One thing I can say about 2019 is that it’s a year of learning. Forced at some times, but learning and growing is happening. The difference is this year my fear is gone. I don’t care about “keeping” people in my life, I make room and if they want to stay they will, I don’t care about stigma and pressure, I’m going to be 30, no kids, no house, never married and I’m STILL a bad b*tch, I don’t care about the things others do, I want to learn about myself and grow my love and happiness and choose respecting me over tolerating others, I don’t care about “consequences” anymore because the only consequence of a full, self respecting and growth centric life is freedom. Everything meant for me will come at just the right moment and I only need to be brave enough to go for it when it does. No fear, no tolerating outside BS, no hesitation, the me I’m meant to be is waiting for me to show up and I’m not about to disappoint her. Q: Who do you think YOU are? * * http://liketk.it/2C98U @liketoknow.it lifestyleblog lifestyleblogger ootd styleblog styleblogger mystyle wiw whatiwore portlandblogger pdxblogger pdxstyleblog bloggerstyle styleinspo beautyblog wellnessblog bloggerbabes whatiamwearing inmycloset dailystyle casualootd urbiqqstyle URBIQQVotes memorialdayweekend downtownpdx reddress redmididress summerootd topshop liketkit