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Coffee. Styling. Shopping. Dressing rooms. Happy clients. 🥂

Just another day in the life of a personal stylist.

One of the best parts of our job is helping women find pieces that make getting dressed feel easy again. ✨

Comment STYLIST below if you're curious what working with a personal stylist actually looks like 👇

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Coffee. Styling. Shopping. Dressing rooms. Happy clients. 🥂 Just another day in the life of a personal stylist. One of the best parts of our job is helping women find pieces that make getting dressed feel easy again. ✨ Comment STYLIST below if you're curious what working with a personal stylist actually looks like 👇 over40style styleover40 dayinthelife personalstylist nashvillestylist effortlessstyle womenover40 wardrobestylist gettingdressedmadeasy

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We see this every single day with our clients. Your body changed—whether it’s 10 pounds, hormones, aging, life—and suddenly your closet doesn’t feel like home anymore.

Nothing fits the way it used to. The jeans don’t sit right. You feel frumpy in clothes you once loved. Getting dressed stops being fun and starts being frustrating.

And here’s what we know as personal stylists who are also women over 40: you don’t have to keep dressing the body you used to have.

If your closet feels disconnected from the body you have today, here’s where we’d start:

1. Stop using fit as a judgment.
If something no longer fits comfortably, that’s information—not a reason to be hard on yourself.

2. Edit what isn’t serving you now.
Move out the pieces that don’t fit, don’t flatter or consistently make you feel bad when you put them on.

3. Pay attention to what DOES feel good.
Notice the silhouettes, rises, lengths and proportions you reach for now—not the ones you loved five or ten years ago.

4. Identify the actual gaps.
Before you start shopping, figure out what’s missing from the wardrobe you need for your life today.

5. Rebuild intentionally.
You don’t need an entirely new closet overnight. Start with a few pieces that fit beautifully, work together and make getting dressed easier.

Your closet should celebrate who you are in this season of your life—not constantly remind you of who you used to be.

We help our clients through this process all the time, and one of our favorite things to hear afterward is: “I forgot what it felt like to love getting dressed.”

You deserve that feeling back. ✨

Save this for the next time your closet feels like it belongs to a past version of you—and follow for more practical styling advice that meets you where you are.

Yep. I said cheaper. 👀

Because the number on the price tag doesn’t tell you what something will actually cost you.

Let’s say you buy a $300 jacket and wear it 100 times.

$3 per wear.

Now take that $40 top you bought because it was “such a good deal”—but you only wore it once before deciding you didn’t really love the fit.

$40 per wear.

Suddenly that $300 jacket doesn’t sound quite so expensive, does it?

This is cost per wear, and it’s one of my favorite ways to think about whether something is actually worth buying.

Before I invest in a piece, I want to know:
→ Will I wear it regularly?
→ Can I style it multiple ways?
→ Does it work with pieces I already own?
→ Is the quality good enough to hold up?
→ Will I still want to wear it a year from now?

Because as a personal stylist, I don’t think the goal is to spend MORE on clothes.

The goal is to spend BETTER.

We did a full deep dive on cost per wear—including how to calculate it and how we use it to make smarter shopping decisions—on the Effortless Style blog.

Comment COST below and I’ll send you the link to read it.
And save this for the next time you’re debating whether something is really worth the price tag. 🤍

#personalstylist #costperwear #wardrobetips #styleover40 #effortlessstyle

A little outfit inspiration for your next everyday look. I love how this look feels effortless while still looking polished and put together. It’s an easy combination to recreate and perfect for running around, grabbing lunch, or dressing up your everyday style. Everything is linked down below!

#LTKgrwm #LTKdayinmylife #LTKootd

Here’s a simple rule I use with clients: shop for your real calendar first.

Before buying something, ask:

• Where will I realistically wear this?
• Can I think of at least 3 occasions for it?
• Do I already own shoes and accessories that work with it?
• Does it fit the way I live right now?

If you can’t answer those questions, put it back.

A beautiful piece that only works for a hypothetical life isn’t filling a wardrobe gap—it’s creating closet clutter.

Save this for the next time you’re tempted to shop for your fantasy life instead of your real one. 🤍

#PersonalStylist #WardrobeTips #StyleOver40 #SmartShopping #EffortlessStyle

A classic transitional look that makes heading into fall feel effortless. Perfect for those in-between days when you want to start incorporating fall pieces without fully letting go of summer. Everything is linked down below.
Follow along for daily outfit inspiration, styling ideas, and more fashion finds throughout the season.

#LTKgrwm #LTKdayinmylife #LTKootd

OOTD featuring our stylist Dana ✨ Linen-blend denim balloon leg jumpsuit + snake embossed mules + Tom Ford sunnies. Everything linked below! 👇

#LTKdayinmylife #LTKootd #LTKOver40

This is your sign: stop keeping pieces that have never fit you right. They're never going to magically fit differently. 👕

Day 5 of the Closet Reset Series and this is the one that needed to be said.

That dress you've had for years that's always been too tight in the chest. Those jeans that have never felt right on your body. The jumpsuit you wore once to an event and never touched again. The skirt that looked cute in theory but never actually fit.

You keep them because:
• You spent money on them
• You hope that someday they'll magically fit
• You remember loving the IDEA of them
• You feel like you're "giving up" if you let them go

But here's what's actually happening: every time you open your closet, you see pieces that don't work for your body. And that's a daily reminder that your closet isn't serving you.

Stop trying to force pieces to work. Stop waiting for your body to change to fit the clothes. Stop keeping things out of guilt.

Your closet should have pieces that fit you BEAUTIFULLY right now—not pieces you're constantly negotiating with.

You deserve clothes that actually work for your body as it is today.

💬 Comment RESET below to schedule a closet audit consultation with our team. 👇

A little behind the scenes of a personal shopping day. ✨

The shopping appointment may only be a few hours, but there’s a whole lot that happens before my client ever steps into the dressing room.

For this client, being petite meant sourcing very intentionally—ordering pieces ahead of time, making a last-minute stop at Ann Taylor, and pulling plenty of options at Nordstrom so we could figure out what worked best for her.

Then comes my favorite part: turning all those individual pieces into complete looks so she can actually see how everything works together. 👗👖👠

A successful appointment + Friday afternoon by the pool? I’ll take it. ☀️

#DayInTheLife #PersonalStylist #NashvilleStylist #PersonalShopping #BehindTheScenes

An outfit formula is a proven combination you repeat over and over—with different pieces swapped in.

It sounds simple because it IS. But it changes everything.

Here’s what it looks like:
Formula 1: Jeans + Fitted Top + Blazer + Loafers

Wear it to work, coffee, errands. Swap the jeans (black, blue, white). Swap the top (tee, blouse, tank). Same structure, endless outfits.

Formula 2: Wide-Leg Pants + Tucked Tee + Heels + Belt

Works for dinner, dates, events. Change the pant color, swap the tee texture. Always polished.

Formula 3: Midi Skirt + Sweater + Sneakers + Denim Jacket

Your casual elevated look. Rotate skirts, swap sweater styles. Effortless every time.

Once you have 3-5 formulas that work for YOUR body and YOUR life, you stop overthinking. You stop shopping aimlessly. You stop staring at your closet feeling stuck.

Getting dressed becomes automatic.

✨ Follow for outfit formulas that simplify your life
💬 Comment FORMULAS to work with us and build your personalized formulas

Mirrors show you up close in good lighting. Cameras show the full picture from a distance with different lighting.

What photographs well is usually different from what feels right in person. Bold colors can overwhelm in photos. Oversized proportions read sloppy from far away. Certain fabrics flatten your shape.

Here’s the fix: Before you buy, ask yourself “how will this look in a full-body photo, not just in the mirror?” Consider proportion, scale, how fabric drapes. Test it on video before wearing it out.

Your outfit should look good in both places—mirrors AND photos.

💾 Save this styling reality check
✨ Follow for more honest styling tips

OOTD featuring our stylist Dana ✨ Black tailored vest + white and black striped wide leg palazzo pants + black thong sandals + chunky gold chain necklace + oversized sunglasses. Linked the closest versions we could find — everything shoppable below! 👇

#LTKootd #LTKmomlife #LTKOver40

A chic dinner look that feels polished, effortless, and ready for a night out. The perfect combination of elevated pieces and timeless details to take you from dinner to drinks.
Everything is linked down below.

#LTKootd #LTKgrwm #LTKdayinmylife

A day in the life of a personal stylist 👔☕ Walk in, coffee run, dressing room setup, and showtime. The behind-the-scenes prep is half the job — here's what it actually looks like before a client even walks through the door.

Save this if you've ever wanted someone to just do this for you ✨

#over40style #styleover40 #dayinthelife #personalstylist #nashvillestylist #effortlessstyle #personalshopping #wardrobestylist #behindthescenes

A little fall inspiration for your wardrobe. This look is easy, effortless, and perfect for transitioning into the season with lightweight layers and versatile pieces you can start wearing now.
Everything is linked down below.

#LTKootd #LTKgrwm #LTKdayinmylife

Before you change the pants.
Before you change the top.
Before you throw the whole outfit on the bed and declare that you have NOTHING TO WEAR…

Change. The. Shoe. 😂

I cannot tell you how many times we do this when styling an outfit and suddenly everything clicks.

Sometimes the outfit isn’t wrong.

The shoe is.

Consider this your friendly personal stylist check-in for the day. 🤍

#personalstylist #stylingtips #outfitidea #styleover40 #effortlessstyle

Transitioning into fall with easy, elevated layers and versatile pieces you can wear now and well into the season. These looks are perfect for those in-between days when you want to start dressing for fall without fully committing just yet.
Everything is linked down below.

#LTKootd #LTKgrwm #LTKdayinmylife

OOTD ✨ Oversized white button down + denim bermuda shorts + black thong kitten heel sandals. All from my own closet — linked the closest versions I could find. Everything shoppable below! 👇

#LTKdayinmylife #LTKootd #LTKOver40

Looking polished doesn’t have to mean spending more money.

The outfits that look the most elevated usually have intentional details:
✨ A good fit
✨ Balanced proportions
✨ Thoughtful layering
✨ Accessories that complete the look

The secret isn’t the price tag.

It’s knowing how to put the pieces together.

Save this for your next outfit refresh. ✨

You don’t need to know every trend to have great style.

In fact, trying to keep up with all of them can make your wardrobe feel more disconnected from you.

1. Trends don’t automatically work with your proportions or lifestyle.
Something can look amazing on someone else and still not make sense for your wardrobe.

2. Constantly buying trends creates a closet full of disconnected pieces.
If every new item requires completely different shoes, pants, or accessories, you’re not building a wardrobe—you’re collecting outfits.

Instead, choose 1–2 trends each season that genuinely appeal to you and ask:
→ Can I style this with what I already own?
→ Does it work for my lifestyle?
→ Does it feel like me?

That’s how you make your wardrobe feel current without starting over every season.

#PersonalStylist #StyleOver40 #FashionOver40 #WardrobeTips #EffortlessStyle

An effortlessly elevated look, all from Mango. These pieces are perfect for creating a polished, chic outfit that can easily take you from day to dinner. Everything is linked down below.

#LTKgrwm #LTKdayinmylife #LTKootd

A little weekend behind the scenes of a personal shopping day. ✨

This client is a CEO—but that doesn’t mean her wardrobe is all suits, heels and boardrooms.

Her workdays can take her from meetings to walking through warehouses, so our goal was to round out her wardrobe with pieces that felt polished and professional, but were also comfortable, practical and easy to move in.

And before she ever walked into the dressing room? Lots of sourcing, ordering pieces in, hauling garment bags through the mall 😅 and putting everything together into complete looks so she could see exactly how the pieces would work in her real life.

Because the best wardrobe isn’t built around a title or a dress code.

It’s built around the life you actually live. 🤍

#DayInTheLife #PersonalStylist #NashvilleStylist #PersonalShopping #BehindTheScenes

A day in the life of a personal stylist 🧘‍♀️☕ Pilates, eggs and avocado, Starbucks, and then straight to a client's closet with Dana.

Our client wasn't even home — her husband let us in and we got to work. That's just how it goes sometimes. 😄

Dana and I have started tag-teaming styling sessions together, and honestly it's a game changer. Two stylists in a closet means more creativity, better problem solving, and we just flat out get more done. By the time we left, we'd pulled 45 complete outfits using pieces she already owned — mixed and matched with shoes and accessories for fall and early winter.

And then I went home and uploaded every single look to her online closet so she can see exactly what to wear and how to wear it, right from her phone.

This is what a styling session actually looks like. 🤍

The perfect balance of classic and elevated for a night out. I love how the simple pieces come together to create a polished look that still feels effortless. Everything is linked down below.

#LTKgrwm #LTKdayinmylife #LTKootd

Your style isn’t gone.

Life changes.
Bodies change.
Priorities change.

Sometimes you simply need fresh eyes and a little inspiration to reconnect with what you love.

The goal isn’t to become someone new.

The goal is to rediscover yourself.

#personalstyle #stylejourney #fashionconfidence #styletips #personalstylist

And I’m not talking about trendy pieces or investment splurges. I’m talking about the kind of foundational pieces that make everything else in your closet work better. Click the link to see exactly what they are — but here’s why they matter:

✨A great pair of jeans. Not just any jeans — the right pair for your body. When your denim fits well everything you put with it looks better. It’s the foundation of half your wardrobe.

✨A classic denim jacket. The layering piece that goes over everything, works in every season, and never goes out of style. If you don’t have a great one you’re missing a key piece of your wardrobe puzzle.

✨A slim elevated sneaker. The shoe that bridges the gap between casual and polished — dressy enough for a put together look, comfortable enough for a full day. The right sneaker changes everything.

All three are linked below — go see which exact pieces made the list! 👇

Comment SHOP below to receive a DM with the link to this post on our LTK ⬇ https://liketk.it/6moAv

#LTKWorkwear #LTKSeasonal #LTKOver40

An effortlessly chic look that feels polished without trying too hard. I love the mix of textures and timeless accessories for an elevated everyday outfit. Everything is linked down below.

#LTKgrwm #LTKdayinmylife #LTKootd

A day in the life of a personal stylist 🌿✨ It starts the same way every time — jewelry drawer open, necklaces on, figuring out which version of myself I'm showing up as today.

Then it was off to spend the morning with the team shooting summer looks outdoors. Three looks each, good light, good company, and honestly just a really good morning. Because the best way to show our clients how to wear something? Actually wear it ourselves. 🤍

That formal dress for the gala you’ll “probably” attend. The hiking gear for the trips you might take. The professional blazer for the job you might get.

These “just in case” pieces are really about not committing to who you are RIGHT NOW. They’re the “what ifs” keeping you stuck.

Here’s the truth: if you haven’t used it in a year, you’re not going to. And keeping it is just taking up space and reminding you of things that haven’t happened.

Give yourself permission to dress for your actual life today—not an imaginary future.

💬 Ready to let go and build a wardrobe for NOW? DM us to work together
✨ Follow for permission to be yourself

OOTD ✨ Black blazer draped over the shoulders + black bodysuit + light wash barrel jeans + thong kitten heel sandals. All from my own closet — linked the closest versions I could find. Everything shoppable below! 👇

#LTKdayinmylife #LTKootd #LTKOver40

We see this every single day with our clients. Your body changed—whether it’s 10 pounds, hormones, aging, life—and suddenly your closet doesn’t feel like home anymore.

Nothing fits the way it used to. The jeans don’t sit right. You feel frumpy in clothes you once loved. Getting dressed stops being fun and starts being frustrating.

And here’s what we know as personal stylists who are also women over 40: you don’t have to keep dressing the body you used to have.

If your closet feels disconnected from the body you have today, here’s where we’d start:

1. Stop using fit as a judgment.
If something no longer fits comfortably, that’s information—not a reason to be hard on yourself.

2. Edit what isn’t serving you now.
Move out the pieces that don’t fit, don’t flatter or consistently make you feel bad when you put them on.

3. Pay attention to what DOES feel good.
Notice the silhouettes, rises, lengths and proportions you reach for now—not the ones you loved five or ten years ago.

4. Identify the actual gaps.
Before you start shopping, figure out what’s missing from the wardrobe you need for your life today.

5. Rebuild intentionally.
You don’t need an entirely new closet overnight. Start with a few pieces that fit beautifully, work together and make getting dressed easier.

Your closet should celebrate who you are in this season of your life—not constantly remind you of who you used to be.

We help our clients through this process all the time, and one of our favorite things to hear afterward is: “I forgot what it felt like to love getting dressed.”

You deserve that feeling back. ✨

Save this for the next time your closet feels like it belongs to a past version of you—and follow for more practical styling advice that meets you where you are.

Yep. I said cheaper. 👀

Because the number on the price tag doesn’t tell you what something will actually cost you.

Let’s say you buy a $300 jacket and wear it 100 times.

$3 per wear.

Now take that $40 top you bought because it was “such a good deal”—but you only wore it once before deciding you didn’t really love the fit.

$40 per wear.

Suddenly that $300 jacket doesn’t sound quite so expensive, does it?

This is cost per wear, and it’s one of my favorite ways to think about whether something is actually worth buying.

Before I invest in a piece, I want to know:
→ Will I wear it regularly?
→ Can I style it multiple ways?
→ Does it work with pieces I already own?
→ Is the quality good enough to hold up?
→ Will I still want to wear it a year from now?

Because as a personal stylist, I don’t think the goal is to spend MORE on clothes.

The goal is to spend BETTER.

We did a full deep dive on cost per wear—including how to calculate it and how we use it to make smarter shopping decisions—on the Effortless Style blog.

Comment COST below and I’ll send you the link to read it.
And save this for the next time you’re debating whether something is really worth the price tag. 🤍

#personalstylist #costperwear #wardrobetips #styleover40 #effortlessstyle

That trendy top you bought because it was on sale? $64.
The viral jeans that looked amazing on the influencer? $198.
The “statement piece” you were excited about? $118.

You wear them once, then they live in your closet taking up space and mental energy.

Over a year, that’s easily $500-$1000+ on pieces you don’t actually wear.

Real style isn’t about buying trends. It’s about buying basics that work forever, then adding ONE trendy piece you genuinely love—not just because it’s viral.

Your money should go toward pieces you’ll wear 50+ times, not once.

💰 Follow for smarter spending strategies
💬 Comment TRENDS if you’re ready to stop wasting money on fast fashion

The wrong rise makes you look shorter, wider, or uncomfortable all day. The right rise? Game changer.

High-rise elongates your legs if you have a longer torso. Mid-rise works for balanced proportions. Low-rise is tricky and rarely flatters anymore.

But here’s what NO ONE talks about: once you find YOUR rise, every other jean feels wrong. And suddenly you look 10 pounds lighter just because the fit is right.

It’s not about your body. It’s about finding the cut designed for YOUR proportions.

Most women are wearing the wrong rise and blaming their body instead of the jeans.

✨ Follow for fit solutions that actually work
💬 Comment JEANS if you need help finding your rise

The biggest shift in my style happened when I stopped asking, “What should I buy next?”

…and started asking, “How can I style what I already own differently?”

That’s when getting dressed became easier.
That’s when shopping became intentional.
That’s when I actually started loving my wardrobe.

✨ Style first. Shop second.
Save this before your next online shopping spree.

The outfits that look the most effortless usually have a little contrast.

Think:
• sporty sneakers with a feminine dress
• structured pieces with relaxed pieces
• polished accessories with casual basics

When everything matches perfectly, an outfit can start to feel predictable.

The magic is often in the mix.

#styletips #fashionadvice #personalstyle #outfitideas #styleinspo