1. you’re avoiding anything fitted because you think you have to now 2. you stopped wearing color because it feels “too young” 3. you’re covering up parts of your body you used to love for no real reason 4. you think trendy isn’t for you anymore 5. you’re shopping in the same places you shopped in your 30s and wondering why nothing feels right 6. you’ve said “i’m too old for that” about something you actually loved 7. everything in your closet is “safe” and nothing makes you feel anything 8. you dress for your age instead of how you actually feel 9. you’ve stopped experimenting because you think that ship has sailed 10. you look put together but you don’t feel like yourself anymore here’s how to fix this🥂 1. fitted doesn’t mean tight — it means your clothes actually fit your body right now, not the body you had or the body you want 2. add color back in one way — a bag, a shoe, a lip. you don’t have to go all in. Also, knowing which colors compliment your skin tone does wonders. You can ask Chat to help you with that. 3. pick one thing you’ve been covering up and stop. you’ve earned that confidence 4. trends don’t have an age limit — you just need the luxe version of them, not the fast fashion version 5. find someone who looks like you and dresses the way you want to — then shop exactly where she shops 6. try the thing you keep talking yourself out of. once. you can always return it. 7. get rid of anything in your closet that doesn’t make you feel something when you put it on 8. ask yourself how you want to feel today and dress for that — not for what 42 is “supposed” to look like 9. add one unexpected piece to every outfit — a hat, a bold bag, an interesting shoe. that’s the whole secret. 10. stop dressing for the woman people expect you to be and start dressing for the woman you actually are linking everything that makes me feel like a million bucks LTKOver40 LTKstorytime LTKdayinmylife

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