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🤎 Effortless fall styling with @Abercrombie—timeless pieces you can mix & match all season long. I’m loving the contrast of this structured belt with clean ivory denim & a classic sleeveless knit. ✨ Polished enough for dinner out, casual enough for everyday wear—this is the kind of outfit formula you’ll reach for again and again. 🛒 Linked the full look so you can shop it directly—belt, denim, top & all the details are just a tap away. Would you wear this more for daytime errands or a night out? 👇 AbercrombieStyle FallOutfits LTKfall NeutralStyle OOTD LTKunder100 LTKSeasonal LTKSaleAlert LTKFallSale

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✨ Welcome! I’m Shane, the creator behind Becoming the Ultimate Housewife.

I’m a wife, mom, and homeschool teacher who loves blending real family life with style, food, and home inspiration. Around here, you’ll see a little bit of everything that makes up our world:

🏡 DIY + Home Projects — from small hacks to bigger construction updates, I love creating cozy, functional spaces.
🍴 Recipes + Meal Prep — quick family dinners, homemade staples, and meal-prep tips that make busy weeks easier.
👗 Everyday Style — comfortable, neutral outfits + realistic try-ons for women who want to look good and feel confident.
📚 Homeschool + Family Life — glimpses of our routines, fun activities, and what makes our home life special.
✈️ Adventures + Travel — whether it’s a weekend getaway, volunteering, or exploring new places, I love sharing the journey.

💡 Why follow? Because I want to inspire YOU with content that’s both practical and beautiful. My goal is to help you:
✔️ Cook recipes your family will actually love
✔️ Find affordable style + staples you’ll wear on repeat
✔️ Get motivated to simplify and refresh your home
✔️ Feel connected through real-life family moments

🛍 On my LTK, I link everything — from kitchen must-haves, home organization tools, and cozy decor, to wardrobe basics, seasonal fashion, and family favorites. Shopping my links is the easiest way to try the exact finds I use every day.

🌿 If you love cozy homes, easy meals, neutral style, family content, and inspiration you can actually use — you’re in the right place.

👇 Stay awhile! Follow here for more everyday inspiration, check my LTK daily for new finds, and tell me in the comments: what kind of content do you love most — food, style, home, or family life?

#LTKFamily #LTKHome #LTKKids

Okay but tell me why I picked this up like 4 times before finally texting my husband for backup 😂 He said “get it”… so obviously I did! 🙌
These Hearth & Hand acacia wood ladles are seriously the prettiest kitchen find — cozy, timeless, and totally Target-worthy 🛒
Would you have grabbed them too or left them behind?! 👇

#LTKHome #LTKSaleAlert #LTKFindsUnder50

Can we talk about how stunning this glass match cloche is?! 🤎 Found it in the Hearth & Hand section at Target and now I want one in every room. Perfect for next to candles or coffee table styling — and the price is so good!

@target

#LTKSaleAlert #LTKSeasonal #LTKHome

This isn’t a lamp — it’s a candle 🕯️😍 and it’s on sale at Target right now! Totally regretting not grabbing it because it’s even cuter in person — adding it to cart later today 🛒✨

#LTKHome #LTKSeasonal #LTKSaleAlert

Target home decor is on fire right now 🔥 Neutral vases, ceramic bowls, and fall stems that look high-end but budget-friendly 🤍 These earthy mauve leaves + textured pottery are perfect for cozy shelf styling, console tables, or kitchen counters 🍂 Shop my favorite Target fall home finds here 👇

#LTKSeasonal #LTKSaleAlert #LTKHome

#Ad Ever deal with thigh rub or lines showing through your favorite dress? 😩 Not anymore 🙅‍♀️✨

I’ve been living in my @thighsociety anti-chafe shorties lately — they’re buttery soft, seamless, and completely invisible under clothes 💫 The perfect base layer for every outfit this season.

✅ No lines. No rubbing. No rolling.
✅ Sizes XS–6XL • Lengths 5”–21”
✅ Silky, high-tech performance fabric that moves with you, not against you

Whether you’re layering up for fall or dressing up for date night, these are the comfort you’ll actually look forward to wearing.

Tap to shop these viral #ThighSociety shorties — the secret to every smooth outfit and confident walk 💃

#LTKStyleTip #LTKPlusSize #LTKActive

Amazon Prime Day Favorites 🤍✨
Sharing a mix of my absolute favorite Amazon finds — everything from fashion deals to home must-haves you’ll actually use every day. 👇

🛍️ My go-to coffee maker (worth every sip)
🍟 The French fry slicer that makes weeknight dinners so much easier
👔 Mini-me suit + matching dad tie set — my heart can’t handle the cuteness
🧔‍♂️ My husband’s beard care kit that keeps him looking fresh
• a few random favorites I can’t stop using from clothes, kitchen finds, and everyday Amazon essentials.

💥 Shop these Prime Day deals while they’re rock-bottom prices — links are ready in my LTK and they’ll go fast!

#LTKSaleAlert #LTKFamily #LTKHome

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#Ad Okay, I have to share this because it’s officially part of my nightly routine now — and I’m genuinely obsessed. 😍

I’ve been using the MySmile® LP221 Water Flosser + Mouthwash Duo, and it’s honestly a glow-up for your smile. 🦷✨ Think dentist-clean teeth, but make it at-home, cordless, and aesthetic on your counter.

It deep-cleans between every tooth, keeps your breath minty fresh 24/7, and makes oral care feel like self-care. I’ve been using it right after skincare — it’s my new GRWM but add freshness moment before bed. 💫

Gentle but powerful, safe for gums + braces, and looks so chic sitting next to my skincare lineup. If you love cleaner teeth, fresher breath, and that just-left-the-dentist feeling… you’ll be low-key obsessed too.

Want 20% OFF use Code: SHANE

#LTKBeauty #LTKFamily #LTKStyleTip

✨Grooming made easy✨ I grabbed two amazing beard essentials that every guy needs! 🙌

✔️ The Beard Hedger trimmer – precise, powerful, and rechargeable (no more uneven trims).
✔️ A full Beard Kit – complete with oil, balm, brush, scissors & more for that polished finish.

These make the perfect gift for your husband, dad, or even to treat yourself. 🖤 Affordable, practical, and all-in-one – you can’t go wrong!

🛒 Linked these exact kits for you below

#LTKGiftGuide #BeardCare #LTKFinds #GiftForHim

#LTKMens #LTKFindsUnder50 #LTKBeauty

✨Snack hack unlocked✨
Say hello to the ultimate $10 Walmart find 👏 This travel snack tray keeps everything separated + fresh, comes in its own little carrying case with a handle, and is honestly the most universal mom / travel / road-trip essential.

🚗 Road trips with kids
🏀 Sports mom sidelines
🍇 Girls picnic or beach day
🎒 Even just everyday car snacks

No more digging through random bags—everything is neat, organized, and ready to grab on the go. For under $10, you really can’t beat it!

➡️ Shop this viral Walmart must-have right here before it sells out.

#LTKHome #LTKActive #LTKFamily

☕️ Cozy days call for soft knits & easy neutrals 🤍 This Abercrombie cable sweater + lounge set is giving all the fall feels—perfect for slow mornings, coffee in hand, & crisp days at home.

✨ Elevated loungewear you can actually wear out, too.
🛒 Linked the full look so you can shop it—sweater + bottoms + all the details are just a tap away.

Are you team cozy morning in or out-and-about coffee run? 👇

#AbercrombieStyle #FallCozy #LTKfall #NeutralOutfits #LTKloungewear #OOTDinspo

#LTKSeasonal #LTKFallSale #LTKSaleAlert

🤎 @Abercrombie fall edit — neutrals, layering pieces, and cozy textures I can’t get enough of this season. From tailored shorts + sleek layers to chunky knits & clean denim, these are the staples that make getting dressed so easy.

✨ Each piece mixes + matches effortlessly so you can build looks that feel elevated without overthinking.
🛒 I linked everything shown so you can shop the exact outfits—just tap to grab your favorites.

Which look is most you — cozy knits, polished neutrals, or statement layers? 👇

#AbercrombieStyle #FallOutfits #NeutralStyle #LTKfall #OOTDinspo #LTKunder100

#LTKSaleAlert #LTKFallSale #LTKSeasonal

🤎 @Abercrombie fall neutrals done right. I’m loving this mix of tailored shorts, a classic belt, & a sleek layering top—polished but still so wearable. Pair it with boots & a long coat for that elevated fall vibe.

✨ Easy to dress up or down, and these pieces work beautifully together or on their own.
🛒 Everything’s linked so you can shop the exact outfit details—tap below to grab your favorites before they sell out!

Would you style this more for day or night? 👇

#AbercrombieStyle #FallOutfits #LTKfall #LTKunder100 #NeutralStyle #OOTD

#LTKSeasonal #LTKSaleAlert #LTKFallSale

One of my best kitchen hacks 👩🏻‍🍳 → bulk shopping meat & vacuum sealing it to save money, avoid waste, and keep everything fresh longer! 🥩✨ This sealer has been my ride-or-die for 10+ years and still going strong 🙌 Linking my exact one + a few other must-haves I use for freezer prep! [Shop everything here ⬇️]

#LTKHome #LTKSaleAlert #LTKFindsUnder50

Who knew a meat smasher / mixer spoon thingy would become one of my absolute kitchen must-haves? 🥄✨ It breaks up ground meat perfectly, doubles as a spoon, and saves me from dirtying a million utensils. I’ve had mine forever and can’t live without it! Linking it here so you can snag one too—you’ll thank me later 🙌 #kitchenessentials #easycooking #momlife

#LTKFindsUnder50 #LTKHome

🍂 Fall at @Vuori for him 🤎 These are the kind of pieces every guy needs in his closet this season—laid-back, comfortable, but still put-together.

✨ Think cozy layers, easy neutrals, & styles that move from weekday to weekend without a second thought.
👟 Perfect for coffee runs, travel days, casual dinners, or just staying comfy at home.

🛒 I linked each look so you can shop the exact picks—tap below to grab your favorites or send this to your guy who needs a little wardrobe refresh.

Which one would you want to see him in most? 👇

#FallStyle #Vuori #MensStyle #LTKMenswear #LTKfit #LTKfall #EverydayStyle

#LTKFallSale #LTKFindsUnder100 #LTKSaleAlert

🍂 Fall at @Vuori is here & I’m so ready for it 🤎 These are the cozy, versatile pieces I’ve been reaching for on repeat—perfect for everyday errands, lounging, or layering up as the temps drop.

✨ Think soft fabrics, neutral tones, & staples that actually mix + match.
👟 Whether you’re heading to the gym, grabbing coffee, or chasing a busy day—these are those effortless “wear anywhere” items.

🛒 I linked everything in this video so you can shop my exact picks—just tap below to grab your favorites before they sell out.

Which piece would you wear the most? 👇

#FallStyle #Vuori #AthleisureLooks #NeutralStyle #LTKfit #LTKfall #EverydayStyle

✨ Cozy weeknight dinners are coming together so easily in my kitchen this week — and I’ve linked up all the pantry staples + grocery favorites we used so you can shop them in one click. 🛒

Think family-friendly meals, budget-conscious choices, and recipes that make life feel just a little simpler. 💕

🔗 Shop the items here on LTK, and if you want to see exactly how I put it all together… you’ll want to check out my Substack 😉 Subscribers are getting the full plan (and you can still lock in founder pricing right now!).

#LTKHome #LTKSaleAlert #LTKFindsUnder50

✨ Homemaking doesn’t have to be overwhelming — sometimes it’s the little routines that make the biggest difference. A quick “morning reset,” themed dinner nights, and a simple drop-zone basket have saved me hours every single week.

I’m sharing my favorite 3 Homemaking Wins in today’s Substack post 🏡💌 — these are the real systems that keep our home (and my sanity) in check.

💡 Click over to my Substack for the full post + get a peek at what my paid subscribers are about to unlock (printables + full homemaking systems are coming soon 👀).

📌 Shop my favorite organization helpers + cozy home must-haves here on LTK

👉 And don’t forget — early supporters on Substack lock in the lowest price forever.

#LTKFindsUnder50 #LTKHome #LTKSaleAlert

✨ Little Legoland day recap ✨
We kept it simple but comfy — and I got so many questions on what we packed and wore! 🎢☀️
Ezra’s shirt + shoes held up all day, and a few of our park essentials made the day way easier. I linked everything I could find for you on LTK so you can check it out too 💛

📲 Tap to shop or save for your next theme park day!
➡️ What’s your must-have when you’re at a park all day?

#ThemeParkDay #TravelEssentials #FamilyReels

#LTKFamily #LTKTravel #LTKKids

#ad Traveling or at home — I finally found a streaming service that just works 🙌

I’ve been using @FrndlyTV lately and I’m seriously hooked 💛 For only $6.99/month you get 50+ channels (Hallmark, Lifetime, History + more), unlimited DVR, and zero contracts. 👏

✨ Best part? The Chrisleys: Back to Reality is streaming now — and I didn’t have to miss it even while traveling 🎬 Season 2 is coming soon and I can’t wait!

👉 Tap the link to try it for yourself and see why I’m obsessed. Would you use this more for cozy nights at home or while you travel?👇

#FrndlyTV #streaming #affordableliving #lifetime #chrisley

#LTKHome #LTKFamily #LTKMens

Two easy desserts to kick off baking season 🍂
This collab with @mealandgrace.blog was so fun — she made Brown Butter PB Bars 🤎, I made an Apple Pie 🍏.

👉 Which team are you on: #TeamPB or #TeamApple?
Comment below + hit follow on both @becomingultimatehousewife + @mealandgrace.blog so you don’t miss when we drop the recipes ✨

I’ve linked up everything we use with Walmart so you can simply add it to your next online Grocery order 😁

✨OOTD: serving cozy-casual vibes with coffee in hand ☕️ and pretending I totally don’t see the random table clutter in the background or the laundry pile hidden behind me. Real life = always part of the aesthetic, right?

This slouchy knit + denim shorts is my current uniform for busy days at home—cute enough for errands, comfy enough for staying in. Linking everything so you can shop this “effortless but put together” look too.

➡️ Tap to shop & save for your own everyday style inspo.

#LTKstyle #OOTD #momstyle #everydaycasual

#LTKHome #LTKFamily #LTKFindsUnder50

✨Smooth skin, no appointments required!✨
I’ve been using this Ulike IPL hair removal device for a long time and I’m obsessed. It’s seriously changed the game for me—so easy to use, totally pain-free, and the results are amazing. 🙌

The best part? 👉 It’s on SALE right now! Don’t wait if you’ve been wanting to try it—your future self will thank you. 💕

#HairRemoval #SmoothSkin #SelfCareAtHome #IPL

#LTKBeauty #LTKSaleAlert #LTKMens

Started with just 3 of these closet organizers to test them out and I’m officially hooked 🙌 I can finally put my hubby’s laundry away without having to reorganize the whole closet every time. He can see exactly which shirt he wants, grab it without making a mess, and I can actually keep the space neat ✅

Loving them so much I’ll definitely be ordering more! Such an easy Walmart find that makes a huge difference 🛒✨

#ClosetOrganization #WalmartFinds #LTKorganize #LaundryHack #DeclutterYourLife

#LTKFindsUnder50 #LTKHome #LTKStyleTip

When a simple family get-together suddenly turns into a private reptile show! 🦎🐢🐍 Who knew dinner would come with lizards, turtles, and snakes?! Would you be the one holding them… or watching from a distance? 👀 Drop your answer in the Comments ➡️

Game nights around our table never fail 🎲💕 It’s the little things — rolling the dice, laughing way too loud, and turning a simple night in into some of our favorite memories. ✨ Whether it’s a family competition or just winding down together, these are the cozy home moments I’ll always hold onto. 🌿

Sharing a few of our favorite game night finds on LTK so you can recreate the fun at home too 🏡 #FamilyGameNight #CozyHomeVibes #GameNightEssentials

#LTKHome #LTKKids #LTKFamily

Today’s juggle looked a little like this:
☑️ Homeschool lessons
☑️ Driving to classes
☑️ Hosting our 📚 homeschool 🌻 swim
☑️ Household chores
☑️ Work hours squeezed in

✨ Now I’m wrapping up the last bit poolside with my laptop before I finally get to open my Kindle 📖💛

I linked all my poolside + workday essentials so you can create your own little unwind moment too — from my favorite Kindle to cozy drinkware and the small things that make it feel extra refreshing. 🏖️

#LTKHome #LTKKids #LTKFamily

First day of classes ✨ and officially the start of new routines again 🚗💨. Loving these car line vibes in my favorite comfy blue top (so easy to throw on & feel put together). My morning protein shake in a mason jar is a lifesaver — the coffee butter flavor is seriously delicious and keeps me going all morning long. 🥤💙

Little daily rituals like this make busy mornings smoother and give me the energy to tackle everything on my list. Sharing because I know so many of us are in that same season right now — new schedules, busy days, and needing those simple, healthy go-tos.

#CarLineVibes #MorningRoutine #MomLife #DailyRituals #AmazonFinds #LTKfit #LTKunder50 #OOTD #BackToRoutine

#LTKFindsUnder100 #LTKActive #LTKHome

The easiest way to keep your wine decanter sparkling clean✨
No more scrubbing, no more red stains stuck in those impossible corners! All I use are cleaning beads + a splash of white vinegar—just swirl, rinse, and DONE. 🍷💦

This Amazon find makes the process effortless:
✔️ Cleaning beads come with their own silicone bag (easy storage, no mess)
✔️ No more buildup—crystal clear in minutes
✔️ Paired with my foldable drying rack that’s not just for decanters… it’s a total game changer for baby bottles + those tricky reusable Ziploc baggies too 👏

If you’ve been struggling with how to clean and DRY your glassware (without bulky racks taking up counter space), this combo is the one.

🛒 Everything’s linked for you in my LTK—tap to grab your set and make cleaning as beautiful as pouring your favorite wine!

#AmazonFinds #KitchenMustHaves #LTKhome #LTKfamily #WineLovers #CleaningHacks #HomeEssentials

#LTKFindsUnder50 #LTKHome #LTKFindsUnder100

Crispy, caramelized brussels sprouts sizzling in the cast iron on the Traeger… finished with a drizzle of hot honey & bacon bits 🤌 (sweet + smoky + spicy = perfection).

This is one of those side dishes that makes the whole dinner feel elevated but it’s honestly so easy. Cast iron + Traeger grill + hot honey = kitchen staples I reach for on repeat.

Linked everything I used so you can make these at home—because trust me, once you try them, you’ll want them in your weekly rotation too.

#brusselsprouts #traegerrecipes #castironcooking #easyrecipes #hotHoney

#LTKFamily #LTKHome #LTKFindsUnder50

Laser & TV time ✨ I’ve been using my Ulike for over 2 years now and it’s one of those little routines that just sticks. I was telling a family member how much I love it, went to grab my link for them… and saw the new version is on a major sale right now.

Even found one that’s under $200 👏 so I linked all the options for you. Whether you’re looking for the newest model or something budget-friendly, they’re all in one place.

What I love most → it’s at-home hair removal that actually works, saves me $$ compared to salon visits, and I can do it while catching up on my shows. Sharing because if you’ve been on the fence, this is such a good time to try it. 💕

#Ulike #LaserHairRemoval #AtHomeBeauty #SmoothSkinJourney #SelfCareAtHome #BeautyRoutine #LTKFinds #BeautyMustHave

#LTKSaleAlert

✨ Throwback to when my little guy was just 3 years old and begged me to vacuum the living room 🙃 oh how the tables have turned now that I’m the one begging him!

The secret? This Bissell stick vacuum from Walmart. It wasn’t a toy—it actually worked! The adjustable pole made it the perfect height for him, and the suction was strong enough to keep up with our everyday messes. He thought it was fun, and I thought it was genius.

Fast-forward to today, and this same vacuum is still a go-to in our house. And right now, it’s on sale for only $25—such a good deal for something that makes cleaning easier (and even kid-approved 😉).

👉 Tap to shop this vacuum while it’s marked down. Trust me, it’s one of those affordable home finds from Walmart that you’ll actually use every single day.

#WalmartHome #BissellVacuum #CleaningMadeEasy #HomeFinds #MomLife #LTKHome #LTKSale #BudgetFriendly

#LTKHome #LTKSaleAlert #LTKKids

This make all the difference when cleaning my windows outside.

#LTKHome #LTKFindsUnder50