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Not everyone I meet is a good fit for matchmaking right away.

Sometimes, in order to make sure that you’re ready to receive love, you need to know how to become a better partner, or a better dater, first; that’s where date coaching comes in.

All of our matchmaking clients go through some form of coaching, but sometimes people just need more coaching sessions—and that’s okay! We try to have solutions that work well for everyone, wherever you are in your dating journey ❤️.

#Matchmaking #DateCoaching #DatingCoach #DatingAdvice #SelfExploration

#LTKdayinmylife #LTKWorkwear #LTKvlog

Not everyone I meet is a good fit for matchmaking right away. Sometimes, in order to make sure that you’re ready to receive love, you need to know how to become a better partner, or a better dater, first; that’s where date coaching comes in. All of our matchmaking clients go through some form of coaching, but sometimes people just need more coaching sessions—and that’s okay! We try to have solutions that work well for everyone, wherever you are in your dating journey ❤️. Matchmaking DateCoaching DatingCoach DatingAdvice SelfExploration LTKdayinmylife LTKWorkwear LTKvlog

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Luckmeey sent me their Seamless Shapewear Shorts to try out, and they are so light and airy!

My favorite part outside of their tummy snatching, and 🍑 lifting abilities are the cute little tabs they have on the inside of the shorts to help keep them in place! The thing I dislike about some high-waisted items is that they keep rolling down despite how many times you pull them up, and so far I haven't had that problem with these shorts which is great.

I'll have the Amazon 🔗 to these shorts on my LTK, but if you want to order from their website you can use code "FERN10" for 10% off your order (🔗 in bio to shop)!

#Shapewear #tummycontrol #Luckmeey #WardrobeStaples #buttlifting

#LTKOver40 #LTKWorkwear #LTKMidsize

BTS, shooting the @Pricklee Natural Hydration campaign! 💙

#hydration #pricklee #ltk #LTKdayinmylife

@Sprouts Farmers Market @Whole Foods Market @H-E-B

#LTKdayinmylife #LTKOver40 #LTKvlog

Being outside makes me happy! ☀️

#ootd

#LTKdayinmylife #LTKootd #LTKOver40

Red flags are everywhere 🚩

Do you know what red flags to look out for when it comes to your relationship with others?

Let us know what some of your top red flags are in the comments!

#DatingAdvice #RelationshipTips #DatingCoach #RedFlags #Toxic

#LTKdayinmylife #LTKOver40 #LTKWorkwear

It’s never too early to start spreading some holiday cheer! 🎃🎁💖

Having festive pajamas is one of my families favorite traditions, and I’m so excited to share these early holiday gifts with my kiddos!

I’ll have more fun holiday pajamas available for you to check out on my LTK!

If you want to get these specific sets, you can use my code DP25 for 25% off your purchase at boldoversize.com!

#Halloween #Christmas #ValentinesDay #HolidayOutfits #MatchingSets

#LTKmomlife #LTKstorytime #LTKSeasonal

Pink is my color! 🩷☺️

#sunday #sundayvibes #sundayfunday

#LTKdayinmylife #LTKOver40 #LTKselfcare

You won’t catch me without my essentials 😏

Use my code “FERNCREW20” to save 20% off your own essentials on Shapermint.com!

#PackWithMe #ShapermintCrew #Shapermint

@Shapermint

#LTKdayinmylife #LTKgrwm #LTKstorytime

It’s never too late to try something new ✨

#StartingOver #SmallContentCreator #BrandWork #UGC #NewBeginnings

#LTKdayinmylife #LTKvlog #LTKOver40

My current mood: Gratitude ❤️

Feeling extra grateful for the weather to finally be under 100 degrees today 😂

What’s y’all’s mood for today?

White button down: @Anthropologie
Red bodysuit: @Shapermint
Necklace: @loft
Jeans: @NYDJ

#SummerMood #OOTD #LTKStyleTip #ShapermintCrew #FallFashion

#LTKootd #LTKOver40 #LTKWorkwear

There’s just something about pink and brown for fall that does it for me every time! 🤎👏🏽

Thank you to @dearlover_official for sending over these amazing sets! I love that they can be mixed & matched so easily, it’s like getting four outfits for the price of two. 💕

If you haven’t tried anything from Dear Lover, and are interested in doing so you can use my code “KOLZDDfern” to get $40 off your purchase of $100+ on their website!

I’ll have similar items in this color scheme linked on my LTK!

Happy shopping! ☺️

#DearLover #FallFashion #MixAndMatch

#LTKootd #LTKOver40 #LTKWorkwear

In our opinion, being educated isn’t reliant on how many academic degrees you have, or don’t have.

Being educated is about being committed to growth and learning and change, and being willing to accept when you’re wrong and not being afraid to have your world views challenged from time to time. 🌍

Wanting to date someone with the same or similar number of degrees as you is a preference—and people can have their preferences—but a degree alone is not an end all be all sign of how “educated” or “uneducated” someone is.

Education comes in all forms, and we don’t think it’s our place to decide which form holds more value than others 🫶🏽.

Let us know what you think! 🤓 😏

#DatingAdvice #DatingCoach #Education #dating

#LTKdayinmylife #LTKOver40 #LTKvlog

Now I’m even more excited for it to not be 100+ degrees because that means I’ll be able to wear my new Locachy pieces in peace 😂🥳

@locachy sent me three beautiful pieces to help me get a head start on my fall/winter wardrobe and I am so impressed with them!

I think that these will be great tops to take with me on our annual Colorado trip later this year, and will be perfect to wear on the plane ✈️, running errands, or just hanging out around the house keeping warm & staying fashionable 🙂‍↔️.

I’ll have all the items and the sizes I’m wearing available to check out on my LTK!

@shop.ltk @ltk.creators @ionixlabs

#ActiveWear #FallFashion #AmazonFinds #Locachy #LTKStyleTip

#LTKOver40 #LTKWorkwear #LTKootd

Some things are worth living with though 🌟

Have y’all tried the new jelly bra yet??

Would love to hear your thoughts if you have!

p.s. If you want to try this bra or any other shapermint items for the first time, you can use my code “FERNCREW20” for 20% off your first purchase on their website!

#ReasonsTo #ReasonsNotTo #ShapermintBras #ShapermintCrew #JellyBra

#LTKdayinmylife #LTKOver40 #LTKWorkwear

Celebrating national shapewear day all day every day with my @Shapermint essentials 😏

Come join in on the celebration and use my code “FERNCREW20” to get 20% off your first order at Shapermint.com!

Happy Shopping! 🛍️

#Shapermint #Shapewear #CapsuleWardrobe #Camisole

#LTKdayinmylife #LTKWorkwear #LTKOver40

POV: Sometimes The Best Bra Isn’t A Bra At All, @Niidor Bras

#nipplecover #niidor #coverage #bra

#LTKdayinmylife #LTKOver40 #LTKWorkwear

I’ve found my new favorite summer drink thanks to @pricklee! 😍🍓

Summer may be almost over, but things are still heating up here in North Texas, and this Pricklee Wild Strawberry Sorbet Float is the perfect treat to help me stay cool and hydrated under this Texas sun! ☀️

We picked up the Wild Strawberry, Prickly Pear, and Tropical Mango from @sprouts, and we will definitely be going back soon to pick up more cans!

You can pick up your own can of Pricklee at @WholeFoods or @Sprouts 🧡

Partnered with Pricklee

#DrinkPricklee #RealFruit #NaturalHydration #KeepItReal #SproutsFinds

#LTKdayinmylife #LTKOver40 #LTKselfcare

GRWM: Morning Routine, @Olay Skin Care @CeraVe

#selfcare #skincare #cerave #olay #morning

#LTKgrwm #LTKmorningroutine #LTKselfcare

The shapermint jelly bra is my (almost) perfect bra 😘

However, the only two things I don’t really like about this particularly bra is that it 1. doesn’t have an extender in the back and that 2. it seems to be cut smaller than the other Shapermint bras I have, so I may size up for my next one.

Regardless, the jelly bra is still one of my favorite Shapermint items, and I will definitely be picking up another one. ☺️

If you’re interested in picking one up too, first time buyers can use my code “FERNCREW20” to get 20% off your order (sale items included!)! 💞

#Shapermint #ShapermintCrew #ShapermintBras #CapsuleWardrobe

#LTKvlog #LTKOver40 #LTKdayinmylife

As someone in their early 60s, keeping my skin feeling fresh and hydrated is always top of mind!

Which is why I was so happy to try @cosrx_official’s new Blue Peptide Bakuchiol Plump Glow Serum and Bounce Cream 💙

I’ve been using the product for about a week now, mostly at night, and I can tell a huge difference in my skin's elasticity! My skin feels hydrated, the skin under my eyes is less puffy, and now even my husband is asking me to apply the products to his skin as a part of his night time routine 😂

I definitely recommend giving it a try! I will definitely be getting another set (or two 👀) when we run out 💙

#COSRX #BluePeptide #CopperPeptide #MatureSkin #Bakuchiol

#LTKselfcare #LTKOver40 #LTKBeauty

Sometimes you just want a little something something you know what I mean? 🧡

Luckmeey sent me their Seamless Shapewear Shorts to try out, and they are so light and airy!

My favorite part outside of their tummy snatching, and 🍑 lifting capabilities are the cute little tabs they have on the inside of the shorts to help keep them in place! The thing I dislike about some high-waisted items is that they keep rolling down despite how many times you pull them up, and so far I haven’t had that problem with these shorts which is great.

I’ll have the Amazon 🔗 to these shorts on my LTK, but if you want to order from their website you can use code “FERN10” for 10% off your order.

#Shapewear #FirstImpressions #Luckmeey #WardrobeStaples #TryOn

#LTKOver40 #LTKWorkwear #LTKgrwm

One of the most common questions I get is: Why can’t I find the right person? Where is my person?

And the truth is, they ARE out there…but you’re probably expecting for them to come in the same package than they’ll likely be in.

I always urge people to be willing to open their eyes to something new. To try something different, and look for people who don’t match their typical type because the hard truth is that if one of those kinds of people were “right” for you, you probably wouldn’t be single.

You can’t expect something different, if you’re not willing to do things differently.

#DatingAdvice #DatingTrends #DatingCoach #Change #Matchmaker

#LTKdayinmylife #LTKstorytime #LTKOver40

I’ve found my perfect match with @therabreath! 🤩🙂‍↔️

Having tried out the three products in the video, I can safely say that the green one is my new go to!

I’ll be passing off the pink and blue bottles to my husband and daughter because I can happily say that I have met my match with mild mint 😏💚

Let me know if you want the link to the one I use, and I’ll send it over!

(Not sp0nsored I just really love these products ☺️)

#Therabreath #DentalCare #Mouthwash #HygieneRoutine

#LTKselfcare #LTKOver40 #LTKvlog

We had so much fun yesterday evening celebrating the grand opening of @thesoundtx newest wellness space, @heightswellness_cypresswaters! ☺️

I wore my new @ionixslabs leggings to the event, and they were so comfortable—almost as comfortable as the Heights Vibro-acoustic lounge chair that almost made me fall asleep, it was so relaxing 😂.

The cherry on the top was finding this new matcha pop-up @daphneys.ampm that shares the same name as me! 🌺

Thank you to everyone who was involved for pulling together this great event, and thank you to Ionix for sending me a great fit to match! 🩶

#Community #DFW #Ionix #ActiveWear

#LTKdayinmylife #LTKvlog #LTKActive

Kinda chic to start your own boutique matchmaking & coaching business at 55 🩵

#KindaChic #Matchmaker #DatingCoach #SmallContentCreator #StartingOver

Kinda chic to find your forever person at 59 🤭

Kinda chic to start working as a content creator for brands at 62 💁🏽‍♀️

#LTKdayinmylife #LTKOver40 #LTKWorkwear

Are women still looking for "traditional" relationships?

As a matchmaker, my experience working with women has been really interesting in the sense that I primarily work with women over 30, and in my experience that demographic of women aren't necessarily looking to be in “traditional” relationships.

They are looking for companionship and partnership, and in some cases marriage, but not many of them are interested in starting a family and being a stay at home mom or stay at home wife. A lot of them have already spent years building a career and are happy with what they’ve built, and aren’t looking to give that up. Others already have teenage or adult children from previous relationships and aren’t looking to expand their family in that way. Whatever the reason, I’m finding that not many of the women I work with are interested in “traditional” relationships.

What do y’all think? Let me know below!

#DatingAdvice #DatingTrends #DateCoach #Matchmaker

#LTKdayinmylife #LTKOver40 #LTKvlog

🎶 I’m in love, I’m obsessed 🎶

I recently got the @Shapermint Scoopneck Bodysuit in the mail, and I’m already a fan! 🪭

I like that you can wear it more casually like I’m doing in the video, or under a dress or skirt for more coverage or to reduce chaffing.

I paired it with the Sweetheart Strapless Bra for a bit more support, and I love that you can barely tell I’m wearing it under the bodysuit.

Let me know if you want the 🔗 to either piece and I’ll DM it to you!

🛍️ Use code FERNCREW20 to get 20% off on your first order! Sale pieces included 🩷

#Shapermint #CapsuleWardrobe #SummerOutfits #SmallContentCreators

#LTKootd #LTKOver40 #LTKWorkwear

Thank you so much to @Chewy for sending over this wonderful care package 🥳!

As a proud pet mom and gammy, I love being able to spoil all of the fur babies in my life, and chewy is always one of our go to places, especially for our baby Roman 🐾🤍.

You make our family very happy Chewy! ☺️

#Chewy #CatTreats #CatSupplies #DogTreats

#LTKdayinmylife #LTKmomlife #LTKstorytime

I’m giving these habits a 10/10! 🤩

I’d love to know: what habits are y’all doing to stay sane these days? 😂

#gratitude #wellness #1010 #habits #healthyhabits

#LTKselfcare #LTKOver40 #LTKstorytime

Wearing all black so I don’t bring attention to myself on the creek 🤫😂

Black Polo and Shoes: @amazonfashion
Pants: @onequince
Dress: @loft

I’ll have everything linked on my LTK!

@shop.ltk @ltk.creators #OOTD #WhatToWear #OutfitInspo #CapsuleWardrobe #MicroInfluencer

#LTKootd #LTKOver40 #LTKWorkwear

Midweek Check-in: Hubby is sick and since neither of us got a lot of sleep last night, I want to make sure that we are both good this morning.

#facemask #husband #wife #partner #selfcareroutine

#LTKdayinmylife #LTKstorytime #LTKselfcare

Don’t miss your chance to save up to 70% off @Shapermint favorites and more for their Black Friday in July sale! 🛍️

PLUS, for first time buyers you can use our code “FERNCREW20” to stack your savings, and get an extra 20% off your full order!

💞 Some of my featured favorites are:
The new Jelly Bra
The Bandeau Bra
The Scoop Neck Bralette

(Wearing a size L in all—I’m a size 36G for reference)

Let us know in the comments if you pick something up! 🫶🏽

Happy Shopping ☺️

#BlackFridayInJuly #SummerSales #ShapermintBras

#LTKdayinmylife #LTKOver40 #LTKWorkwear

Is it ever okay to be someone’s rebound? 👀

Honestly...maybe!

As long as you and the other person know that this is what you’re doing and you’re truly okay with that then why not 🤷🏽‍♀️.

The key is to remember to check in with yourself, and the other person to see if your feelings have changed, and if necessary, move forward from there.

Remember: only you can decide what is good for you, so don’t be afraid to tell yourself the truth.

#DatingAdvice #DatingCoach

#LTKdayinmylife #LTKWorkwear #LTKOver40

We are wearing stripes this summer!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

Dear Lover offered to send me a few pieces to try out, and when I saw these shorts sets online, I knew I had to pick these up.

And let me tell y’all—the material is soft, the quality is great, and I love that the sets are comfortable enough to lounge around the house in, but pulled together enough to go out and run errands in too.

I’ll have all of the item numbers, and the sizes I got them in below, but if you want to try out Dear Lover for yourself you can use code “KOLZDDfern” for $40 off your first purchase of $100 or more on their website!

1st set (blue and white stripes) item number LC629175-P505 wearing a size L
2nd set (yellow and blue stripes) item number LC628749-P719 wearing a size XL
3rd set (black and white stripes) item number LC629135-P219 wearing a size L

For reference I’m 5’1 (and a half 😂)!

#summerfashion #matchingsets #stripes #dearloverwholesale affordablefinds

#LTKdayinmylife #LTKOver40 #LTKWorkwear

GRWM: Sunday Funday Reset, @Dove Beauty & Personal Care

There are some Sunday’s that I get up really early and take a very long bath. I consider it a way of detoxing as the sweat pours out of my body and I start to feel relaxation covering my entire soul.

#dove #selfcare #sundayreset #sundayfunday #HygieneProducts

#LTKgrwm #LTKselfcare #LTKOver40

5 things that I think are actually WORTH your money (and time) as a Date & Relationship Coach and Professional 🥳

🌟 Full list below! ⬇️

1. A good selfcare routine
2. Date coaching! 😏
3. A capsule wardrobe 👕👖
4. A journal 📘
5. A good hygiene routine 🦷🧼🧖🏽‍♂️

We’ll have all of our recommendations linked on our LTK for you to check out!

Plus, let us know in the comments what your go to staples or must haves are!

#WorthTheMoney #HygieneProducts #Selfcare #CapsuleWardrobe #Journaling

@lumedeodorant @therabreath @loft @pacsun @levis @amazonfashion @amazonbeauty

#LTKdayinmylife #LTKOver40 #LTKselfcare