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so much of style is trial & error and one of the most vital pieces of building unshakable, unapologetic confidence is knowing that it won’t always be a win! and it is not because of your body. BRING COLOR & CONFIDENCE INTO YOUR LIFE 💖

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so much of style is trial & error and one of the most vital pieces of building unshakable, unapologetic confidence is knowing that it won’t always be a win! and it is not because of your body. BRING COLOR & CONFIDENCE INTO YOUR LIFE 💖 LTKMidsize LTKootd

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Mid Rise UltraSoft Easy Horseshoe Jeans | Gap (US)

I welcomed color and flare back into my wardrobe without sacrificing function and comfortability and it’s the best thing I’ve ever done for my soul, dopamine dressing!!!
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active dresses are so ideal for mom days, errands, theme parks, travel, etc and can be styled so many ways bestie!

#LTKootd #LTKMidsize #LTKmomlife

I welcomed color and flare back into my wardrobe without sacrificing function and comfortability and it’s the best thing I’ve ever done for my soul, dopamine dressing!!!
🦋
active dresses are so ideal for mom days, errands, theme parks, travel, etc and can be styled so many ways bestie!

#LTKootd #LTKMidsize #LTKmomlife

not to mention the confidence and love I have for my postpartum belly, cellulite, stretch marks and the joy I exist in day to day having zero desire to lose weight 👏🏼

not all of us care about a snatched waist or a thigh gap. some of us just want to do what’s necessary to play with our kids and carry a suitcase to Europe when we’re 80. skinny is not a trend and your body is not an aesthetic, it’s your HOME. start caring for it like one 💛

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outfit of the night in the desert 🌵🏜️

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SHE MANIFESTED THIS!!! 💛🤌🏼🤩
representing the moms, the curves, the confidence & the relatability out here in Joshua tree this week bestie babes, hype a bestie up!
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#LTKootd #LTKmomlife

Here are my 3 non negotiables when it came to finding my style again postpartum
🦋 if it’s not colorful, I don’t want it! color sparks joy, and in a season of transition and beyond it makes all the difference and makes me feel more myself

💛 if it doesn’t fit my lifestyle, it won’t get worn. 95% of the time my life requires comfortable, functional fashion as a mom of two boys, lean in to that.

🫶🏻 step out of your comfort zone. some of the styles I never thought I could wear have become my most worn outfits.

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progress does not come from goals or perfection, it comes from CONSISTENCY. you do not have to be training for a marathon or a hyrox to find joy in movement, and you do not have to prove anything to anyone but yourself.
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3 reminders I tell myself that might help you if you’re starting to move your body again and unsure of what that means to you:
💛 it’s me against me.
🦋 i am not earning, I am engaging.
🔥 if it makes me miserable, it’s not meant for me.

practicing what works for YOU will change your life.

#LTKfitnessgoals #LTKmomlife #LTKMidsize

serving up an Aerie-real summer in the body you’re in ☀️ I tried on the summer wardrobe so you don’t have to bestie 🌊comfy, confidence-boosting, and actually wearable for real life!

#LTKmomlife #LTKMidsize #LTKSwim

learning how to style my body type postpartum, bringing color back into my wardrobe and actually filling my closet with pieces that fit my day to day lifestyle has changed the way I approach getting dressed 🤌🏼

it’s not your body babe…it’s how you’re dressing it! simple outfits can still be chic without being built around black leggings or oversized everything, welcome to the party 🪩

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Abercrombie has such a good sale this weekend! Linking some of my recent faves including this dress😍 use code: TRIPREADY for an extra 15% off!

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prepping for a SoCal summer 😍

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This sardines dress is EVERYTHING and perfect for summer!!!

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Weekend outfit of the day in SoCal 🤍

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a confident woman in a bigger body? groundbreaking. everything I tried from the @walmart x @tdwp2 collection! I ordered a size large top and extra large bottoms

I’m genuinely impressed besties! this price point for this quality?? every piece is chic, perfectly color-coded, and so easy to mix, match, and make your own. the outfit combos are endless 🤌🏼

anyway…strutting on my walking pad like it’s fashion week. that’s all 😉

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The Devil Wears Prada 2 x Walmart Collection try-on haul for you besties! I ordered a L in tops and an XL in bottoms! Available in XS-XXL

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Okay babes Aerie is having a huge sale this weekend! Linking my recent order plus some favorite pieces of mine i’ve worn so many times! use code: LTKAERIE20

#LTKmomlife #LTKxAerie #LTKMidsize

Abercrombie try-on haul🤍

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mama’s first solo trip since baby #2… and it just so happens to be my NAPACHELLA 🍷✨ comment NAPA and I’ll send the details for this fit straight to your inbox 💛

this one feels a little bittersweet because it’s something Sam and I usually experience together
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parenthood is wild like that, one minute you’re side by side, the next you’re tag-teaming life: being present parents, managing work, and still trying to show up for each other and yourselves.

really proud of myself for taking this time, and even more grateful for a partner who supports it all 🫶🏻

brands invited everyone…except moms 🙃 and it’s not because we wouldn’t go.
it’s because we weren’t considered.

meanwhile, we’re the ones
buying the products,
packing the bags,
planning the trips,
and still trying to find pieces of ourselves in the middle of motherhood.
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we don’t stop wanting to feel fun, confident, or seen
just because we became moms.
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and if brands really cared about relatability…
they’d realize the most powerful voice in the room
isn’t just the perfectly curated 20-something
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it’s the woman showing up in real life, with real responsibilities, still choosing herself too.

just sayin’… if you want real influence,
you might want to start including real life 🤷🏻‍♀️

maybe next year… invite her too 🤍

jk I’m at Monster Jam living my best “Momchella” era instead 😂🔥

comment ‘CHELLA’ and I’ll send you my Canadian tuxedo suited for any occasion!
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and honestly? my life isn’t less just because it doesn’t look like weekly influencer trips or perfectly curated weekends online.
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I’m not your average influencer, I’m your relatable one.
the one sometimes in full glam but most often sitting in the stands and calling this a dream day too.
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main character energy doesn’t disappear when you’re a mom bestie! sometimes it just comes with ear protection and an early bedtime.

Cute and comfy outfit of the day for Disney!

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I’m a curvy shorty hottie…and the biggest girl in my workout class 🔥

this is what it looks like to be 200 lbs, taking up space, lifting heavy, showing skin, unapologetically - because confidence comes in ALL SHAPES & SIZES 👏🏼

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hot take: it’s not your body bestie…it’s how you’re dressing it.
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I used to default to oversized black thinking it was the “safe” option, but it was actually just hiding me. the second I started wearing pieces that fit and colors that feel like me, everything changed.

same body.
better outfits.
way more confidence.
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you don’t need a new body babes, you just need clothes that actually show this one off!

#LTKmomlife #LTKMidsize

is it CUTE or is she just skinny?! season 2 🦋 ep. 1
where I try on a fit I loved online but didn’t see it on a body like mine!
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let me know your thoughts in comments & what you want to see next 💭 I’m wearing a L in everything!

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what my body actually looks like in a matching set + a few more cute options!

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Torrid try-on haul ✨

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sauna sesh to help detox my body

#LTKselfcare

trying to take care of myself the best i can 🤍✨

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Bikini styles by body type 👙

• Hourglass: string bikinis, high-leg bottoms, underwire tops
• Pear (wider hips): statement/ruffled tops, darker bottoms, high-cut legs
• Apple (fuller midsection): high-waisted bottoms, wrap or plunge tops
• Athletic/straight: ruffles, side-tie bottoms, push-up or padded tops
• Fuller bust: underwire, balconette, thicker straps
• Smaller bust: triangle tops, bandeau, ruffles or twist fronts

✨ Tip: high-leg bottoms flatter almost everyone by elongating the legs.

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@abercrombie shorts try on as a curvy girl! all sizes are shown in the last photo! use code: AFLTK for 25% off!

#LTKmomlife #LTKMidsize #LTKSpringSale

potty training has been going well in our house tbh and we absolutely love MeUndies here!

#LTKmomlife #LTKBaby #LTKKids

Tried some new Coola products today for our beach day and i’m SO impressed!

#LTKBeauty #LTKSwim #LTKTravel

today’s beach fit ☀️

#LTKootd #LTKMidsize #LTKSwim

full SoCal beach day = the cutest rashguard for him and my new favorite Aerie bikini for me!

#LTKmomlife #LTKBaby #LTKSwim

Wearing @Freck Beauty today to Legoland with the family!

#LTKgrwm #LTKmomlife