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Casual OOTD but make it chic 🙌🏼 This Spanx set is hands down one of the most comfortable outfits I’ve worn in a long time. The zip-up jacket is super flattering and polished, and these high-waisted flare pants are SO slimming and give you the best long-leg look. 😍 The fabric is insanely soft… I’m not exaggerating when I say I feel like I’m wearing pajamas. The navy blue is such a gorgeous, elevated neutral, but it also comes in several other colors if you want options! ✔️ True to size ✔️ Soft + stretchy ✔️ Snatches and smooths in all the right places I’m wearing an XS in both the jacket and pants. LTKOver40 LTKgrwm LTKootd

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Valentine’s Day date night look… but make it DENIM 🔥

If you don’t feel like wearing a dress (same), this is the perfect sexy + edgy outfit that works for Valentine’s Day and any date night or GNO after.

✨ Burgundy faux fur trimmed jacket with a tie waist = so flattering and slimming
✨ Backless lace Free People bodysuit = the perfect amount of sexiness
✨ Mother high-waisted baby flare jeans = Legs for days (seriously the most slimming fit)

Everything runs true to size:
Jacket: XS
Bodysuit: XS
Jeans: 24

Would you wear jeans on Valentine’s Day?

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One of the hottest denim trends of 2026 is also (in my opinion) one of the most slimming… and it’s the cigarette jean. ✨✨✨

I just got this pair from DL1961 and I’m obsessed. The rise is perfection, the wash looks super luxe (that perfect dark-to-medium denim), and the back pockets are placed exactly where you want them for the most flattering fit.

They hit right at the ankle bone (or slightly below) which is exactly how a cigarette jean should fit. And yes—they have stretch, so they’re comfortable… but still give that snatched, sleek leg look.

Trust me, these are about to become your new go-to jeans. 🙌

They run true to size—I’m wearing a size 24 and highly recommend!

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Three fabulous Valentine’s Day dresses — whether you’re headed out with your boyfriend, husband, romantic partner, or your girlfriends ❤️
Because the vibe is FEELING amazing… not who you’re going with.

✨ Dress 1: A red strapless bandeau-style dress with a bandage silhouette. SO flattering. It hugs your curves in all the right places and does an incredible job of smoothing and snatching. Sexy but chic.

✨ Dress 2: A stunning full-length burgundy lace dress, fully lined with a nude lining (so no worries about it being see-through). Elegant, romantic, and absolutely perfect for Valentine’s Day or a winter wedding. That burgundy shade? Chef’s kiss.

✨ Dress 3: A halter-style dress with luxe fringe detailing. The fit is impeccable, it moves beautifully, and it looks way more expensive than it is. Total showstopper.

All three run true to size — I’m wearing an extra small.
And remember: you’re not just wearing clothes to wear clothes… you’re wearing them because of how they make you feel.

These dresses will make you feel confident, beautiful, and like a million bucks — because you are. 💋✨

Which one are you wearing? 💌

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If you want to look stylish without actually “getting dressed,” a neutral matching set is the answer ✨ This tan cropped jacket defines the waist beautifully (I love it zipped for that extra cinch), and the wide-leg pants feel like loungewear but look completely put together. It’s the kind of easy, elevated outfit that works for travel days, coffee runs, or casual weekends. I’m wearing an XS in the jacket and pants and it fits tts.

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✨ Quince Cashmere Sweater = the BEST affordable luxury find ✨

If you’ve been looking for a real cashmere sweater that feels expensive without the designer price tag… this is it. 🙌🏼

I own this Quince cashmere sweater in two colors because it’s THAT good. It’s insanely soft, lightweight, and has the perfect relaxed fit. You can wear it off the shoulder for a little extra chic moment or wear it normally for an elevated everyday look.

And y’all… for true cashmere, you will not believe the price. 😳💯

✔️ buttery soft
✔️ looks luxe
✔️ great quality
✔️ true to size

I’m wearing an XS.

This is one of those staples you’ll reach for over and over again. 🤍

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Day 6 of my 7-Day Denim Series and we’re talking about one of 2026’s biggest denim trends… the skinny flare 👖✨

And let me tell you—these Veronica Beard skinny flares might just be the most universally flattering jeans on the market. 🙌🏼

✔️ Legs look MILES long
✔️ Hugs your curves in all the right places
✔️ Snatches the waist
✔️ The perfect going-out jean

I styled them with a lace bustier and this fabulous cropped silk blazer for the ultimate elevated denim moment. 🔥

Also… Happy Valentine’s Day 💘 Wishing you so much love today, no matter what your relationship status is. Love day is for everyone. 🤍

✨ Fit details:
Jeans run true to size — I’m wearing a 24
Jacket + bustier — wearing an XS

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Casual yet chic OOTD that’s perfect for running errands 🙌🏼✨

This cropped denim jacket is SUCH a good throw-on-and-go piece, and I’m obsessed with the hood detail…it makes it feel a little more sporty and modern.

And can we talk about these navy wide leg pants?! 🤍 They are honestly the most comfortable pants I own. Elastic waistband, pockets, and they seriously feel like pajamas (but look so put together). I want to wear them every single day.

Wearing an XS in both the jacket and pants.

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These Mother jeans are my go-to for date night because they’re high-waisted, ultra flattering, and insanely comfortable. The pocket placement gives the best natural lift, and they truly fit like a glove while still feeling easy to wear. Paired with a casual jacket, this is effortless chic done right! I'm wearing a size 24 in the Jeans and they fit like a glove!

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FOUND >>> The Chicest Cardigan EVER! This chic black cropped cardigan with luxe gold buttons is one of those pieces that instantly elevates a casual look. I styled it with wide-leg Mother jeans for that leg-lengthening, ultra-flattering fit that works for date night, brunch, or a girls’ night out. Effortless, polished, and so easy to wear. I'm wearing an XS in the cardigan and size 24 in the jeans.

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This is one of those “effortless but put-together” outfits I’ll wear on repeat — black blazer, sleek bodysuit, and super high-waisted Levi’s cinch waist jeans for that long-leg look. The silver belt adds polish, and then the blue bag gives it the perfect pop of color. Casual, comfy, and still so chic. XS in blazer, 24 in jeans.

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So many of you have been DM’ing me asking what lipstick I’ve been wearing lately… and I’m finally spilling the details because I am OBSESSED with this combo. 💋 This has been my go-to lip look nonstop, and it’s the prettiest plum/berry shade that gives your face the perfect amount of contrast (aka instantly makes you look more fresh + youthful). ✨ My exact lip combo: 1. Lip Liner: Buxom (B-O-X-U-M) Shade: Medium Dolly (D-O-L-L-Y) 2. Lip Stain: Fenty Beauty Shade: RiRi (R-I-R-I) 3. Gloss Topper: Fenty Beauty Gloss (on top for the perfect shine) This is seriously the perfect “your lips but better” shade for women over 40 because it’s not too nude and not too bold—just that beautiful medium berry tone that brightens your whole face. Because let’s be real… super neutral lips can totally wash us out as we age, and adding a little color like this makes SUCH a difference. Save this combo and thank me later. 💄💕

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✨ 3 Denim Trends OUT in 2026 (and What to Wear Instead) ✨ Let’s talk denim — because not all jeans are created equal in 2026 👀 Denim Trend #1 OUT: Jegging super-skinny jeans They’re officially feeling dated. ✅ Wear instead: A baggier denim silhouette that feels modern, effortless, and cool. ✨ I’m loving these Anine Bing high-waisted black wide-leg jeans with the ankle slit — SO on-trend and they give that chic cool-girl vibe we all want. They run tts, I’m wearing a size 24. Denim Trend #2 OUT: Overly ripped jeans Too many rips instantly age your outfit. ✅ Wear instead: Clean denim with no rips or minimal distressing. ✨ These viral Aritzia jeans are a perfect mix between a high-waisted straight leg and a wide leg. They come in like 10 washes, the price point is amazing, and they honestly fit and feel like designer denim. The run a bit small so size up one size, I’m wearing a 25. Denim Trend #3 OUT: Low-rise jeans Hard pass in 2026. ✅ Wear instead: High-rise or mid-rise jeans for a flattering, elongated silhouette. ✨ These high-waisted ivory Pistola wide-leg jeans are EVERYTHING. I own them in two other washes because they’re that good. Incredibly comfortable and super slimming thanks to that floor-skimming hemline. They run tts, I’m wearing a 24. Tell me — which denim trend are you most excited to wear in 2026?

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Two looks that are PERFECT for a night out… which one would you wear? 🖤🍷✨

LOOK #1:
This long burgundy lace maxi dress is an absolute showstopper. ✨
The color is so rich and elegant, and it has a nude slip underneath, so you get that gorgeous lace moment without it being see-through. The fit is seriously impeccable… flattering in all the right places.

LOOK #2:
If you want slim + legs for days… this is the one. 🔥
These Veronica Beard black skinny flares are hands down one of the most slimming denim silhouettes I’ve ever worn. Paired with a lace bustier and a fabulous cropped satin blazer for that edgy-but-polished vibe.

Which look are you wearing on a night out — #1 or #2? 👇

Everything runs true to size:
Dress: XS
Blazer: XS
Jeans: 24

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DESIGNER VIBES WITHOUT THE PRICE ✨✨✨ These $50 straight-leg jeans are proof you don’t have to spend a fortune to get great denim. The option to order different lengths is such a game-changer — no hemming, no fuss. A timeless silhouette that works year-round and always feels current. I’m wearing a size 24 x 28 and they fit true to size.

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This one-shoulder blue top is SUCH a showstopper ✨ It’s on sale right now and makes the perfect going-out top for well under $100. The color is unreal and it’s so flattering. Runs true to size — I’m wearing an XS in the top and a 24 in the denim.

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3 under-$100 pieces I’m OBSESSED with right now 🤍✨ If you’re wanting that expensive, elevated look without spending a fortune… these are so good. 1. Light Blue Cashmere Sweater (under $100!) This is one of the softest cashmere sweaters I’ve ever owned and I honestly cannot believe the price. The color is the prettiest light blue and it looks so chic with denim, trousers, or layered under a blazer. Wearing size XS. 2. Quince Straight Leg Jeans ($50!!) 👖 These jeans fit and feel like designer denim. So flattering, so comfy, and the straight leg cut is perfection for spring and summer. Wearing size 24 x 28. 3. Silver Heels ✨ The perfect statement heel for spring + summer. They instantly dress up even the simplest outfit and look amazing with denim, dresses, or white pants. Everything runs true to size and all three pieces are under $100 — which is basically unheard of for this kind of quality.

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If you need a chic baby shower dress or affordable spring event dress, this gorgeous blue number is it 💫 The soft ruffle sleeves, easy silhouette, and included slip make it polished, comfortable, and incredibly flattering — all for under $100. Such a versatile piece you’ll wear on repeat. I’m wearing an XS and it fits TTS.

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The perfect under $100 blue dress that looks way more expensive 💙 This flattering ruffle sleeve dress comes with a built-in slip (so no worries about it being see-through!) and works beautifully for baby showers, spring events, brunch, or even Easter. I love it so much I own it in three colors. I’m wearing an XS and it fits TTS.

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I found the most Amazing look alike to my Khaite belt and it’s from
Quince and literally looks identical! I linked it below and I promise it’s the one accessory guaranteed to take all of your looks to the next level!

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These are the best-selling Mother high-waisted wide-leg jeans for a reason. I own them in all three washes because they’re that good—but this faded black might be my favorite. So edgy, so chic, and they literally go with everything. They’re just as comfortable as they are slimming, with a high waist and a floor-skimming hem that makes your legs look miles long. Magic denim ✨ They run true to size—I’m wearing a 24. Trust me, these are a closet MUST HAVE!

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Found - KHAITE belt for less. ✨ This black studded belt is guaranteed to elevate all of your outfits. I’ve worn mine a ton and I swear I get compliments every single time. Adding a belt is such a simple, foolproof way to instantly take your look to the next level… and this one from Quince is SO good. Like truly—I cannot believe the price. It literally looks identical to the designer version. I styled it with this Quince camel leather bomber jacket and my new favorite cigarette jeans (SO slimming and flattering!). ✨ Everything runs true to size: • Jacket: XS • Denim: 24 • Belt: XS Such an easy outfit upgrade that makes everything look more polished instantly. 🖤

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If dresses aren’t your thing for Valentine’s, try this elevated denim date night look instead ✨ A burgundy leather jacket adds richness and structure, while the black lace bodysuit brings just the right amount of feminine edge. These baby flare jeans are incredibly flattering and perfect for showing off your favorite heels. I’m wearing a 24 in the jeans and an XS in the jacket and bodysuit, and everything fits TTS.

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The perfect lace bodysuit for date night or GNO 💋 This is such a fab going-out top for Valentine’s — the lace detail is gorgeous, the sleeves are sheer, and I absolutely love the back. It’s feminine but still has that subtle edge when styled with denim. I’m wearing an XS and it runs TTS.

And these Mother jeans are so, so good ✨ They’re a high-waisted baby flare in the most flattering dark wash — slinky, classy, and perfect for showing off your favorite heels. I’m wearing a size 24 and they run TTS.

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Valentine’s Day outfit idea for women over 40 who don’t want to wear a dress ❤️ Leather and lace is such a chic, edgy combination, and this burgundy leather jacket with the tie waist instantly elevates classic denim. Paired with a black lace bodysuit and flattering baby flare jeans, it’s tastefully sexy while still feeling polished and confident. I’m wearing a 24 in the jeans and an XS in the jacket and bodysuit, and everything fits TTS.

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Matching sets are one of the biggest effortless style trends right now, and this tan two-piece warm-up is the perfect elevated casual look 🤎 It’s comfy enough for running errands but still gives you that cinched-waist, polished silhouette thanks to the cropped zip jacket and flattering wide-leg pants. The elastic tie waist and pockets make it practical, but the tailored shape keeps it looking chic instead of sloppy. I’m wearing an XS in the jacket and pants and it fits TTS.

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