A soft but real 3-day weekend in my 40s: Testing out my new 10lb weighted vest, layering my latest @lovephilosophy perfume find, and vibing to @badgalriri BBHMM like the main character I am. Catch the full vlog—including @zara finds, deck lounging, and my realistic weekend reset—on my YouTube channel Living the Refined Life. Link in bio! over40 genx blackgenx over40fashion over40andfabulous vlog weekend