42 and spent a decade figuring out how to actually look better as i age. here's everything that I did 1.the haircut - i had long hair for years and thought it was making me look younger. it was doing the opposite. 2.melasma - if you're struggling with this, you must try the Obagi Nu-Derm Clear. I can't link it because you need a script for it. Mix it with your tretinoin! I will link the one that is not a strong and you don't need a script for, but it will take longer to work. Also keeping the sun off my face is key. 3.lip lift - the lip lift shortened my philtrum and made my face more feminine looking 4.jeans - I could easily throw away all my other jeans and just keep this pair. These jeans have transformed my wardrobe 5.teeth bonding - small chips and uneven edges that id lived with forever. fixing them made me actually want to smile in photos. 6.Teeth bleaching - my teeth have never looked so white 7.skincare - the shift for me was focusing on barrier protection first, then layering in microneedling and growth factors. Linked the products I use religiously. Let me know if you want me to mention what lasers and treatments I get. 8.makeup - started focusing more on a classic look rather than a trendy look. All my go-to products are linked. 9. workouts - running kept me small but soft. lifting actually changed my shape in a way cardio never did. i've never felt more confident in my body. 10. Treatments- I get two fractionated coolpeels and at least 4 treatments of microneedling with PDGF a yr. Also get IPL done yearly and sculptra and Botox 11.style - stopped second guessing every bold choice and started wearing exactly what i want. Linked my favorite bold pieces. LTKstorytime LTKOver40 LTKBeauty