Follow + Comment BUTTERFLY and I’ll send you my guide on the 11 habits that have turned my 30s into the best decade yet as a late bloomer whose 30s didn’t look like the original plan. OK BUT WHAT IF YOU SET YOURSELF UP FOR REJECTION? This is your tiny experiment number one Last week I did an experiment of setting myself up for rejection for 3 days. It solidified what we already know - “you don’t know if you don’t ask” The thing is, getting a no stings and a lot of times we have a sense of when we’re going to get a no anyway so it’s easy to say “I’ll just put my energy somewhere else so it’s not a waste of time” The more comfortable we can get with getting a no, the more comfortable we get asking and the more opportunities and doors open up. Let me know if you want to know what happened on day 2 and where you have a feeling opening yourself up to rejection could lead you to a yes that you might be closing yourself off from. Glow up, 30s glow up, personal growth, feeling behind, feeling stuck, how to deal with rejection,