clothes — it’s about better clothes.* 🤍

💋 With Style, Valarie

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🍁 Fall Style Mistake 3: Stopping at the Feet

👢 One of the biggest fall style mistakes I see is when women style the perfect autumn outfit… but stop at the shoes.

🧥 The outfit might be flawless from the waist up — but then the shoes don’t match the mood.

🚫 Maybe it’s old clunky boots, frumpy orthotic shoes, or mismatched sneakers with an otherwise refined look.

📖 It’s the style equivalent of writing a beautiful story… and forgetting the ending.

✨ Style Secret: Shoes are the punctuation of your outfit — make sure they match the tone.

🪞 If your outfit says “elegant,” your shoes shouldn’t say “errand run.”

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💋 With Style, Valarie

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🍁 Fall Style Mistake #4: Still standing in your closet thinking you have nothing to wear?

👠 The real reason might be this — you haven’t defined your personal style uniform.

✨ Every chic woman has one.
🖤 Think Audrey Hepburn’s black trousers and ballet flats.
🧥 Carolyn Bessette-Kennedy’s minimalist coat-and-denim combo.
🎀 Jackie Kennedy’s belted coat in fall and winter.

🌿 When you define your own uniform, getting dressed becomes effortless — and instantly elegant.

💫 Style Secret: Your uniform isn’t boring… it’s brilliant.
It’s what allows you to look elevated without overthinking.

👖 My personal fall uniform?
🧶 A simple sweater and jeans — timeless, refined, and endlessly wearable.

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Fall Style Mistake 5

✨ Are you still standing in your closet thinking you have nothing to wear?

🧥 One reason might surprise you — you’re buying aspirational pieces instead of wearable ones.

💭 We’ve all been there… swooning over that dreamy blazer or high-fashion coat we saw on Instagram or Pinterest.

🚪 But if it doesn’t fit your real lifestyle, it’s just going to sit in your closet collecting dust.

🍂 It’s perfectly fine to invest in those statement pieces — just make sure you can style them into everyday life too.

💫 Because confidence comes from consistency.

👗 You can’t feel “put together” in clothes that never make it out of the closet. 🤍

💋 With Style, Valarie

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🧥 Every fall, there’s that one sweater we can’t stop reaching for.
 🔥 The one that feels like a cozy hug, looks effortlessly polished, and somehow makes even jeans feel elevated.

✨ This year, @MerseaCo didn’t just make one It Sweater… they made THREE. ✨

🧡 The rich chestnut that warms every skin tone.
 🤍 The timeless cable knit that never fails.
 ☁️ The soft stripe that feels like Sunday morning.

💫 Each one is cozy, chic, and quietly elegant — made for women who love ease and refinement.
 🫶 Because Mersea truly embodies the cozy side of the Midlife It Girl aesthetic — where comfort meets polish, and every piece feels like confidence wrapped in softness. 🤎

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The Dolman Sweater returns…

Soft, relaxed, and perfectly balanced with dark denim, kitten heels, and a leopard bag for that hint of Midlife It Girl confidence. ✨

Simple. Polished. Unforgettable. 🤍

💭 “Elegance is not about being noticed; it’s about being remembered.” — Giorgio Armani

With Style,
Valarie

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🍂 The Lady Coat returns in rich spiced caramel, styled with dark denim, ballet flats, and a suede bag for a modern twist on Parisian street style.

This look is the definition of Effortless Elegance—refined, timeless, and perfectly balanced for the Midlife It Girl.

📌 Style Secret: Wear your Lady Coat buttoned up for that polished, Parisian vibe that whispers confidence, grace, and quiet luxury.

💭 “Presence is the quiet luxury that never goes out of style.”

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✨ Fall Style Secret 1: YOU are the Star…Not Your Outfit ✨

👠 STEAL THIS from HER: - I don’t notice the other two people in the photo.
- I don’t notice her dress.
- I don’t notice the pearls.
- I only notice her.

👗 Ideally, the outfit and the woman should always be in balance, but your outfit should never overshadow you.

🚫 I’ve heard it said that your outfit should never enter the room before you do.

✨ But true presence lingers long after you’ve left the room. ✨ 
💫 Simple, chic, and timeless.

With Style,
Valarie

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✨ Fall Style Secret 2: Keep It Simple ✨

👠 STEAL THIS from the Icons of Elegant Simplicity: - Think Audrey Hepburn’s timeless grace, - Carolyn Bessette-Kennedy’s minimalist refinement, - Victoria Beckham’s tailored precision, and - Meghan Markle’s modern polish.

🚫 Overcomplicating outfits with too many layers or competing elements leads to visual confusion. 
👗 Instead, build your look around one hero piece. 
Simplicity is the fast track to effortless sophistication. ✨ 
Simple, chic, and timeless.

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🍂 Fall Style Secret 3: Play Up Your Best Features ✨

💋 STEAL THIS from Sophia Loren: She never hid behind fashion—she highlighted her best features with confidence and grace.

Dressing well isn’t about hiding. It’s about celebrating what you love most about yourself. 
💃 Great legs? Choose jeans that celebrate your silhouette. 
👗 Beautiful neckline? Choose a scoop or bateau neckline.

✨When you emphasize your strengths, you naturally exude confidence— and confidence wears better than any label.

🤍Style is a presence, not a purchase.

➡️ 🔐 Stay tuned — Fall Style Secret 2 is coming next!

📆Until Tomorrow,
Valarie

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🍂 Fall Style Secret 4: 🍂
✨Fight the Frump ✨

👠 STEAL THIS from Paris Fashion Week 2026:
 💃 Over-50 women like Andie MacDowell, Helen Mirren, Gillian Anderson, Laura Dern, and Jane Fonda are still owning the runway—proving that elegance has no expiration date.

🚫 The #1 culprit of looking frumpy? Ill-fitting clothing.
 👗 Choose pieces that define your shape—without clinging.

🌟 Frumpy fades the moment you choose elegance over autopilot. ✨

➡️ 🔐 Stay tuned — Fall Style Secret 3 is coming next!

📆Until Tomorrow,
Valarie

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🍂 Fall Style Secret #5 🍂 ✨ Avoid Trends ✨

👑 Steal this from Katharine Hepburn—she built her legacy on timeless, tailored trousers and clean lines, never chasing what was “in.”

💫 Katharine did not chase trends - she WAS the trend.

🖤 Trendy pieces might feel exciting in the moment, but they rarely stand the test of time.

✅ In fact, they can sometimes highlight generational gaps instead of bridging them.

🌟 Instead, invest in wardrobe staples that ensure you always look polished, relevant, and confident—without the cycle of fast-changing fashion.

💫 Because true style isn’t about trends…
 🤍Style is a presence, not a purchase.

➡️ 🔐 Stay tuned — Fall Style Secret 4 is coming next!

📆Until Tomorrow,
Valarie

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🍂 Fall Style Secret 6 🍂 ✨ Minimize Jewelry & Accessories ✨

👑 Steal this from Audrey Hepburn: she rarely wore more than her signature pearl earrings and always kept jewelry to a minimum, proving that true elegance shines brightest when it’s understated.

💫 Think gold hoops, a pearl necklace, or a classic watch. Personally, I love pearl droplet earrings…they elongate the neck and give off timeless Hepburn vibes. 🤍

The secret?
👉 Accessories should whisper elegance, never shout for attention.
👉 Jewelry should frame your beauty — not compete with it. ✨
👉 Over-accessorizing creates noise, but one or two refined touches create harmony.

➡️ 🔐 Stay tuned — Fall Style Secret 5 is coming next!

📆Until Tomorrow,
Valarie

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🍂 Fall Style Secret 8 🍂
 🤍 Opt for a Neutral Color Palette

🖤 Steal this timeless lesson from Carolyn Bessette Kennedy… the queen of 90’s minimalism. Her wardrobe was anchored in camel, navy, black, ivory, and rust—neutral shades that mix and match effortlessly, creating endless chic combinations.

🤍 Neutrals are the ultimate style canvas. They give your presence room to shine, while allowing a bold lipstick, scarf, or handbag to make just the right statement.

💫 Like Carolyn, let your elegance and presence speak louder than your clothes.

➡️ 🔐Secret 7 is coming next… you won’t want to miss it!

📆Until Tomorrow,
Valarie

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🍂 Fall Fashion Secret Number 9 🍂

Opt for clean lines and simple silhouettes.

🖤 Victoria Beckham embodies the timeless truth that less is more.

🛑 Ruffles, straps, and fussy details only add bulk and distraction.

🤍 True elegance lies in restraint—clean lines and simple silhouettes that let your presence shine.

Think crewneck sweaters, tailored trousers, and polished minimalism. These refined shapes:
👉 Elongate your frame
👉 Draw the eye upward
👉 Flatter every figure with ease.

✨🤍 This fall, embrace simplicity—because nothing is more sophisticated than understated elegance.

➡️ 🔐Secret 8 is coming tomorrow… you won’t want to miss it!

📆Until Tomorrow,
Valarie

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