We grew up on black and navy aren’t compatible- so not true. This is a modern color combo that looks very chic and it helps expand your wardrobe possibilities and pairings. It’s not bad to match your bag and shoes but it’s certainly not necessary. As a matter of fact, NOT matching them looks fresh and interesting. And finally, nothing cheapens a look more than wearing a size that is too small. Let go of the smaller is better brainwashing. When in doubt, buy the bigger size. LTKgrwm LTKFindsUnder100 LTKdayinmylife