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If you’re worried about time being wasted after a handful of dates, I promise you you’re not falling behind.

It’s so easy to get caught up in what other people feel is the right pace and timeline for you but there’s no right or wrong answer at the end of the day.

Keep listening to your intuition and showing up for yourself and when the right person comes your way a handful of dates with not the right person isn’t going to feel like that much time in the grand scheme of things.

Dating in your 30s, dating advice

If you’re worried about time being wasted after a handful of dates, I promise you you’re not falling behind. It’s so easy to get caught up in what other people feel is the right pace and timeline for you but there’s no right or wrong answer at the end of the day. Keep listening to your intuition and showing up for yourself and when the right person comes your way a handful of dates with not the right person isn’t going to feel like that much time in the grand scheme of things. Dating in your 30s, dating advice

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Ok, but what if you said yes to the thing that scares you, but will get you closer to where you want to be?

Step 1: List out all the things you’ve felt like you’re in the almost for and can’t breakthrough

Step 2: What are the things that could get you there but require vulnerability or trying something new?

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Ok but what if deep down you actually did believe in the timing for your life and it let you let go of the urgency, chasing, and grasping?

Day 3 journal prompt is here for yall with some questions to help expand so you get those three pages done, because remember when you think you’ve run out of what to write, the breakthroughs are usually on the other side of that letting your subconscious speak up if you keep writing through that pause

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Ok but what if December was the serendipitous month you always craved it would be?

One of the best ways to start seeing the magic and optimism of life in its day to day is to get clear on what’s fogging up that view.

Cutting something out of our lives usually has a heavy tone like ending a friendship or quitting a job you hate. But what if it can be more simple than that?

What if certain thoughts, feelings and parts of your identity have been making themselves the main character in your life when they don’t need to be anymore? That’s what we’re exploring here.

Let me know your thoughts, questions you have or feel free to drop any words of encouragement for others who might need a little sparkle this holiday season.

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After doing @eli.rallo November journaling challenge, yall asked me what prompts I was doing on the off days when she didn’t have a video so I thought I’d share those this month. If you missed her November videos go back because you’ll find some good nuggets in there to help boost your journaling practice especially if you’re new to it.

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- write the same line over and over again if you have to. Eventually it will spill out
- brain dump things that are on your mind for today even if they have nothing to do with the topic. Stream of conscious writing will help you get there

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Someone asked me the other day: “Do you really think it’s possible to meet people in the wild anymore? Like, does that actually happen?”

Of course it does. But maybe we’re not as open to it as we think we are.

You say you want serendipity. You want those random conversations that turn into something. You want to feel more connected to your city, your neighborhood, your life.

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