football friday. - it was a this time last year that we loaded up and visited our new home. visiting our new home FOR THE FIRST TIME even though H had already moved up there, started in his role three weeks before, and bought a house WITHOUT ME EVER VISITING. - yea, never saw the house. the town. the school. nothing, only pictures. but that’s how this life works. sometimes in this profession there really is only one option and after nine seasons i knew this was the only option. despite how horrific that may sound and adding another move in less than a year, it was the best fit for us as a family and for his career. - people ask me all the time, “how do we do it?’ and my answer is always the same. this life is full of constant unknowns. daily we question if what we are doing is the right thing. is this a good move? how long will we be here for? what is the next step? will I be happy? can he be successful? but our secret, we stopped living in fear. - you may have had these big plans before you became a coach’s wife and how your life should be. the free weekends, fun vacations, less moves, and a husband the is around way more than he is. but i just want to remind you, stop living in fear, enjoy the ride. our view as a coach’s wife is what you make of it and i promise once you let go of that fear, the view is so much better.