Put your own spin on it, don’t force it, but the gist is letting him know you’re curious about him and how he can show up Maybe bring up something funny that happened / something enjoyable about the date that you were just reminded about and say something like I’m curious what you have planned for our next date If you knew the outcome was your best case scenario, what would you say? Trust your intuition on that I don’t think that you can say the wrong thing to the right person when it comes to these things as long as you’re coming at it from a not attached to the outcome pov or not from a fear of saying the wrong thing place