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Happy Wednesday friends! I thought today about how much fear dictates our lives.. We are wired to fear the unknown. I am guilty of it. I was thinking about how often I’ve made decisions and cancelled plans that revolved around my fear of new situations. . I was a very shy kid growing up but that all changed when I went to college- I came out of my shell so to speak and started becoming more confident. However, till this day- I’ve hesitated Shop your screenshot of this pic with the LIKEtoKNOW.it shopping app Shop my daily looks by following me on the LIKEtoKNOW.it shopping app reaching out to a huge publication or brand because of fear of rejection. I’ve hesitated writing and finishing my book because of fear it would never get published. We all have fears, but it’s up to us to make a conscious decision to not let it not dictate how we grow as individuals. . . I read a quote on @bossbabe that resonated with me: ‘ do it scared. Do it knowing you won’t know everything. Do it even though you don’t feel ready. Do it without perfection. Take a leap and go for it.’ Imagine all the amazing experiences and opportunities we could be missing if we didn’t take risks. After all, the most successful people are those that failed many times. So do something out of your comfort zone today and see how you feel;) http://liketk.it/2Xd8m liketkit @liketoknow.it

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Happy Wednesday my friends! Do ever wonder why certain people come into your life? Is it to teach a lesson? To challenge you? To reveal your best self? And why do some appear and leave as suddenly as they appear? I personally believe each person you come across that makes any impact on you ( good or bad) makes you grow and become stronger as an individual. This quote spoke to me today:
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‘ Life doesn’t always give too people that you want. It gives you the people you need; to help you, to hurt you, to love you, to leave you and to help you grow into the person you are meant to be.’ @luluandlattes
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What do you think? Do you believe people show up in your life for a reason? COMMENT below. Would LOVE to hear from you! http://liketk.it/2XI9m #liketkit @liketoknow.it Shop my daily looks by following me on the LIKEtoKNOW.it shopping app

Happy Monday! How was your weekend? #notsponsored I am a big believer that jewelry can truly make an outfit. It can add a touch of glamour to a boring t-shirt or cardigan. It really can elevate any look. This fall, I seem to be gravitating towards chain link necklaces , chunky gold bracelets, and layered looks. I think my love of jewelry can be traced to the talents on my great grandmother- she was a designer for @tiffanyandco and I still have some amazing heirloom pieces that she designed. What type of jewelry are you investing in this fall? Comment below- would love to hear from you! http://liketk.it/2XyTZ #liketkit @liketoknow.it Shop my daily looks by following me on the LIKEtoKNOW.it shopping app

As a mom to 2 young kids living in a pandemic, I have experienced a plethora of emotions- frustration, anger, sadness, feeling overwhelmed, loneliness interspersed with little moments of happiness. The little moments of happiness come when I make a conscious decision to live in the moment. I can’t change the past and I can’t predict the future, but I know my kids aren’t going to be little forever and I have been making every effort to put down my phone and enjoy spending time with them- even if it’s as simple as going on a nature walk. I have to say, it’s been really hard - really hard to parent during this challenging time. On Instagram, we see beautiful pictures and idyllic images. But these are just a snapshot of what is going on in our lives. In reality, I’m not perfect. I’m just trying my hardest to stay afloat on some days.
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We never know the full story or what goes on behind closed doors- that is why we can never make assumptions about people’s lives. We all have emotions, struggles and problems. And that’s ok- instead of judging other moms on their decisions or opinions, let’s just be kind. The world could always use more kindness. Any moms like to share their pandemic challenges? Comment below- would love to hear that I’m not alone.
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Also, I’ve linked a bunch of my favorite Aqua Bendita dresses through LIKEtoKNOW.it.it. @Masionette often collaborates with big name brands to create mommy and me matching looks and most recently, they are offering these adorable matching rainbow dresses in collaboration with Caroline Constas. http://liketk.it/2Wguu #liketkit @liketoknow.it Shop your screenshot of this pic with the LIKEtoKNOW.it shopping app

I hope everyone had a wonderful Labor Day weekend! It’s funny, I used to follow fashion rules to a ‘T’ in my 20s. Now I make my own rules lol- fashion is all about expressing your individuality and wearing what makes you feel good. Comment below on the common myths that you follow or don’t follow:
1) no wearing white after Labor Day (I personally love all white monochrome outfits and will be wearing all year long)
2) no mini skirts after 35 ( Sorry Stacey London- I’m 40 and legs are my best asset so I’ll be rocking one as long as I can.)
3) No Metallics or sequins during the day. ( I break this one all the time- I love a sequin top with jeans)
4) Navy and Black don’t go together ( actually they do, the same goes for brown and black. Mixing the color combo in prints or patterns can be so chic)
5) Match your handbag to your shoes ( I’m guilty of this- but there are so many options for handbags - adding different textures for example)
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Current mood- wear pink and unwind at the pool or beach. I need to de-stress after the nightmare of my account being hacked earlier this week. Thanks to the voices of my followers and friends, I was able to fight and get my account back. For all of those people who reported my account as being impersonated, I thank you bc it garnered enough attention to make some noise.
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But, you know what? This incident has only ignited my fire to grow my business even more and made me stronger as a person. I will not let them bring me down. As read a quote today on the @bossbabe account that reads - ‘ let me be clear, I didn’t come this far, to ONLY come this far.’
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Dreams and aspirations cannot be stolen - they live in YOU. You are in charge of your destiny. YOU are in charge of choosing to give up or move forward when you face adversity. I urge you, my friends, that despite the pandemic and all the bad things that have happened in 2020, please keep your head up and know that better things are ahead- we must keep hope and continue to fight. Love to all of you! A special thanks to @alexandramiro for the gifted Whitney and Belinda gown. My pieces are linked- simply follow me on liketoknow.it. http://liketk.it/2VTHt #liketkit @liketoknow.it You can instantly shop my looks by following me on the LIKEtoKNOW.it shopping app

Hi friends! Today we are celebrating International Women’s Day with @saksoff5th! Saks Off 5th partnered with Girls Inc. to create a beautiful gold vermeil paper clip necklace. The necklace retails for $40 and 15% of the net proceeds will benefit Girls Inc- a non profit organization that empowers girls to be strong, smart and bold. ( SWIPE FOR NECKLACE IMAGE). The delicate paper clips represent women linking together to encourage and support each other’s dreams.
As a mom to a little girl, IWD is very important to me as it continues to bring awareness to women’s rights and equality. We need to build each other up and empower each other today and every day. Click on my LTK links for the necklace and our outfits. Remember, each sale goes to an amazing cause! Buy one for your girlfriend, mom, sister or partner. A special thank goes out to Deanna and the Saks Off 5th team! http://liketk.it/2L9ha #liketkit @liketoknow.it Shop your screenshot of this pic with the LIKEtoKNOW.it shopping app

MOM. BOSS. ENTREPRENEUR. ROLEMODEL. WARRIOR We play many roles. We have many titles. We are expert multi-taskers and problem-solvers. We are nurturing, caring and we are strong. One of my favorite things about being an entrepreneur and influencer is getting to meet amazing, strong, and powerful boss babes who are taking a similar path in life. One of these ladies is my gorgeous friend, @thefashionhousemom. It’s so important, as women, to support each other and put our differences aside. This industry can be catty, but we need to lift each other up- remember, we are stronger in numbers and together can conquer any challenge. We had so much fun shooting together- what do you think, should we do more? http://liketk.it/2KWds #liketkit @liketoknow.it

Hi friends! Wishing you a very happy holiday season! Took a few days way from social media to spend time with family and friends. I have to tell you, this is the first time my daughter has cooperated for a shoot and I cherish the images.
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My daughter likes cars... trucks, balls, trains, buildings and anything that boys are into. She is not a girlie girl like me, so I was surprised when she wanted to step into this adorable dress from the @janieandjack collaboration with @junovalentine.
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That’s the thing about kids- they are their own person and develop their individual likes and dislikes. You can’t force them into anything- they are going to follow their own path. I support my daughter in all she does- so if she wants to be a engineer or architect and build buildings, then I’m totally fine with that:)

Comment below what your favorite activity is below for the holiday season- I personally love making cookies with my daughter.
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MY DAUGHTER DOESN’T SAY MUCH...
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Well, we have had her in speech therapy for a few months and she still doesn’t speak yet in full sentences. I just think she is stubborn and doesn’t say anything until she really means it.
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THERE IS THIS GIRL at school , let’s call her ‘Joy’ for the sake of privacy, who is in Sloane’s preschool class. Joy is the sweetest little girl with a big heart. Joy was born with one arm. The little kids don’t notice her handicap. The big kids do. Sloane’s teacher pulled me aside the other day and said’ you know , you have one compassionate and caring daughter.’ Then she proceeded to tell me a story...
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Joy was playing on the playground and an older boy poked fun at her. The teacher shooed him away, but Joy appeared sullen. Sloane ( who again rarely says much), comes over to Joy unprompted, puts her arm around her, and says gently’ you are beautiful.’ They then held hands and began to play.
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Honestly people- we need more kindness in this world. Let’s lift each other up and embrace our differences. The ironic thing is, to kids who are ages 2 and 3- friendship doesn’t have a color. An ethnicity. A gender. A body state. Friendship is simply a concept based on enjoying life together and sharing laughs about the same things. It’s really up to parents to make sure it stays that way. #preachkindness
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My outfit is last year’s @veronicabeard, but you can shop similar suits and my daughter’s @janieandjack outfits by following me on @liketoknow.it #liketkit http://liketk.it/2GMCq

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The @bahamas is a special place for me...I have been there 4 times. The most recent trip was for my #babymoon. I am always received by the friendliest of people and am constantly in awe of the natural beauty of the islands. This is the place I celebrated the miracle of being pregnant with my second #ivf baby. I swam in the clear waters while feeling the fluttering of a little heartbeat inside of me. The place has this ability to melt away your stress and give you a sense of peace. The oceans are filled with active sea life- from sharks to colorful reef fish to sea turtles. It’s a place that reminds you to take a step back and appreciate the little things in life.
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FLASH FORWARD: Grand Bahama and great Abaco were hit 3 times by an Category 5 hurricane last week. According to @cnn , the death toll has risen to over 30 deaths and the aftermath of the hurricane has left 70,000 people homeless.
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TODAY I want to use my influence as a digital creator to give back. It is a great responsibility for all influencers to help society and those in need and I was so sad when I read the message posted by Bahamanian @itscryan and photographer @byjamiebruce . The post basically says that he was shocked that influencers will come to the island to take pictures but after the Bahamas was hit by Hurricane Dorian, very few took to social media to bring attention to the destruction of Grand Bahama and Abaco in the wake of the hurricane’s path. A big thank you big Influencers like @marisa for mentioning this issue. Retailers like @veronicabeard and @vineyardvines are also making donations. I am stepping up today and saying that I will donate a $1 to the @bahamas_redcross_society for every comment I receive below. Also follow @thecoveatlantis @atlantisbahamas who are teaming up with local chefs and rescue aids to provide food and other essentials to those that have been displaced from their homes. And follow locals, like my maternity photographer, @leocrearyphoto for more information on how you can donate to the cause. Sending my love and many positive thoughts to those affected by Hurricane Dorian. #muchlove #bahamasatheart #influencersgiveback #bahamasstrong http://liketk.it/2ELzP #liketkit @liketoknow.it
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I read something on another blogger’s page that really resonated with me today. Life is not a race. It doesn’t have a timetable or schedule that everyone has to follow. And the comparison game is a waste of time simply because we all accomplish things by our own terms and at our own pace. Don’t beat yourself up for where you are. I decided to have kids later on in life and that worked for me. Technically I might have had more energy in my twenties, but I am more confident now and had more time to explore career paths and travel. Be happy with life in the present and strive to be a better version of yourself rather than trying to ‘keep up’ with someone else.

This dress by @forte is now on super sale at @shopbop! Shop now for this showstopper by following me on liketoknow.it. What I loved about the dress is the colors change at every angle in the sunshine. See second photo for other variation.

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Happy Sunday friends! As I continue to tell my story in the present, I reflect on this photo when I was 5 months pregnant. I was hardly showing, but embracing my little bump in this chic Adriana Degreas swimsuit I got from @yoox for a bargain! Our toddler, Sloane, stayed home and I got to enjoy sunny, relaxing days by the Glamourous Cove pool at the Atlantis resort. I remember being so relieved that I could finally say goodbye to my constant nausea and HG. And I started to feel my baby boy kick inside of me- such sweet moments. I recommend anyone who needs a baby moon to go to the amazing @atlantis! Linking my swimsuit and shoes here. http://liketk.it/2E4WY #liketkit @liketoknow.it

Hello my wonderful friends and followers! I am back. I have a story to tell- and like all stories mine has a beginning, a middle and an end. Because some time has passed, I want to start with this photo I took on my babymoon when I was 5 months pregnant. Honestly, at this stage in my pregnancy I felt genuinely beautiful. I didn’t care if my growing belly was protruding over my swimsuit or that my hips were expanding. It’s amazing how pregnancy gives you an instant confidence boost- I was so proud of the fact I was growing a human being, that many of my body image insecurities seemed to vanish. I had such a wonderful time in the Bahamas at Atlantis and it was the perfect place to unwind and enjoy a holiday- it’s the perfect place for couples, families and kids. I highly recommend! Thanks to Leo for capturing this image! http://liketk.it/2DSLY #liketkit @liketoknow.it Shop my daily looks by following me on the LIKEtoKNOW.it app

Happy Friday everyone!
3 Things I want for my daughter: @empoweringwomennow
1. I want her to see her beauty without a compliment or a mirror
2. I want her to have the courage to stand up for others
3. The ability to say ‘no’ to anything in her life that does not bring her happiness.
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Happy Valentine’s Day my loves! Swipe right to see my mini and me (third photo) .Couldn’t think of a more perfect outfit to showcase then this gorgeous @oscardelarenta pink suit I found on @theoutnet. This outfit makes me feel like I am channeling my inner Jessica Rabbit- took this before I was pregnant, but I have been wanting this look for the longest time since it came out last spring. When I found this on the OUTNET, I was escstatic- you’d be amazed what you can find on their site for a huge percentage off retail.
On a personal note, I have been inactive on social media because frankly in my second trimester, I am feeling exhausted and devoid of energy. Taking our babymoom next week so I am hoping to feel revived. Missing you all! Thanks for your support. http://liketk.it/2zVRa #liketkit @liketoknow.it Shop your screenshot of this pic with the LIKEtoKNOW.it app

Hi my lovely friends! I am back after taking a break... it’s been tough with my health journey to keep up on posts, but I’ll share when I can! A heartfelt congratulations to all the runners/finishers of the NYC marathon today. It has always been a dream of mine to qualify and run that race, so when I get my health back together I’m hoping to train in a year or two. What’s your long term goal? http://liketk.it/2y55M #liketkit @liketoknow.it Shop your screenshot of this pic with the LIKEtoKNOW.it app

Happy Tuesday everyone! Still on cloud 9 after meeting @reecewitherspoon last night at her book launch. She was amazing, y’all!
On another note, I wanted to thank Lexus for helping me run from Show to Show during #NYFW. The cars were luxurious and saved me from the wrath of rain storms on multiple occasions. Did anyone else attend fashion week? What were your favorite SS19 trends? http://liketk.it/2xofy #liketkit @liketoknow.it Shop my daily looks by following me on the LIKEtoKNOW.it app

It’s arrived- one of my favorite times of the year; the Lilly Pulitzer after-party sale. My mini me and I have sported several matching outfits from Lilly Pulitzer this summer and I plan on buying a few more on sale. Although these super cute Piet cover ups are not on sale, I have linked a few of my favorite LP cover ups that are steal! Cheers to #summer365 !
On another note, thanks to everyone for their ongoing support- fashion week has not been kind to me this year, but I am stepping back to focus on my baby girl. Her smile makes all of my worries and troubles fade. After the untimely death of an amazing Instagram style icon, it makes me re evaluate what’s important in life- if you have your health, you truly have everything. I keep this in mind while I embark on my own medical journey this month. Hope everyone has a wonderful week! http://liketk.it/2xiyt #liketkit @liketoknow.it Shop my daily looks by following me on the LIKEtoKNOW.it app

Happy Labor Day everyone! Not ready to turn my back on summer yet... after all, it is still officially summer until September 22. We just spent a week at my parents’ lake house where I took time to unplug from social media and enjoy time with my family. We enjoyed riding in my dad’s boat, watching Sloane run around in the kiddie pool and I got to see my dad shred his guitar at his band’s local gig. I honestly feel so revived after living a week without checking my phone constantly- helped me truly live in ‘real life’ mode. How was your weekend??? PS found this amazing @joie dress at a steal at @nordstromrack. Check my LTK links for exact dress and other options! http://liketk.it/2xd73 #liketkit @liketoknow.it Shop my daily looks by following me on the LIKEtoKNOW.it app

To my daughter- “I loved you from the very start. You stole my breath, embraced my heart. Our life together has just begun. You’re part of me, my little one.” Hope everyone is having a wonderful weekend!! http://liketk.it/2xcii #liketkit @liketoknow.it Shop my daily looks by following me on the LIKEtoKNOW.it app

Advice from the ocean: Be shore of yourself. Come out of your shell. Take time to coast. Avoid Pier pressure. Sea life’s beauty. Don’t get ride down. And most importantly, MAKE Waves? What are your plans for the holiday weekend? I think you know where I’ll be... be sure to check out this swimsuit and my other LTK picks by following @ginnyscloset. http://liketk.it/2xaWl #liketkit @liketoknow.it Shop your screenshot of this pic with the LIKEtoKNOW.it app

Thought of the day: Be like F. Scott’s Fitzgerald’s definition of beautiful... something that goes beyond skin deep. “She was beautul. But not like those girls in magazines. She was beautiful for the way she thought. For the sparkle in her eye when she passionately talked about something she loved. She was beautiful for her ability to make other people smile, even if she was sad. She was beautiful, deep down to her soul.” http://liketk.it/2x9mY #liketkit @liketoknow.it Shop my daily looks by following me on the LIKEtoKNOW.it app

Do you remember the moments that made you feel most alive? The moments that sent electric currents through your body. The ones that made you feel invigorated. I think life is defined by those moments. Don’t you wish sometimes you could rewind and experience those moments again? Mine would be my first kiss at 13 yrs old- leaning over to kiss a boy I had a crush on while we rode in a pedal boat. Sitting on the roof of a fraternity with my then boyfriend-watching a once in a lifetime meteor shower with thousands of falling stars. A moment I didn’t need to capture via phone- the feeling and the visual are etched in my mind forever. The blissful joy and elation I felt when I looked in my daughter’s eyes for the first time. You see, the most beautiful moments of joy happen in sips, not gulps. That’s why it’s so important to occasionally put down the phone and live in the moment. What are some of your favorite moments in your life? http://liketk.it/2x4Lp #liketkit @liketoknow.it Shop my daily looks by following me on the LIKEtoKNOW.it app

Happy Wednesday everyone! I don’t know about you, but I am always on the hunt for new, fresh fragrances. Banana Republic's ICON fragrance collection is perfect for the discerning consumer and features elegant scents that are reminiscent of nature. The collection debuted in May 2017 with 5 fragrances, each available in 75mL and 15Ml: Vintage Green, Pure White, Leather Reserve, Black Platinum and Oud Mosaic. In May 2018 three additional scents were launched including, Linen Vetiver, Cypress Cedar and Neroli Woods. Finding clean scents that aren't necessarily overpowering, are very important to me. This bottle of Pure White is one of my favorites - it has notes of green tea, jasmine, lavender and musk. It is a sensual fragrance that gives me that just-showered sensation and is ideal for everyday wear. #ad
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Am I completely fearless? No. But I’m less fearful than when I was younger. Ironic right? Kids are supposed to be the ones with a sense of invincibility that gives them the courage to do things without hesitation. I remember those little kids who would rush down the ski hill next to me- carefree and filled with confidence. As opposed to my younger, shyer self- I am now open to taking more risks in my adulthood. Trying new things. Not letting fear of failure have a grip on me. So, finally applied to write for a magazine. I decided I didn’t care what my body looked like when I went running - I could bare my belly without fear of scrutiny. And I could go to industry events and new situations by myself and know that I could handle any challenge thrown my way. I’m drawn towards adventure now. No, I won’t go sky diving, but I’ll try surfing lessons or I’ll wear that bikini that’s been sitting my closet forever. As Dale Carnegie said, ‘ if you want to conquer fear, don’t sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy. That embodies a true entrepreurial spirit. Be bold. Be strong. But always be true to you. http://liketk.it/2x19S #liketkit @liketoknow.it Shop my daily looks by following me on the LIKEtoKNOW.it app

Being a parent is a privilege... I learned that the hard way. When we found out our only option to conceive was through IVF, we were devestated. I was so scared about the process and anxious about whether I would become a mom or not. And I kept quiet about it because it felt taboo to discuss it with anyone. I felt alone. But somehow I garnered immense inner strength to get through it- did you know that over 50% of women drop out at various stages of the IVF process bc it’s incredibly challenging. There are many ups and downs. But for the women thinking about or going through IVF, believe me, it’s worth every damn shot ( pardon my French). Be strong. Have faith. My little girl is the best thing to ever happen to me and even when I am exhausted, frustrated, and the days are seemingly endless, I remember what I went through to have her. And I remind myself that she is a gift that I will never take for granted. I will always walk through life by her side.
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