Fall outfit ideas. Fall dresses, Amazon dresses, beige dress, denim dress. Comment Assertive for phrases to use & tips to use to help you stop taking it personally when someone dislikes you or excludes you for no reason. All found inside my members area, Assertive You. & Comment OUTFIT for links to what I’m wearing. As for the 3 reasons why you trigger people: -You did more with less. They can’t explain it, so they put you down. -They see you as competition. So “good for her,” becomes, “why not me?” So they go quiet or turn cold. -You show up happy & confident, just being yourself & suddenly the whispers or eye rolls start. You remind them of what they’re missing. People aren’t really triggered by you. They’re triggered by what being around you brings up in them. It’s not really you. It’s what they feel when you walk in the room. About Christie, Dr. C: I’m a Johns Hopkins-trained clinical psychologist with a background in CBT, DBT, behavioral psychology, and motivational models. I blend evidence-based strategies with lived experience to help you handle mean girls, navigate parenting challenges, set real boundaries, make new friends, and stop shrinking in your friendships. LTKStyleTip LTKNYFW LTKCon