Well, didn’t this look create a little frenzy on stories when I shared it yesterday? So, I thought it deserved a square of its own and also the story behind it… You see I never planned to wear this look, it was something that I pulled together at the last minute after a crisis of confidence. I’d planned to wear a totally different outfit, I’d planned it out and it was ready to go but something didn’t feel right about it. So after a little play in my wardrobe I put this look together and it was the look I wore and felt good in. As a Personal Stylist, I think there is the perception that I always know what to wear to every occasion. Don’t get me wrong, on most occasions that’s true but on this evening it wasn’t. I felt uneasy about the other look I had pre-selected, something just didn’t feel quite right. I started to critique myself and those of you that know me, or have followed me for a while, will know that self loathing is not something that’s acceptable. It’s never ok. Cue a little wardrobe rummage, a quick styling session et voilà! This look was born. When I’m working with my Personal Styling clients I am so decisive, my trained eye can scan an outfit and know it’s a winner or not straight away. I find it easy to create looks and be objective. But when it comes to my own wardrobe I can, sometimes, be my worst critic. My own worst enemy. We find it easy to see the flaws in ourselves, but only the wonderful parts of others. If you wouldn’t say it to your friend/sister/daughter then why is it acceptable to say it to yourself? It’s not. So be as kind to yourself as you would to others. Knock that self critical devil off your shoulder, look in the mirror and celebrate all that you are instead of focussing on all you think you’re not. Mind set and language are important tools for our self image. Use them wisely. STYLE NOTES: I’ve linked the items or similar on my @shop.ltk account. As I shopped my wardrobe, most of the pieces are no longer available but I’ve found close alternatives. Download the LTK app and follow me or click the link in my bio. clarewatkinspersonalstyling selflovematters personalstylistmanchester personalstylistcheshire size16