While grabbing lunch with a friend recently, I was given some advice that has been living rent free in my mind ever since. Now, it can live with you also. We were talking about getting into relationships, but it’s just as applicable to friendships. Essentially she said to “be what you seek”. If you are searching for kindness, show it to others. If you want loyalty, get a good understanding of what that means and do likewise. Tonight’s looks come from a request that involves a relationship heading to Ojai Valley, so I suppose that fits though I’m definitely leaning on my artistic license. I mostly just wanted to share that thought. What is something you seek that you personally want to work on? This might be something that you want to set for a new year’s resolution. Or not. Either way, those four words are now yours to sit on as well. #LTKGiftGuide