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Motherhood can change you without erasing you.

You don’t have to shrink.
You don’t have to disappear.
You’re allowed to take up space—in style, ambition, beauty, and identity.

She’s still in there. 🤍

#MillennialMom #MomLifeUnfiltered #StyleOver30 #ModernMotherhood #ClassicStyle

Motherhood can change you without erasing you. You don’t have to shrink. You don’t have to disappear. You’re allowed to take up space—in style, ambition, beauty, and identity. She’s still in there. 🤍 MillennialMom MomLifeUnfiltered StyleOver30 ModernMotherhood ClassicStyle

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If I had to start decorating our home all over again, these are the Amazon pieces I’d buy again first. 🤍

They’re some of my most asked-about items, and honestly most people don’t realize they’re from Amazon.

Comment HOME and I’ll DM you every link. Save this for your next home refresh.

#amazonhome
#classicdecor
#cozyhome
#homedecorfinds
#interiorstyling

I’ve been slowly adding a few Quince pieces to my wardrobe, and I honestly love them. They’re lightweight enough for these 100° days, but classic enough that I’ll still be wearing them into fall with a denim jacket or cardigan.

That’s exactly the kind of piece I want in my closet—comfortable, versatile, and easy to wear.

Which one would you pick? 🤍

#Quince
#ClassicStyle
#MomStyle
#TransitionalStyle
#CapsuleWardrobe

These are the skincare products I reach for again and again. 🤍

I am constantly trying new products, but these have earned a permanent spot in my routine.

✨ Brightening vitamin C
✨ My favorite toner for dark spots
✨ Hydrating K-beauty finds
✨ Eye patches that actually depuff
✨ An overnight mask that leaves my skin so soft
✨ A plumping balm I keep in my bag
✨ Plus the beauty tool I’ve been loving lately

If you’d like all the links, comment “SKIN” and I’ll send them to you! 🤍

#skincareover30 #over30beauty #kbeauty #beautyfavorites #millennialmom

Somewhere along the way, I realized I wasn’t trying to become someone new.

I was just finding my way back to the parts of myself I’d missed.

Maybe that’s why I seem happier.

If you’re in a season of finding yourself again too, you’re not alone. 🤍

#MillennialMoms #FindingYourselfAgain #MomStyle #ElevatedEveryday #StyledForRealLife

One dress, three timeless looks. 🤍

A classic white shirt dress never goes out of style, and this Ralph Lauren one is proof. Whether you dress it up with a statement belt, add a sweater for that coastal classic feel, or tie on a silk scarf, it’s a piece you’ll reach for year after year.

Which look is your favorite?
1, 2, or 3? ✨

(This Ralph Lauren dress is a few seasons old, but I’ve linked similar white shirt dresses in my LTK.)

#RalphLaurenStyle
#ClassicStyle
#TimelessStyle
#ShirtDress
#SummerStyle

A slow Sunday spent at our family farm. 🤍

The kids love swimming, visiting the animals, and running around with their cousins. These are the kinds of summer days I hope they always remember.

P.S. You all know I can’t resist a simple, classic outfit—even at the farm. 🤍 I’ve linked similar pieces if you’re looking for the same look.

#summermemories #familyfarm #classicstyle #millennialmom #everydaystyle

Apparently 36 is just flipping between “I’m still young” and “I’m too old for this” with zero warning.

Anyone else? 😂

#MillennialHumor #MomLifeUnfiltered #RelatableReels #WomenInTheir30s #MillennialMom

The pretty dress doesn’t need a vacation. 🤍✨

Some of my favorite outfits have been worn on the most ordinary days. This colorful Nuuly rental reminded me that getting dressed can be part of the fun, not just something we save for special occasions.

Would you wear this one? 💙

@nuuly #nuuly #cluubnuuly #nuulypartner #classicstyle

We spent the last few weeks redoing our front landscaping, and I promised the kids they could add a little piece that felt like theirs. 🧚✨

Safe to say the fairy garden was the winning idea. I have a feeling this little corner is going to get lots of tiny visitors this summer.

Would your kids love this? ✨

#CozyHome #GardenInspiration #MagicalChildhood #MillennialMom #SimpleJoys

The routine that gets me out the door looking a little more awake and a lot more put together. 🤍

Nothing complicated—just the products I reach for almost every morning.

P.S. The contour stick is the real MVP. ✨

Everything is linked!

#GRWM #EverydayMakeup #BeautyRoutine #MillennialMom #ClassicStyle

Leggings will always have a place in my closet. 🤍

But when I want something just as comfortable that feels a little more put together, I reach for a monochrome athletic skirt and tee.

Perfect for errands, school pickup, or running around all day without feeling underdressed.

Would you wear this instead of leggings?

#momstyle #classicstyle #everydaystyle #athleisure #outfitinspiration

Romanticizing the ordinary has become one of the best things I’ve done for myself. Turns out, there’s a lot of beauty hiding in everyday moments. 🤍

#ClassicStyle #EverydayMoments #CozyHome #MillennialMom #SummerLifestyle

Former bridal stylist brain…permanently activated. 😂 The second those photos exist, I’ll be zooming in on every detail. Can’t wait to share my opinion no one asked for. Anyone else?

#BridalStylist #WeddingDress #TaylorSwift #StyleTok #MillennialStyle

A little red, white & chic. 🇺🇸
Happy 4th, friends — hope your day is full of sunshine, good food, and sweet summer memories. 🤍

#ClassicStyle
#AmericanaStyle
#MillennialMomStyle
#SummerStyle
#ElevatedEveryday

Not younger. Better. ✨

I spent a lot of my younger years thinking aging was something to fight.
Now I’m more interested in becoming the most refined, grounded, confident version of myself.

What’s something age has made better for you?

#MillennialStyle #Over30Style #ElevatedStyle #ClassicStyle #WearTheOutfit

I maintain that a good outfit can improve at least 73% of life’s problems. 🤍

#MillennialMom #MomStyle #ClassicStyle #ElevatedStyle #OutfitInspo

Feminine doesn’t have to mean fragile.

Sometimes the prettiest outfits say the strongest things. 💗

Top rented from Nuuly ✨

@nuuly #nuuly #cluubnuuly #nuulypartner

Practical doesn’t have to mean boring ✨

One thing I love about renting pieces through Nuuly is getting to play with color, pattern, and silhouettes I might not otherwise try—without the commitment of buying everything.

This box felt like summer fun in clothing form. Which look is your favorite: 1, 2, or 3?
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@nuuly
#nuulypartner #nuuly #cluubnuuly #millennialstyle #classicstyle

My 5-year-old said this completely unprompted and I fear I’ve created a miniature interior designer.

#MomHumor #MillennialMom #FunnyKids #MomLifeUnfiltered #HomeAesthetic

Unpopular opinion: we don’t all need to aspire to the same kind of femininity. ✨

#MillennialMom
#ClassicStyle
#FeminineEnergy
#RomanticizeYourLife
#MomStyle

Proof that summer style can be comfortable and chic ☀️

Three outfits for the moms who still want to feel like themselves.

Comment LINKS for outfit details 🤍

#MillennialMomStyle #ClassicStyle #SummerOutfits #ElevatedEverydayStyle #MomFashion

Not all outfit secrets are glamorous. 😉

For me, it’s usually a combination of curlers, coffee, and a really good pair of shaping shorts.

I’ve been wearing these Honeylove SuperPower Shorts under dresses lately because they smooth everything out, help prevent thigh chafing, and are genuinely comfortable enough to wear all day.

If you’ve been curious about Honeylove, you can use my code BIZIMURRAY for 20% off.

#honeylovepartner #classicstyle #summerstyle #millennialmomstyle #elevatedeveryday

Some seasons ask more of us than we ever expected.

Sometimes we’re carrying worry, grief, motherhood, responsibility, exhaustion… all at once.

But I’m learning that even in heavy seasons, beauty still exists.

In the flowers.
In the coffee.
In the people we love.
In the small moments that remind us we’re still here.

And somewhere along the way, maybe we find pieces of ourselves again, too. 🤍

#MillennialMom #MomLife #LifestyleCreator #EverydayBeauty #MotherhoodUnfiltered

Sip & Share ☕️📚

I finally finished Yesteryear and really enjoyed it.

The premise was so unique, it sparked a lot of thoughts, and I found myself thinking about it long after I put it down.

That said… the main character and I had a few disagreements along the way. 😂

Have you read it? I’d love to hear what you thought.

And yes, it’s not lost on me that I’m dressed exactly like her while talking about the book.

#SipAndShare
#Yesteryear
#Bookstagram
#BookTok
#MillennialMoms

I’ll never be over a good gingham top. 🤍

There’s just something about gingham, white shorts, and a great bag that feels like summer.

Linked everything for anyone who loves a classic outfit as much as I do.
#GinghamGirlSummer
#ClassicStyle
#SummerOutfitIdeas
#ElevatedStyle
#StyleOver40

Our little Swiftie is officially in her 5th birthday era. ✨🎤💖

She requested a Taylor Swift birthday party, and watching her celebrate with her friends made every bit of planning worth it.

From friendship bracelets and dancing to a surprise visit from a certain Taylor Swift, though she was beyond starstruck and took a minute to process it 😂

Forever wishing I could bottle up these little years. 🫶

If you’re planning a Taylor Swift party, I’ve linked the decor, party details, and outfits in my LTK. 🎤✨

#TaylorSwiftBirthdayParty #TaylorSwiftParty #BirthdayPartyInspo #MomLifeMoments #MakingMemories

A basic tee… but prettier 🤍

I’m always looking for pieces that feel effortless but still a little elevated, and the eyelet sleeve detail on this one immediately caught my eye. Plus, it’s incredibly soft and easy to style.

Linked in my LTK ✨

@genleck @amazonfashion
#amazonfashion #amazonfinds #elevatedbasics #classicstyle #millennialstyle

For the girls who want activewear to still feel chic 🤍

This lightweight Amazon jacket surprised me in the best way. The adjustable waist makes it so flattering and elevated. Linked in LTK + my Amazon storefront ✨

@genleck_kassy

#amazonfashion #athleisurestyle #momstyle #amazonfinds #everydaystyle

The moms making the memories are usually exhausted too 🤍

Meanwhile my son was approximately 5-7 business days behind us because he was mad and refused to hold my hand 😂 cute video made from a bit of a tantrum which shows this is #reallife

#millennialmom #motherhoodunfiltered #momlife #summermemories

Just a few moments from our beach week 🤍

The older I get, the more I crave simple beautiful things —
slow mornings,
ocean air,
family dinners,
good books,
classic style,
and making memories with the people I love most.

If you’re into classic style, cozy moments & romanticizing motherhood… stay awhile ✨

#ClassicStyle
#RomanticizingMotherhood
#MillennialMom
#CoastalStyle
#EverydayBeauty

Just a girl in Florida dressed like a vintage postcard ✨

Apparently this was my most complimented vacation outfit all week and honestly… I get it 😂 The sardine tee + giant skirt combo had random women stopping me in shops.

Linked everything in my LTK 🐚

#coastalstyle
#vacationoutfit
#classicstyle
#ltkit
#elevatedstyle

A blue and white lover’s dream 🐚🩵

I fear I’ll now be spending the rest of summer dressed like I am on vacation somewhere I can’t afford, even when I’m landlocked in KC 😂

This seashell romper from Nuuly immediately came with me to Florida 🤍

@nuuly @shopnuuly
#nuuly #cluubnuuly #nuulypartner #coastalstyle

Marriage is just your husband making fun of your reel… then owning it with his own scene 😂🌊

Honestly though, these are the kinds of summer nights I know we’ll miss someday. Golden hour, salty air, and not taking ourselves too seriously.

#marriedlife
#summerreels
#coastalvibes
#millennialmom
#florida

Somewhere between “be healthier” and “order the lobster roll and enjoy your life.” 🦞🥂

Trying to find balance this summer instead of punishment.

#MillennialMom #CoastalGrandmother #SummerStyle #LifestyleCreator #EatDrinkAndBeMerry