Marriage can feel exhausting, especially when you’re raising a big family, or honestly, even a small one. It’s easy to grow tired. It’s easy to grow complacent. And if we’re not careful, that’s where resentment quietly starts to grow. What I’ve learned is this: love can’t just live in words. It has to be followed by action. Even on the hardest days. Even when we’re both not feeling our best. This was me running a bath for my husband while he was sick with a stomach bug. Nothing grand. Nothing performative. Just choosing to see him, care for him, and remind him that he is deeply loved in every capacity. My husband and I are committed to showing up for each other, not just when it’s easy, but when it matters most. This is me choosing him. And I hope it encourages other couples to do the same, love each other loudly, quietly, and consistently.