Reasons I don’t answer the phone in my 40s: • I’m too busy jamming to Careless Whisper like I’m headlining my own tour. • Hanging clothes that I swear I just washed yesterday. • Taste-testing the new @nothingbundtcakes Coconut Snowflake Bundt cake…and yes, it’s a good time. • Daydreaming about wallpaper for our 2026 bedroom glow-up. • Smelling my new favorite candle — Crème Brûlée by @ps.handcrafted (soy-based + WoodWick… elite). • Searching for a leather pencil skirt that has vanished into thin air. • Showing off my new red polish because someone said red is “for aunties and moms.” Well… I am both. And it still looks good. • And honestly? I’m just busy… and I don’t feel like it. 🤷🏾‍♀️ If you know, you know. 💁🏾‍♀️✨ lifeinyour40s genx xennial over40 blackgenx fortysomething nostalgia