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Stylingwithrebecca

A year ago I was newly postpartum, still learning how to dress my body after having my daughters. Everything had changed and I felt a little lost with my style.

Now I feel so much more confident in my size 14 body. I love getting dressed now, experimenting with colour and different shapes.

If you’re feeling a bit lost with your style too, follow along @stylingwithrebecca for styling tips made for midsize women over 30 🫶🏼

#midsize #stylingtip #outfitideas #styleover30 #size14style

#LTKmidsize #LTKjeans #LTKspring

A year ago I was newly postpartum, still learning how to dress my body after having my daughters. Everything had changed and I felt a little lost with my style. Now I feel so much more confident in my size 14 body. I love getting dressed now, experimenting with colour and different shapes. If you’re feeling a bit lost with your style too, follow along @stylingwithrebecca for styling tips made for midsize women over 30 🫶🏼 midsize stylingtip outfitideas styleover30 size14style LTKmidsize LTKjeans LTKspring

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Indigo Waistcoat and Palazzo Wide Leg Jeans Co-ord | George

Indigo High Waisted Palazzo Wide Leg Co-ord Jeans | George

Wanderdoll Eman sleeveless slash neck satin drape waist detail bodycon maxi dress in black | ASOS (Global)

Forever New high cowl neck knot drape detail back maxi dress in red | ASOS (Global)

Reclaimed Vintage longline suede look trench coat with faux fur collar and cuffs in khaki | ASOS (Global)

ASOS DESIGN super high waist flare jean with comfort stretch in mid blue | ASOS (Global)

ASOS DESIGN front pocket flare jeans in dark mid wash | ASOS (Global)

ASOS DESIGN chiffon boho ruffle blouse in cream | ASOS (Global)

New Look shirred ruffle sleeve top in black | ASOS (Global)

Stradivarius cropped tailored trench coat in khaki | ASOS (Global)

H&M swimwear ⬇️
I need to be slimmer to wear the swimsuit this summer… no, I don’t - let me show you!

#LTKtravel #LTKswimwear #LTKmidsize

Spend the day with us… coffee, a catch up and a little mooch around the shops on a sunny London afternoon ☕️ love a good trench, short jeans combo!

#girlsday #midsizegirl #ootd #londoninthesun #shoppingday

#LTKjeans #LTKspring #LTKmidsize

New in F&F finds that work for your shape! And there’s 25% off clothing with a clubcard- thank me later 🥰

#LTKspring #LTKjeans #LTKuk

A moment for M&S new in… because WOW! Quick try-on: on the hanger vs on me and honestly, I’m impressed. The fit, the feel, the vibe… it’s giving elevated everyday!

This is your proof that sometimes you just need to see it on a real body to get it!

#springoutfits #midsize #size14 #tallfashion #effortlessstyle

#LTKspring #LTKmidsize #LTKuk

A wet & rainy Mother’s Day wearing The rain jacket that doesn't look like a rain jacket ☔️

#LTKeurope #LTKjeans #LTKspring

George at Asda new in spring outfits. Midsize UK14

#LTKjeans #LTKuk #LTKspring

Amazon spring deals are here ! I’m linking a few of my favourite products on sale ❤️

#amazon #springdeals #discount

#LTKuk #LTKspring #LTKgiftguide

A day in Marylebone is always a good idea… outfit details shared ❤️

Balloon Jeans spring outfit

#LTKspring #LTKmidsize #LTKjeans

I went shopping in the US 🇺🇸 but good news… you can actually get most of this in the UK too. I’ve linked it all and if you want the details just comment SHOP and I’ll send everything straight to your DMs.

I’ve also saved some extras in my stories too so head there if you want more!

@levis @abercrombie @target @anthropologie

#shoppinghaul #midsize #jeans #affordablefashion #outfitideasforyou

Let's talk LOWER TUMMY FRIENDLY dressing, shall we?

These simple styling tweaks can genuinely change how you feel: more CONFIDENCE, more COMFORT, and far less time thinking about your tummy.

I've rounded up my lower tummy friendly must-haves!

And don't forget to follow for @stylingwithrebecca for more confidenceboosting outfit inspo ❤️

#LTKjeans #LTKspringtrends #LTKmidsize

The photo I posted ✔️ vs the one I deleted ❌

Most things online aren’t even real. Angles. Lighting. Posing. Editing. That’s what we see a lot of!

So please stop comparing yourself to people who don’t even exist in real life. We all show our best angles, that’s normal but putting pressure on yourself to look “perfect” in every photo? That’s just exhausting! Instead use that energy for things that actually bring you joy. You deserve more than that.

So here are the real one photos. The tummy rolls. The back rolls. The stretch marks. The lot! Just a mum by the pool, enjoying the sun and loving life. ☀️

#midsizegals #bodypositivemovement #embraceyourself #embracelife #curvyconfidence

True story… and I honestly have to share what it taught me.

Last week I went jean shopping. I picked up my usual size 14 without even thinking. But when I tried them on, they were far too small. Not just “a bit snug.” Actually uncomfortable! Digging in. Restricting. The kind of fit where you’re already planning to avoid sitting down. 🫣

So, slightly reluctantly, I went back and grabbed the 16. I won’t lie - i fully expected to feel defeated walking back into that changing room.

But WOW. The difference it made!!

They fit. Properly. They skimmed instead of squeezed. I could breathe. I could move. And here’s the part that shocked me most…

The bigger size actually made me look slimmer.

I had to share this because that moment genuinely changed how I see myself.

For the longest time, I believed squeezing into the smaller size meant I was “winning.” Like forcing myself into a number somehow proved I was doing something right. But the truth? I wasn’t winning anything. I was just uncomfortable. Self-conscious. Constantly adjusting my jeans, holding my breath, tugging at the waistband, and pretending it was fine.

And the irony? I actually LOVED these jeans - once I tried them in the size that fit.

Here’s the wild part: the bigger size looked better because it FITS my body. No pulling. No cutting in. No awkward lines. Just clothes sitting how they’re meant to.

The number doesn’t matter. The fit does.

So here’s your reminder today:
Release the pressure to shrink yourself.
Wear the size that feels good.
Wear the size that lets you live your life comfortably.
Wear the size that fits YOU.

Because confidence, not the number on a label will always be what people notice first.

Oh, and if you want the link to these jeans let me know! 👖 @abercrombie

#LTKXAbercrombieDenim #LTKjeans #LTKspring

Styling a NEW IN spring outfit:
Balloon jeans with a POP of brights (this case red). This look will be great if you want to follow the trend in a wearable, everyday look @abercrombie

#LTKjeans #LTKXAbercrombieDenim #LTKspring

Abercrombie Spring Try on! @abercrombie

#LTKjeans #LTKspring #LTKXAbercrombieDenim

Ever wondered where each rise should actually sit when buying jeans? Here’s how to tell:
1. Low rise – Sits on your hips, a few inches below your belly button. Very 2000s.
2. Mid rise – Sits just under or right at your belly button. Easy, everyday fit.
3. High rise – Sits at or slightly above your belly button. Smooths and shapes the waist.
4. Super high rise – Sits well above your belly button, near your natural waist. Extra cinched, vintage feel.

Comment JEANS for the jeans I’m wearing here. If you struggle with a lower tummy (like me!), a high rise is usually your best, it sits above the area and gives a smoother, more secure fit without cutting you in half. This is usually my go to! @abercrombie

#LTKjeans #LTKXAbercrombieDenim #LTKmidsize

I spent over $200 in Sephora and sharing what I bought - think glowy & contoured for everyday!

Make up by Mario shaping stick - shade LIGHT MEDIUM
Charlotte Tilbury Glow Stick - 1.5 Fair
Make Up Forever setting powder - shade 1Y18
Anastasia Beverly Hills highlighter - iced out
Laneige lip tint- shade lo-fi mauve
#LTKFashionMonth

#LTKbeauty #LTKspring

Filmed this the day before my Orlando trip when I realised we had… no suitcases! Of course I ran to @shopmatalan (my go to for suitcases) and couldn’t resist trying on some of the new in spring finds.

Some real good pieces you can layer now and still wear later - and I’m taking you through them all. So come join me for a chatty shop. Let me know which ones are your faves!

#LTKjeans #LTKmidsize #LTKspring

M&S new-in, styled on two sizes!

I’m back with Kate, who had her baby 3 months ago and is currently wearing a size 12 and 5’4, while I’m 5ft8 and a 14. Same pieces, two different body shapes and we’re showing all angles so you can see how they really fit and flatter!

We’d love to know your favourite look below!

#LTKjeans #LTKuk #LTKmidsize

5 mid-size wedding guest dresses that flatter your tummy!

#LTKwedding #LTKFashionMonth #LTKmidsize

Revealing my skincare routine that’s so good people think I’ve had Botox 👀
These are the exact steps I use — quick to do in the morning and before bed, no faff, just consistency.

#LTKbeauty #LTKuk #LTKgiftguide

One of my fave necklaces ❤️

#LTKgiftguide #LTKdatenight #LTKuk

Dyson airwrap curls that ACTUALLY last!

#LTKbeauty #LTKmidsize #LTKuk

Saturday OOTD for my friends baby shower featuring the OG barrel leg jeans !!

#LTKjeans #LTKuk #LTKspring

My favourite everyday bra !
Using this link will give you 20% off :
https://checkout.honeylove.com/STYLINGWITHREBECCA

#LTKstyletip #LTKuk #LTKmidsize

You don’t need to change your body to wear the clothes!
Despite what we’re constantly shown on your feed, you’re allowed to exist exactly as you are.
I’m sharing outfits for the body you have now - follow @stylingwithrebecca along if that’s you 🫶🏼🫶🏼

#bodypositivity #midsize #size14style #selflove #embraceyourself

Valentines gift guide

#LTKFashionMonth #LTKbeauty #LTKdatenight

Cupshe Summer looks! This will get you so excited summer ☀️

#LTKuk #LTKmidsize #LTKspring

Everyday comfy looks coming right up! Think school run, weekend walks and everything in between.
Comment SHOP for all the links straight to your DMs.

Easy. Comfy. Still put together. Because real life needs real outfits. Save this for later 🫶🏼

#LTKFashionMonth #LTKuk #LTKwinter

This outfit is for those bloated days when you don’t want to wear jeans! Recreating a Pinterest outfit on a size 14 💫
Comment SHOP for all the links straight into your DMs.

Im all for being comfy, flattering, yet still chic and actually wearable. I think this shows you don’t need a Pinterest body to wear Pinterest outfits. What do you think - nailed it or failed it?

#midsize#pinterestoutfit #pinterestgirl #affordablestyles #effortlesslychic

#LTKwinter #LTKstyletip #LTKmidsize

Part 4 of my series : Try January! Going out midsize outfit

#LTKuk #LTKjeans #LTKmidsize

Part 3 of Try January - everyday school run look!

#LTKstyletip #LTKuk #LTKmidsize

Pinterest inspired outfit on UK 14

#LTKjeans #LTKmidsize #LTKuk

My favourite midsize approved favourite items!

#LTKuk #LTKmidsize #LTKjeans

GRWM - dinner look

#LTKwinter #LTKjeans #LTKmidsize

New look - keep or return?

#LTKjeans #LTKmidsize #LTKwinter