This one is beautiful, and maybe even true for some people. But I think we need to ask a harder question: Why are we so comfortable loving people who do not make us feel safe enough to come to them when life falls apart? Maybe the real goal is not choosing between the person you love and the person who loves you. Maybe the real goal is refusing to settle until they are the same person. Link for dress and shoe below LTKootd LTKstorytime LTKOver40