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A couple years ago I started putting on a lot of weight. It started after my mom died and chocolate was the thing that made me feel better. I’ve lifted weights most of my life, and I walk a lot. Nothing will budge the belly fat and sorry but I just love chocolate too much to give it up! So what were my choices? Give up eating everything I love and work out like a fiend? Or focus on being healthy and strong and buying clothes that are belly friendly? The second choice won! I love the place I am in my life right now and want to continue to set positivity out in the world about women that are aging and changing. I would love for you to join me on this journey so we can all get the most out of our midlife. xoxo Tricia LTKdayinmylife LTKOver40 LTKootd

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Lucy Raw Hem High Waist Crop Wide Leg Jeans | Nordstrom Rack

adidas Grand Court Lo Sneaker in White/Black/Gum at Nordstrom Rack, Size 10 | Nordstrom Rack

Presley Mesh Bomber: Black | Carve Designs

Poplin Utility Midi Shirtdress | Banana Republic Factory

French Connection Mozart Stripe Crewneck Sweater in Mocha-Caramel at Nordstrom Rack, Size Medium | Nordstrom Rack

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Gigi Sandal (Women) | Nordstromrack | Nordstrom Rack

Sam Edelman Gigi Women's Sandals Cyprus Tan Leopard : 9.5 W, Leather/Synthetic | Zappos.com

No Boundaries Wide Leg Cargo Pants 32” Inseam Women’s and Women’s Plus | Walmart (US)

High Rise Double Knit Crop Kick Pants | Gap (US)

Organic Cotton Denim Classic Shirt | Gap (US)

Italian Leather Glove Ballet Flat | Quince

Forever Short-Sleeve Sweater | Banana Republic Factory

Wide-Leg High-Rise Crinkle Satin Pull-On Pant | Banana Republic Factory

Relaxed Embroidered Tie-Front Top | Gap Factory

Splendid Stripe Open Front Cardigan (Women) | Nordstromrack | Nordstrom Rack

Free Assembly Women's and Women's Plus Pineapple Cardigan Sweater with Short Puff Sleeves, Lightw... | Walmart (US)

Organic Cotton Poplin Classic Shirt | Gap (US)

Striped short-sleeve relaxed beach sweater | J.Crew Factory

So I finally sized up in my favorite jeans & they are spectacular! I still love the 2p, they just fit a little tighter now because I’ve gained weight. The great news is that because of the fab ab technology I can still wear them. You won’t regret buying a pair of these jeans! These are the 4 petite. Exact pair is linked & so is the regular size.

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Still loving this $20 dress. It’s so high-end feeling. And I don’t care what anyone thinks of it, but I feel good in it.

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Some new jewelry and a beautiful $20 dress!

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Have you heard of snap dresses? Well they’re gorgeous and incredibly expensive. This one looks like the same style and it’s $27.

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This is a statement piece & it can be worn multiple ways. Dress it up or down. But you’ll wear it over & over! Comes in several color ways. Designer inspired at a discount price.

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This dress is partially sold out and is on sale for $15! If you want it grab it now before it’s gone. The adorable cardigan is also on sale for $15! It is flying off the shelves so grab it while you still can. Wearing a small in both pieces.

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This beautiful dress is on sale for $20!

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These really are the very best jeans for anybody in midlife. They look amazing and feel even better. He won’t even question that midlife belly weight you’ve put on because even you won’t remember that it’s there.

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Sochi a cute & classic dressed. That has you looking polished is no time!

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This chambray dress is perfect for this time of year. It can be worn alone when it’s hot & layered for a cooler day. And for $27 you can’t beat the price.

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This is such a beautiful swimsuit and it’s so flattering as well. The beautiful detail around the tummy area with the 3-D flower camouflage is any insecurities you have and the deep view brings your eyes up. I love this color so much too that I think I might start getting it more often. What are you guys think of this color on me?

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I have been looking for a great denim dress and this one is it! I love it in both colors. It can easily be dressed up or down. Maddie and I are both wearing small.

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These are my absolute favorite pair of jeans. The fab ab technology makes them feel so comfortable around the waist, flattering and never tight. My cute cardigan is from last year, but I’m linking this year’s version that is very similar.

This shirt is the perfect transitional piece for heading into fall, but will also be a year-round workhorse. The fact that it’s $19.99 makes it even better. styled perfectly with a pair of denim you look chic in no time.

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My favorite ultra soft, baggy, wide leg jeans are only $53 right now

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My poplin button up & the pants I like to call my “Jackie pants” are 40% off!

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Maddie and I are wearing the same style jeans, in the same size but she’s 19 and I’m 55. We are both wearing the six petite she’s in the color Miami and I’m wearing the solstice

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These pants are comfortable, fit fantastic around your waist and are so flattering. You definitely can’t beat the price. There are other colors available as well. I am wearing the 4p which are perfectly comfortable, but I think I could have sized up to the 6p.

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Not only are these pants just perfect, they are perfect for transitional weather and getting ready for fall. Grab them in at least one color. They will go with everything and are so comfortable. They come in petite, tall, and regular sizes!!

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This is such a cute set for your teen & early 20s girls. It’s very juicy couture! Perfect for going back to school.

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This is actually a super cute, well-made, affordable denim dress. It’s perfect for those transition days. I would love to know how you guys like it.

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I can’t believe this dress is on sale for $28.50! It looks super high-end, it is 100% cotton poplin & feels soft & rich.

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This corset swimsuit has the cutest details. This color is gorgeous, but it comes in others as well. And this wrap skirt couldn’t be cuter!

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These ultra soft baggy jeans will have you feeling 20 years younger than no time! They look like the girl jeans, but also feel great around your menopausal belly! Bonus, your teenage daughter is gonna want to steal them from you 🤭

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I’m obsessed with skincare and sunscreen and the combination in these products is the best. Sunscreen is so important in having one that works and also feels good. Means you will continue using it.

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OK guys we pretty much sold this orange dress out, but it just dropped in navy and champagne… Currently $11! There are still a couple sizes left in this color and several others as well.

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Here is a very cute outfit that you can start wearing today, but will continue to wear into September and if you’re lucky, maybe even October!!

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Here’s my easy, effortless makeup look! Everything linked in the order I use it!

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The shirt is linen blend, but it feels heavier way than normal linen. It is beautiful, and I love the cropped shape of it.

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Grab these linen pants while they are a deal at $27!

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A white T-shirt is something that you will grab for again and again. It looks great layered, with a pair of denim shorts or jeans and the price point on this one is so great.

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This was so fun to do! Let me know what you agree with & add some of your own. I could keep doing this, so lmk if you want more!

Of course I’m linking what I can for you.

I love all of Kiehls products and I know this new product is going to be fabulous. It’s perfect for those of us who need some plumping. And there is 25% off right now.

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For anyone looking for pants that work with your body after 50… these are worth a look. Comfortable, flattering, and belly-friendly. 🤍

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