This is your reminder that it’s completely normal to have moments of doubt, but it’s absolutely up to you to decide if you’re going to wholeheartedly believe that this desire will happen for you. 
The how isn’t our business as much as I would like to think it is sometimes, but if I dive into my little evidence bucket, I see all the times that something I knew was for me ended up happening even if it took 6 years. These were dream jobs I landed where people had told me for years that I shouldn’t hold my breath for them. I was told at 12 that there was a line out the door to be a buyer at Neiman Marcus and to think of something more realistic. Why would love be any different? It might take longer than meeting our person at age 22, and that’s completly ok if it ends up meaning ending up with the right person. Dating, dating in your 30s, dating advice