Our 30s aren’t just about “getting older” they’re about finally letting ourselves be well, our full selves. We’re trading the burnout for boundaries, the trends for timeless style, and the “shoulds” for what actually lights us up. Here are 3 more things beyond what I mentioned in part one. 1️⃣ I stopped shrinking myself in rooms where I felt like the outsider. Whether it’s a new friend group or a work networking event, you belong there. More likely than not, everyone is feeling to same as you and don’t see you as an outsider anyway. Introduce yourself, say hi. It always sounds more awkward than it actually will be. 2️⃣ l stopped apologizing for my social battery. Leaving early, saying no to the third event of the weekend, needing a full Sunday to recharge. protecting your energy isn’t antisocial. As long as you’re not flaky about it, people will respect your boundaries. 3️⃣ I stopped guilt-tripping myself about the pivot. Changed careers, changing cities. Things don’t have to be as permanent as you think. At 29 I moved back to Dallas thinking it would be my forever place. It never felt like where I belonged and I forced it for years because I thought I wasn’t allowed to change my mind and go back to DC. Just saying outloud that I was going back to DC and making the firm decision got me glowing instantly. Which one did you need to hear today? 30s lifestyle, DC living, casual chic style, personal style, 30s glow-up, DC outfits, authentic living, Washington DC fashion, life in your 30s