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I’ve been looking for a gorgeous cream ruffleneck blouse ever since I saw Cameron Diaz in The Holiday wearing one to lunch with Jude Law. It’s easy to underestimate this blouse, but the pearl buttons and filmy fabric elevate it. It comes with a detachable black tie you can add for a contrasting black-and-cream look. It fits true to size, and I’m in a small. I’m wearing it with a regular nude bra. On the bottom, I’m wearing LOFT black wide leg jeans in my true size, they fit relaxed and have a slight gap at the back of the waist. I may trim an inch off the raw hem to shorten the length. LTKCyberWeek LTKHoliday LTKOver40

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These black Target ankle boots look exactly like my J.Crew Factory ankle boots. The heel is 2 inches and spans the width of the back of the boot for easy walking. I’m wearing this Target fair isle sweater in a medium.

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Today’s outfit to take Zuzu to the vet. She’s 15 and started limping this weekend. But she’s on the mend now and doing much better. I matched my outfit to her because I knew it would be covered in dog hair after our visit. These light blue cords are old but the same color is available from LOFT (tts). A similar cream ruffle neck turtleneck is linked. I wear this Walmart brown shacket in a medium, but a small would also work. These brown Chelsea boots are old and I will never get rid of them. I linked a similar pair.

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Here’s a classic dressy look. I’m pairing this classic red plaid Christmas blouse from Social Threads (fits TTS) with black velvet wide leg pants (size down).

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Here I’m pairing this classic red plaid Christmas blouse from Social Threads (fits TTS) with my Kut From the Kloth coated wide leg jeans (similar linked). These also run true to size and give the blouse a more edgy dressed up feel.

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I love a classic red plaid Christmas blouse, and I had been eyeing this one from Social Threads for a few weeks. When they sent it to me to try, I was genuinely excited. If you follow me here, you may have already seen that I wore it out to dinner and a movie on Saturday night (with the same jeans). It hits right at the hip, which makes it easy to wear untucked or with a simple front tuck.

I paired it with my well loved Risen kick crop jeans, also from Social Threads. They run true to size. The forecast here says Christmas temps may be a little warmer, so ballet flats may be an option for the holiday!

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Velvet blazer & coated pants outfit: add an edge to your velvet blazer outfit by pairing it with leather pants. These coated pants from Kut From the Kloth fit tts. This blazer is old from J.Crew Factory. Similar options are linked.

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Last night’s festive casual dinner and a movie outfit. We went to see The Holiday at a local winery with my sister and brother in law. I love a classic plaid blouse. I’m wearing this one from Social Threads in a S. It fits TTS. These Risen kick crop jeans fit true to size. I’ve been living in these jeans.

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Today’s errands and Christmas shopping outfit. I left a coat at home and was perfectly warm in this sweater. I’m wearing this Old Navy fair isle sweater in a Medium. I layered it over a long sleeve tee and it is slightly relaxed and wide. It hits at the hip bone. These Old Navy wide leg jeans fit TTS. I’m in the short length so they easily work with flat shoes at 5’6”.

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I’ve been eyeing this J.Crew Factory Fuschia mockneck sweater for a few weeks now because the color is gorgeous! Today it’s on sale for 70% off (under $30). This came home with me and Adam will wrap it up for under the tree. I'm wearing a large and needed it in the upper arms to be able to layer a long sleeve tee underneath. It fits small. My Old Navy wide leg jeans fit TTS. I’m in the short length to wear with flats at 5’6”.

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Hi friend! Here are FIT NOTES about some of my favorite jeans.
Looks 1 & 3: Risen kick crop jeans from Social Threads- fit true to size (TTS)
Look 2: Old Navy wide leg wow jeans in the short inseam to wear with flat shoes at 5’6”- fit TTS
Looks 4 & 6: Gap black high rise kick fit cropped jeans- size up
Look 5: J.Crew Factory black wide leg cropped jeans- fit TTS
Look 7: J.Crew Factory wide leg trouser jeans- fit big, size up
Look 8: Gap 70s flare jeans- fit small, size up. I’m wearing the short inseam to wear them with flats at 5’6”.

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Party outfit: With a sequin top, a black leather jacket and black jeans add an edgy vibe that’s perfect for heading to a restaurant for drinks and dinner on date night or even New Year’s Eve. This LOFT black sequin top fits small. I’m in a large with a 36-B bust. These J.Crew Factory black wide leg cropped jeans fit TTS. A similar leather jacket is linked.

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Party outfit: Pairing leather with sequins is an easy way to create a confident and glam look. The toughness of leather, whether pants or a jacket, offers a sharp contrast to the shine of sequins, resulting in a modern and edgy vibe that is perfect for a memorable night out. FIT: size up in this loft sequin top. I’m a 36B and wear a size large. These Kut From the Kloth wide leg coated jeans fit true size.

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Most stores have shipping deadlines fast approaching, so this is a good weekend to shop if you want orders to arrive on time.

Our temps dropped significantly since I took these photos, so swap ankle boots for ballet flats or loafers. ⁠
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Look 1: LOFT mountain ski sweater (fits big; size S). This is a sellout risk. Several super cute alternatives are linked. Everything is 55% off. Size up in these Gap flares (I'm in the short inseam to wear with flats at 5'6").⁠
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Look 2: J.Crew Factory white-and-red shirtdress w/ pockets. I'm in an 8 with a 36-B bust. A 10 would be roomier in the shoulders. Currently 60% off.⁠
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Look 3: LOFT sequin top (size up, I'm in a L), LOFT velvet pants (I sized down, in a 8). 55% off. ⁠
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Look 4: A similar velvet blazer and green shell are linked. Size up in these Gap flares (I'm in the short length) ⁠
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Look 5: Target Fairisle sweater (in a M, relaxed fit, a S would work too), Social Threads Risen kick crop jeans (fit tts) Use code CHEER20 to for 20% off through tonight, Walmart coat (size M), Target ankle boots (TTS), Quince black bag⁠
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Look 6: LOFT cream sparkle-button cable cardigan (relaxed fit, I'm in a S), Gap flare jeans (size up, in the short length to wear with flats) ⁠
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Look 7: Social Threads red ruffle detail top (fits TTS, in a S), Social Threads Risen kick crop jeans (fit TTS, I'm in a 10). Use code CHEER20 for 20% off through tonight
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Look 8: Target olive green mockneck sweater (relaxed fit, in a medium, but a small would work too). Sequined pants (size medium; they’re snug pulling over the hips, but are the right fit). So comfy.⁠
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Look 9: LOFT burgundy straight cords (fit tts) J.Crew Factory striped ruffle button-down. The snakeskin ankle boots are sold out, but the black Target pair is similar. ⁠
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📏For reference, I’m midsized, 5’6”, slightly short-waisted, 36-B bust, and wear a small or medium top with size 10 jeans. ⁠
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If a sequin top is a new style for you and out of your comfort zone, pair it with pieces you know and love to make the outfit feel familiar and comfortable. Here I’m pairing it with blue flare jeans and black ankle boots. This look is a perfect outfit for a New Year’s Eve neighborhood party. It’s festive casual.
FIT: Size up in this LOFT sequin top. I'm in a large with 36-B bust. Size up one in the jeans. I'm in the short length to wear with flats at 5'6".

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This cream LOFT blouse is gorgeous (fits TTS). It comes with a removable camisole and black neck tie. Here I'm wearing it with black wide leg cropped jeans from J.Crew Factory (tts) for an elevated casual look. Wear this for a holiday brunch with girlfriends.

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I finally added a red sweater shell to my closet. Red and black velvet totally work together. I’m obsessed with the visual interest a striped ruffle-neck button-down shirt adds to any outfit. I’m leaving it untucked for a relaxed vibe and to show the cute striped hem for even more visual interest. I’m creating stylish tension in this outfit by choosing a very casual pair of jeans with these black kick crop jeans with a raw hem. The cropped length instantly makes the look more casual and shows off the black leather ankle boots. I chose boots with a 2” heel rather than a chunky flat lug sole for a more elevated feel.

FIT: Size up in these @gap kick crop jeans. A similar blazer is linked. This red shell sold out so fast. A similar one is linked.

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Today’s errands outfit. It was cold but this outfit was cozy enough that I could leave my coat in the car when I ran into stores. I love blue and green together and especially when this plaid scarf adds to the festive vibe. This green cardigan is sold out. I linked a similar one. These grey straight cords from LOFT fit true to size. I’m wearing this quince quilted jacket in a size medium.

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It’s been very cold and snowy here in VA! Today’s outfit for my sister’s birthday lunch had to have lug sole boots and long cords. These LOFT long cords fit TTS. I’m in this Old Navy sweater in a M and layered a long sleeve tee under it for extra warmth. I also own it in cream. I love the little ruffle detail.

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I've been looking for a black pair of ankle boots similar to my favorite J.Crew Factory ankle boots, which are now sold out. ⁠
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I found them at Target for half the cost! ⁠
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They have the same low 2-inch heel that spans the back of the shoe for stability. And they have a cushioned insole for comfort. The elongated snip toe is surprisingly comfortable, and the sleekness pairs well with just about any style of jeans and pants, including wide-leg jeans.⁠
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This black nylon bag is new from Quince, and I'm in love! It's the perfect everyday bag. ⁠
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FIT: These boots fit TTS. I'm wearing this Target Fair Isle sweater in a M. These jeans are from the Risen kick crops from Social Threads. They fit tts. ⁠
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📏For reference, I’m midsized, 5’6”, slightly short-waisted, 36-B bust, and wear a small or medium top with size 10 jeans.⁠

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Wear this velour set from Old Navy for Christmas family dinner with cute flats and sparkling jewelry. This set (pieces sold separately) is a lounging look that you can totally wear in front of company and all day long. PANTS FIT: I ordered all three sizes of these pants just to make sure I got the right fit. I liked the snug waistband of the Medium but prefer the looser hips and thighs in the Large (the Medium was too snug in the rear for my comfort). I ended up washing the Large, and they fit the same after the wash. SWEATSHIRT FIT: This raglan sleeve crewneck sweatshirt ends right at the hip bone. I’ll wear it with a tank top underneath or a black tee tucked in for extra coverage since it ends right at the hip. I’m wearing a Medium with a 36-B bust. These pieces went ON SALE for under $20, and stock is fluctuating significantly now. I'm hoping you catch your size while it's available! They come in burgundy and camel, too. I also linked a well-rated option from Amazon.

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This velour set (pieces sold separately) from Old Navy is a lounging look that you can totally wear in front of company. PANTS FIT: I ordered all three sizes of these pants just to make sure I got the right fit. I liked the snug waistband of the Medium but prefer the looser hips and thighs in the Large (the Medium was too snug in the rear for my comfort). I ended up washing the Large, and they fit the same after the wash. SWEATSHIRT FIT: This raglan sleeve crewneck sweatshirt ends right at the hip bone. I’ll wear it with a tank top underneath or a black tee tucked in for extra coverage since it ends right at the hip. I’m wearing a Medium with a 36-B bust. Pair it with socks or slippers on Christmas morning. These pieces went ON SALE for under $20, and stock is fluctuating significantly now. I'm hoping you catch your size while it's available! They come in burgundy and camel, too. I also linked a well-rated option from Amazon.

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For an easy Christmas day family dinner look, layer a white button-down shirt (I’m wearing an old soft linen shirt) under this Old Navy Fair Isle sweater (I'm in an M), with wide leg jeans (fit TTS, in the short length), and you’re set. For shoes, wear anything from slippers to easy flats or ankle boots. These Target ankle boots fit tts and are super comfy.

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I’ve been loving the striped track pants trend lately. When I spotted an outfit on the Old Navy site pairing this red Fair Isle sweater with red-and-white track pants, I knew I had to recreate it. Just add some red socks and slippers, and you’re ready to head down to the tree with your favorite hot drink. I’m wearing the pants in a small, they fit big. I’m in a medium in the sweater. It has a relaxed fit.

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The vibe on Christmas Day is always laid-back and relaxed, so I want to skip making a ton of outfit decisions and just stay comfy all day.

Today, I’ve got your Christmas Day covered with four outfit ideas built around two day-to-night looks that take you easily from morning gifts to hosting dinner.

Choose from cozy sweater looks or a velour set look.

These ideas are easy, festive, and look great in pictures; and, if you’re packing to visit family, they’re simple to transition from morning to evening.

The Fair Isle pullover (size M) is so festive, looks great in pictures, and easily goes from morning to night by swapping the striped track pants (size S) for wide-leg jeans (fit TTS) and adding a button-down shirt.

The black velour set (pieces sold separately- M top and L bottoms) is one you can wear from the moment you wake up until you go to bed at night, with just a few accessory swaps. Keep it comfy with slippers for the morning, then swap to flats and sparkly jewelry for dinner. **This set is selling fast and stock is fluctuating. I linked a similar option from Amazon.

📏For reference, I’m midsized, 5’6”, slightly short-waisted, 36-B bust, and wear a small or medium top with size 10/12 jeans.

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I am always attracted to dog sweaters! This Target sweater is too cute! It has matching pajamas for the whole family.

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Today felt like a good day to wear cords out shopping! It’s cold here and we’re expecting another 1-3 inches of snow tomorrow. LOFT is 50% + 20% off today. These burgundy straight cords fit tts. This cardigan has a subdued festive vibe. I’m in a small and it’s a relaxed fit. These black ankle boots from Target are so comfy. They fit tts. I’m wearing this Walmart coat in a Medium. It fits tts.

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Today’s lunch and errands outfit. Winter has arrived. We had 3 inches of snow on Thursday and it’s been in the 30s ever since. Loving this new Target fair isle sweater. I’m in a Medium. I’m also in a Medium in this black quilted Quince coat. This brown Quince crossbody bag adds a pop of contrasting color. First time Quince customers can take 10% off your purchase using promo code INFG-25BESOYOUMIDLIFE10. These are Risen kick crop jeans from Social Threads. They are so soft, slimming in the tummy, and fit true to size. Get 20% off at checkout through 12/13. Sizes are dwindling.

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This black nylon Quince crossbody bag is perfect for every day and traveling. It’s 11” wide so you can even fit your Kindle in it. If you’re a new customer and this is your first purchase, use my unique promo code for 10% off INFG-25BESOYOUMIDLIFE10

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Size up in this cream jersey button up shirt from LOFT. I’m in a large. These Risen kick crop jeans fit true to size. I am in a medium of this Quince Italian wool blazer.

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Go up a size in the Gap flares. I’m in the short length to wear with flats at 5’6”. I’m in a medium for this Quince single-breasted Italian wool coat with a 36-B bust and size 10 bottom half. I’d size up to a large for a looser fit around the rear when buttoned.

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This is one of the best ways to wear your velvet blazer for special occasions. All-black with jeans is a great option and an elegant look that always works. Flare jeans with a dark wash and long length create an elevated vibe with this velvet blazer and black top. If the dress code calls for formal attire, it’s a good idea to swap out the jeans and wear plain black trousers instead. Pull the look together with a sparkly statement necklace, earrings, a rhinestone embellished bag, and ankle-wrap pumps with a rhinestone buckle. This velvet blazer is old from J.Crew Factory. Similar options are linked. These Gap flare jeans fit small. I sized up and am wearing the short length at 5’6”.

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Wearing a pop of color with your velvet blazer gives a fun twist to your look. This outfit is preppy from the striped ruffle-neck blue button-down shirt and the green vest. But it’s also so festive, thanks to the pointy-toe satin shoes with rhinestones and this rhinestone clutch bag, which are both Amazon finds. They look amazing with this velvet blazer! Try solid colors, especially gem tones, with your velvet blazer for a chic look. I sized up in these Gap flare jeans and am wearing the short length for flat or nearly flat shoes.

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A black velvet blazer is a classic and it is so easy to keep it looking fresh with a few simple styling choices. It is a great piece for a Christmas capsule wardrobe because you can pull it out year after year. I like to layer it over a ruffle neck blouse with a sweater shell and pointy toe heels or ankle boots or keep it simple with a solid black sweater and heels or boots or a black cardigan and black patent loafers.

This velvet blazer and green sweater vest are old from J.Crew Factory, and I linked similar options.
For the flare jeans from Gap, size up. I am wearing the short length at 5’6” to wear them with flat shoes. The cropped wide leg jeans are sold out. #LTKCyberWeek

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If your style is classic, a red sweater will take you from the office holiday party to holiday shopping, brunch, and beyond.
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Red is one of my favorite colors, and I easily styled 7 outfits with this sweater! Pair it with brown, light blue, chambray, a striped shirt, a jersey button down, burgundy, a blazer, leopard print, black patent leather, Mary Janes, snakeskin ankle boots… the list goes on and on!

Go up a size in the Gap flares. I’m in the short length to wear with flats at 5’6”. Risen kick crops fit tts. The black wide leg cropped pants are sold out. Similar pair is linked. The light blue cords are old. A straight pair is linked.

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This black dot blouse from Social Threads is another piece that can be dressed up with black pants and heeled boots, or dressed down with jeans and flats. This look is elevated casual with jeans and dressy ankle boots. I'm in the top in a size small with LOFT relaxed curvy flare jeans. Size down in these. They are long at 5'6" but make the legs look long and lean. I need a slightly heeled boot with them.

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I love a boatneck top and have received several compliments on this black sequined one on Instagram. It’s so flattering! Wear it with black velvet pants or with black jeans, a leather jacket, and dressy black boots for a night out or even New Year’s Eve. The top runs small. I am in a large with a 36B bust. I’m wearing it with LOFT wide leg black jeans in my true size. They fit relaxed and gap a little at the waist. I could probably size down. They do run long, and since the hem is raw, I’m planning to trim off about an inch of length.

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