Comment Friend for what to do next, if you find that this is happening to you. As for the 3 things that happen when you’re being pushed out of a group: They start investing more in someone else but that relationship gets fast tracked. They’re suddenly close in a way that took you years and the speed is your tell. They are surprisingly warm towards you but only in public & in front of others but then go cold & are distant when it’s just the two of you. They stop circling back. A text goes unanswered, plans fall through, and instead of reconnecting later, they just let the distance grow.